Why do women hook up with complete strangers they meet online but diss guys they meet at bars, clubs, etc.,?

Question

I'll never understand human nature...

People will fall head over heels for those they meet on the internet and in chat rooms--people whom they've never seen nor heard, people who could be lying about their true intentions, age, identity, marital status, and (most of all) previous criminal record...

Yet men who have the nerve to approach women in bars and clubs get written off as overbearing freaks ("I don't even know you, I just met you five minutes ago so why would I give you my phone number you a--hole?")

At least when you meet a guy in a nightclub or bar, you know what he looks like, what he sounds like, how old he is, etc,. and are able to make a half-decent assessment of his character and worthiness based on outward appearances and first impressions.

Can someone explan this to me? ...cuz' I don't pretend to be an expert on the subject of women

(and in all fairness, men who apply this double-standard are equally hypocritical).

Answer 1

yeah but without the visual clues you can reach into someone on a different level, despite it being a fantasy and not entirely accurate or not. the on-line thing catches people off guard; they figure it's a game until someone says or does something that piques their interest, and it's a matter of time before the emotions follow. in real life you can see people coming a mile away.

i don't know about anyone else, but everyone should have their own chance to speak on their own platform, regardless of what they're looking like or how they approach you in real life. but those visual clues, and how i see someone react towards someone else, and how they say that they're treating someone they're supposedly in a relationship with, is going to keep me away. I'm not sure if that's hypocritical or not, but i stayed around, and pursued, despite whatever my prejudices were, with mixed results so it's a chance you take working with someone who gave off the wrong first impression.

Answer 2

6-1 Although I don't know if this counts as a point in my favor, because this question was starred by TFT Kitty Kat. Let me ask a question. With all the aliases that R&S regulars go under, do you think that there are really no more than four of us? Because I really believe that you're Fireball, now. And regarding your question, why limit yourself to strangers? You could sleep with people you already know, as well. If I were you, I would make a list of everyone you've encountered over the past week, and then rank them in order of sexual desireablility. Then, you should screw them in ascending order, starting at the bottom of the list. You wouldn't want to start at the top of the list and then get rejected by the first six or seven people you propositioned. (Although If my bony face made your top five, you wouldn't have to worry about that). So start out at the bottom and bed a bunch of losers first. That'll help build your confidence in your seduction abilities so that when you get up to the REALLY attractive people, you won't suffer any self-esteem damage if you get the cold shoulder every now and then when you drunkenly stagger up to them and say, "Hey. You. Ya wanna *hic!* shcroooooo? *hic!*" EDIT: John has a point, you know. You should also sleep with random strangers that you meet in church. You should have thought of that to begin with!

Answer 3

Well for starters they are not looking for drunks in a club or bar. They are looking for someone they think is special.. and at the clubs or bars they can actually see what you are and how you act out in public. they are most likely hoping to find something new and exciting..
They most likely will only fall for the guy on line also until they have been out with them a time or two and really see how they act too so you don't have a whole lot to worry about.. You guys will all show your true colors sooner or later.

Answer 4

maybe they have tried the pubs and clubs and only met unworthy guys and feel that if a guy can appeal to them with words alone he may turn out to be better than someone who looks good but is totally shallow

i dont like pubs and clubs i have not tried to date through them --- i just dont like the atmosphere

Answer 5

I don't think it's a very deep question, and I don't like either method.

Answer 6

internet love is a fantacy of someone who you create in your mind
drunk one nighter are a reality that they know wont call thm back
http://www.relationships.com/index.html

Answer 7

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Answer 8

all women dont do that

Answer 9

damn, where are these woman when you need em?