im only 18, and i'll be having my first child in March, and my boyfriend wants to get married before we have Luke saying "if we wait until after we have him we wont have the money to get married"
he wants to get married in a church (and i wasnt brought up with religion, it was basically theres a god, no church or anything like that) while id be happy just getting married in city hall, but nobody in his family would reconize the marriage
second, im not ready to get married, its not cold feet, im just not ready, weve only been dating 6 months!!! sadly im not ready for a baby either, but im acepting it
next, i live far away from home, 2500 miles to be almost exact, and all i want to do is go home, but he doesnt want to leave the beach, so im stuck here, because i dont want to deprive him of his child
what do i do??? im so confussed and im sure the stress isnt helping the baby...but i always feel like crying and im scared
2006-11-22
13:25:19
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Marriage & Divorce