me & my partner are due to have our first child in jan, everytime wer out this girl always trys it on with him, he tells her where to go but it really annoys me. I could tear her hair out but that would be stooping as low as her. what am i to do? shes knows the situation !!
2006-11-22 00:48:20 · 31 answers · asked by lauracaufield 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
by the way i have no idea who this girl is,she lives about 50 miles from us but still makes the effort to be where we are
2006-11-22 01:03:21 · update #1
what about accidently tipping a pint of cider and blackcurrant round her or is that childish.please help as this is really doing my head in
2006-11-22 03:38:15 · update #2
i'd wait till you have your baby give it a couple of months then get her by her throat and have a nice quiet word in her ear along the lines of you slapper leave my bloke alone he aint interested go near him again and i will re arrange your face. Failing that ignoring her ( which i know is gonna be sooo hard) and showing the world how happy you and your b/f are will in the end wind her up and she should eventually back off.
2006-11-22 00:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by delaruedebbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this depends on how much you trust your man.
If you know he's a keeper, then just enjoy a laugh and a joke at her expense (not in front of her of course - that's mean). And maybe even see if he can get her to buy him some drinks!!
If you're not too sure of him, well, that's something you and he need to work out. In the meantime, if you know this girl, just have a chat with her about it when you're both sober, and preferably in a nice neutral setting. Maybe massage her ego a bit, and say you're not too comfortable with gorgeous girls like her doing a bit of harmless flirting because "you know what men are like, and I realy like this guy". Get her to feel that you and she are a team working together, not against each other.
If you don't know her, just tell her to sod off!
2006-11-22 00:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tony W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true..dont stoop 2 here level ur beta than that, but on the other hand if i was in your shoes id smash her face in...how effing rude of her 2 so blatently make a play 4 him..she sounds like a tw at but fair do"s 2 ur boyf. 4 telling her where 2 go u should b proud of him, at the end of the day shes the 1 makin a tw at of herself by throwing herself at ur fella wen hes not interested..oh the shame,so u have to laugh at that eh! she sounds pretty desper8 if she has 2 make a play 4 sum1 elses bloke..ask urself that,wots wrong with her finding her own instead of trying to half inch yours!!!! u no ur boyf not interested,he knows hes not interested so let her carry on bein a tw at and just look 4ward 2 the birth of ur child n bein parents GOOD LUCK xxxxx
2006-11-22 09:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by greyhound mummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, your just gonna have to stoop a little. I had the same situation with my niece, knocked her one time up side her head, she won't even look at my man anymore. I'm not saying to beat the crap out of her, just knock the one loose brain cell back into it's place. Of course wait until the little bundle of joy is born, or get your home-girl to help you out. There is no shame in protecting your man from those them little tramps.
2006-11-22 01:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by middelmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
extremely, you may tell your female buddy with regard to the situation. the way it is stressing you out and you don't be attentive to the thank you to get her to surrender. Your female buddy is familiar with which you have a delightful dating because of the fact of your new child so she'll probable sympathize mutually with your difficulty. according to hazard your female buddy can contain you to %. your new child up or you and your ex can meet in a public places the place you could %. up your new child. That way she would be in a position to't basically randomly prance around bare and a minimum of pretend like she has slightly comprehend for you and your emotions.
2016-12-10 13:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by vasim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling her off is not necessarily stooping to her level. Your man is doing the right thing to tell her where to go. Hopefully she gets the hint soon. If she doesn't you don't have to pull her hair out. Tell her he's taken and she needs to F off and find her own man. If it were me I wouldn't be nice about it at all.
2006-11-22 02:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first instinct would be to Pop her one in the mouth!!
But in hindsight, it would be far more dignified to take her one side and tell her, in no certain terms, to LEAVE YOUR MAN ALONE. If that doesn't work, next time you arrive somewhere and she is there, (plan this with your b/f in advance!) both of you get up and LEAVE! Do this every time she is around you, and she will soon get fed up, as she is getting no more reaction, and she will then start pestering someone else.
2006-11-22 01:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like this woman is any kind of a threat to you. treat her with the contempt she deserves - she is jealous that you guys are in love and having gorgeous babies.
Keep your head high, ignore her and DO NOT stoop to her level. You are worth way more than that!
2006-11-22 01:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahh well seeing how your hormones are in full flow at this moment maybe just avoid going out with her till the baby is born...
Then when you are back to bein you + 1 lol , and she does it again , just pull her aside and kindly ask her to stop flirting with your Man....
Ps good luck on your new arrival in Jan
2006-11-22 00:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by loulou777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is just your imagination, i am good friends with a friend who lives with her partner. Last week we had a meal together and if was such fun. Then my friend told me that her husband and some other guys were discussing my bum, they said i had a sexy bum. Now she is not happy with me and have changed all our plans we have made for the future. I am innocent, i cannot help it when their husbands and boyfriends discuss me. Do you know what that feels like, horrible.
2006-11-22 01:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋