My boyfriend just broke up with me but I don't want my friends to know because I don't want everyone to feel sorry for me and treat me differently. However, I also don't want to have to deal with this alone, what should I do?
2006-11-22 13:19:50 · 16 answers · asked by tstqtpie4christ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you have a best friend that is always there for you and keeps her promises go to talk to her because if she is a true friend she will be there for you and talk you threw the whole thing and will listen to everything you have to say and should try her hardest to help you threw it.
2006-11-22 13:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with the fact that you two have broken up. You should let people know that you have broken up because then it opens that dating field for you again. I don't think your friends will treat you any differently, they will find out sooner or later and i think they would appreciate to know now instead of later about what has happend. Good friends are always there for you and if you are afraid they will treat you differently ask them not to.
2006-11-22 21:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by cutie pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your friends are going to find out anyway so just tell them and then tell them that you don't want them to feel sorry for you or anything. That you'll be ok. You'll feel better that at least someone else knows
2006-11-22 21:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Caitie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of everyone you know, who do you feel the most comfortable in confiding to??? That should be the person that can
help you deal with your emotions.
2006-11-22 21:23:20 · answer #4 · answered by J.B. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um mm, you don`t think anyone would find out eventually and what would they think of you then? Don`t pretend like everythings alright when it`s not, you are not just lying to them you are lying to yourself, because you are keeping the relationship alive that way. TELL them already! How would you feel if situations were reversed and one of your good girlfriends would keep something like that from you and lie to you. Wouldn`t you feel betrayed? Think about it.
2006-11-22 21:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends will eventually find out, there's no way to prevent it. Tell your best frieind about it. Also, there's nothing wrong with letting your other friends finding out, if they show their sympathy towards you, it just means that you have good friends that care about you.
2006-11-22 21:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinl that u should confess to ur friends and tell them that it was only for the best of it. And that they shouldent have to feel sorry for u.
2006-11-22 21:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest....But once your friends start giving you those 'im so sorry' look....just let them know that you dont want their sympathy but just a someone to lean on....
2006-11-22 21:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by iadoremarilyn86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually your friends will find out..Pick one that you feel is TRULY on your side and tell them. Tell the others that you dont want pity, that its truly alright and you will be just fine..
2006-11-22 21:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by nichols5072@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.dont talk 2 anybody for 6 months
2.even if somebody ask tell him that u left him
3.pray God
2006-11-22 21:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by dentist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋