Hi my step daughter is 14 and just told me and her dad she is bi,and she has none since 7th grade,she is very immature,they have some kind of support gourp at school for gay,straight people if you ask me i think it;s the school saying it's ok and all this emo crap what should i do.
2006-11-22 00:53:18 · 7 answers · asked by XoAngieXo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hey, it's the new "thing" to be gay and bi. She's just trying to fit it and be "cool". ISN'T THAT AWFUL! Kids these days... Anyway, it too will go out of style.
I'm not saying that some people aren't gay and don't need a support group, but I think since it's in style, 90% of it is just fake right now.
2006-11-22 01:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by Hollie H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really nothing you can do.
The best thing to do is just let her know you'll be there for her.
It seems that she's probably been through a lot.
I'm 14 so I know that if you push her away and look at her
like she's a freak or something's wrong with her, it'll make matters worse.
Kids my age nowadays need a lot of attention from their parents.
Trust me, I know from personal experience.
If you want to know why she's bi, it could be anything.
In this generation, they make everything look OK.
On the TV, in movies..and music.
It's not just the school.
I attend a christian school, and there's
more gay people than straight there...
Just don't push her away or treat her like a weirdo,
it could make the situation worse..
2006-11-22 08:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by just another kid. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very in fashion right now among teens to say your bi whether you are or not. It could be that's she's just claiming what other teens are. I think it's more a cry for attention then help.
2006-11-22 09:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her be who she wants to be, if you try to make her someone else then it could just backfire on you and your husband!
2006-11-22 10:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by NIC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, let her know that u r there to support her. Ask her if she wants any of this programs
2006-11-22 08:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by lemonz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
accept her for who she is, since she's bi, she may end up with a guy for all you know
2006-11-22 08:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by piercedgal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you care for her, tell her your opinion and what is best for her.
It is possible that it is a cry for help.
2006-11-22 09:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by curious~me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋