My friends keep flirting with my boyfriend and he accepts it what do i do?

Answer 1

First, you need to talk to him and let him know how much that bothers you. If he really cares and respects your feelings, you come first, and the flirting will stop. I don't see the need for him to continue, especially if it's hurting you.

Secondly, you may want to find new friends.

Answer 2

I think your friends are very disrespectful and have no class. It not only is tacky to flirt with a friends boyfriend, it's down right trashy. I've had lots of friends boyfriends try to flirt with me but I never gave them the time of day because I am too good for that kind of junk. Obviously these people have crossed boundaries that you are not comfortable with them crossing. If you inform them of your feelings and they continue well I guess they are just not the type of person a type of person like you should be associating with. Although you may like/love your boyfriend and friends it sounds like he/they may be a little out of your league, that is bellow it. I have encountered problems like the one you' re having before, I'd say brake up with him now but I know that may be impossible if you care. As far as your friends go, I've dumped a few for the same thing yours are doing. Trust me if you want the right people to come into your life you have to make room for them. Get rid of the ones who are not concerned about respecting your feelings. For myself I think its better to have no friends than ones like yours.

Answer 3

First of she isn't your friend if she keeps flirting with your boyfriend, and I wouldn't want him for a boyfriend. What do they do behind your back, if they do this in front of you? I would walk away from them both. Sounds like the deserve each other.

Answer 4

It could be harmless flirting but if its getting to you, discuss this with your bf. If he waves it off and assures you he's not into them, he has to show it by keeping a bit of his distance but if he yells at you, there's a possiblity that something's going on. But if he isn't spending too much time with a particular one of your friends, then there's nothing to worry about.

Answer 5

Are you insecure in your relationship? If you are, calmly let them both know you don't apprecitate their antics. If the girl is really your friend, she will accept and respect what you say, if she doesn't, well was she really your friend? As far as the boyfriend goes, let him know how his behavior affects you. If he cares, he'll also respect your feelings. Holding feelings of resentment & jelousy in will only poison both relationships.

If you are secure in your relationship, ignore the flirting...because it really doesn't matter if he's with you in the end.

Answer 6

First, NEVER allow your girls to spend time alone with your man. You are leaving the door open if you do.

Now if they flirt in front of you, CALL THEM OUT!!! People can only treat you in the manner in which you allow yourself to be treated.

As for your guy...I don't like being the bearer of bad news, but it sounds like he's not really worth the effort. Not that he's a bad guy or anything. It just sounds like he digs that kind of thing, and that's him; but how long are you going to want to put up with him? Better luck next time.

Answer 7

Jessica, tnx goodness it's only an acceptance of flirting for now but NOT the "real thing". I want to assure you that you have the "real thing" at your disposal. It's left for you to use what you have to win your guy to your side. See, I'm talking to you from a guy's perspective, and I think you understand my point. Contact me through my profile if you still need further discussions. cya.

Answer 8

Flirt with his friends!

Answer 9

Break up with him and get new friends. Or flirt with one of his friends and see how he likes it. Personally I'd choose option one.

Answer 10

Tell your friend that if she does it again, she gona get b i t c h slapped - and mean it. As for your man he should know better than to blatantly flirt with your mate.