I am almost 15 and my brother is almost 16 and i had been seeing him running to and from the bathroom sometimes completly naked and wearing the loose boxer shorts and seeing his thing pop out alot. So I said something to him this morning and he said , we have been seeing each other since we have grown up, why now does it bother me, i said it doesnt really bother me its just different seeing you! He said how, and i was to embarressed to say cause i see his thing is bigger and pops out alot. He then told me dont look then! But sometimes I cant help to look cause its just there, and curious to me! Is thats so wrong? Has anybody had the same?
2006-11-22 00:49:04 · 18 answers · asked by karen t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No sexual thoughts are even an issue with me, just curious to see what it looked like! and wondered if other sisters had the same!
2006-11-22 01:04:44 · update #1
hmmm. . .well, there is a grain of truth to what your brother is saying. He is family, and I think people are far too concerned about seeing nudity within families. My family and I weren't quite so weird about it. Not that we walked around naked all the time, but if I walked in on my mom while she was changing (and strangely enough, it happened a lot), it was no big deal. Yes, I'm a woman, but whenever my brother did the same thing, it still was no biggie. Nudity doesn't always have to be sexual. We just live in a society that perceives it that way: being naked means sex. And that's not right.
I don't think there's a problem with you being curious. Curiousness doesn't mean sex either. I think it depends on how you feel when you see him nearly nude. Does it make you think sexually? If it does, that could be a problem. If it doesn't, it's more like, "Oh, cool! So THAT'S what it looks like!", then I don't see a problem. You could always not look, though.
All that said, your brother could just be an exhibitionist and like flashing his business about the place. And that will most likely be a problem in the future.
2006-11-22 00:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm a girl 14 I see my brothers and stepdad butt naked a lot u get use to it was kind of weird the one time when my stepdad got stiff th ok
2014-06-05 06:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 09:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats boys for you if you really feel that he needs to stop sit down in have a conversation with him take the time and he'll probably understand you and how you feel about what hes doing.
2006-11-22 00:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tamia J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him not to cause it is immoral. No sane person walks around naked in the house. He is immature. Tell ur parents. They will deal with him
2006-11-22 00:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. That is sick!
2. where are your parents when he runs around naked?
3. He needs to stop...and you need to stop looking!
2006-11-22 00:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think U are looking at Ur brother in a weird kinda way..... stop it.... tell Ur preants that he is walking around the house like that....
2006-11-22 00:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My sister and I had to share a bedroom growing up so nudity wasn't a big deal There were times when she would be curious as well and would let me know about it. It was certainly amazing and educating to see each other develop into near adulthood. We were always best friends and had the best respect for each other. We wouldn't have had it any other way.
Your curiosity is normal. Don't let peoples negativity get you down. Always keep an open mind and be the best of friends with your brother.
It pays off in the long run.
2014-06-05 08:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by Myzygo2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly no i havent had anything happen to me like that but well it is normal everyone compares themselves to others at some point in their lifes ok as for your bro i think you should tell him to uh well grow up a little for 15 he seems a little imuchore if you no what i mean no offence or anything.....
2006-11-22 00:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Karen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you do not want to look at his thing, you guys may have grown up together obviously since he's your brother, but tell him you do not feel comfortable.Better yet talk to your mom or dad tell them what you just told us, bet they put a stop to it.
2006-11-22 00:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋