Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

A lot of my "crushes" if that's what you want to call them, have been older men.... I've told this to a few of my friends and one of them just goes, "You're one of THOSE girls, aren't you?"..... when she said this I laughed, but still felt a little hurt.... what's wrong with being attracted to not only looks, but with wisdom, experience and true intelligence.....? I can't help it if I'm interested and "Sprung" may I say, by older gentlemen....

I can understand that some might think I'm only after a rich, older man, but if he was poor... wouldn't care. Is there anything wrong with this?

2006-11-22 12:37:05 · 28 answers · asked by ~*tRiiNa*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 12:35:56 · 8 answers · asked by G 1 in Singles & Dating

i really liked someone so much but i found out that she likes another guy,im really pissed off and i don't know how to act normal around her even tough i know she like some one else, i thought she liked me she always smiled at my face and i always catche looking at me,she liked to play with me,but im not sure if she likes me or she likes the other guy so please help

2006-11-22 12:34:49 · 1 answers · asked by nigga b 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy that I'm talking to likes me, and I'm interested in him too. The only problem is that I walked into his life when he was talking to another girl. He said he likes me more, and can see us being in a relationship. He sees the other girl as a friend, but now she really likes him. He's not sure if he wants to get in a relationship with me, because he doesn't want to hurt her. The bad thing is that all three of us see each other every week. Me and her are cool and either way we're still friends. Do I wait on him to make a decision? If he really wanted to be with me, wouldn't he have already made his choice? HELP!

2006-11-22 12:34:32 · 2 answers · asked by youdontknowme 3 in Singles & Dating

Most white women perfer black men over white men, and most white men perfer asian/latin women over white women. With no white babbies there race looks to be over.

2006-11-22 12:34:15 · 17 answers · asked by 619_Balla AKA SD PIMP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we often hv conflicts due to his jealousy. E.g yday i went to my sis place and happened that my sis's sister -in-law (tina) and her boyfren was there as well. Its abt time to go home and tina was kind that she offer to give me a ride back home (of coz driver will be her bf) my bf was jealousy becoz of this!! Am i really at fault? Ppl are just being kind to send me back home and thats all.. and my bf was being so ridiculous that he accused me with his assumption that i went supper with tina bf! thats y im late back home.. i am really very upset.. wat shld i do to aviod all these unnecessary conflicts?

2006-11-22 12:33:48 · 1 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey i have a really important thing to get advice on...
so well i accidently flushed my cell phone down the toilet. like literally, down the toilet, it's in those pipes and everything. ITWAS A TOTAL ACCIDENT THOUGH, I SWEAR. it jumped out of my pocket, like. and now im so screwed and my parents will not BE PLEASED. (this was my second one in 6 month; the fist i actually lost lost.) how am i going to break this to my parents? any advice from kids and parents alike on how you'd deal with this? like if your a parent, and your kid did this, how would you react?plzplz, and thanx to all who have a legitimate answer that makes sense.

2006-11-22 12:33:31 · 8 answers · asked by freshprince-ess 3 in Family

between getting divorce, and helping my kids and looseing my job for awhile i just seam i can't find my way out of living from check to check. I have a very hard time paying bills on time

2006-11-22 12:33:25 · 9 answers · asked by Joe L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I look HORable!check my360 profile and see for your self!

2006-11-22 12:32:36 · 3 answers · asked by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?

Thank you!

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2006-11-22 12:32:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been going throught my email and says he found 10 guys emails who i have been dating online (NOT TRUE) he has told me entire family and they believe him when i say its not true he says im calling him a liar. things have been rough for a while and now all this is starting. I dont know what to do this has ruined our marriage. i have no privacy and i understand that he is my hubby that i should share all with him but i cant even use the phone or write something down with out him looking over my shoulder. I want to work it out but he cant go 5 minutes without bringing it up. What do i do. i think i should leave i want to leave but i dont know what to do? Help???

2006-11-22 12:31:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

does it matter if he's circumcised or not? does it make any difference at all during sexual intercourse?

2006-11-22 12:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by josie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and i do not sleep in the same bed any more. We havent for about a year now. This is really getting old. We have talked and it does not seem to do any good. For the last 3 or 4 years we maybe have sex every other month. This is frustrating me to no end. I often wonder if she is seeing someone else. What do I do?

2006-11-22 12:28:59 · 10 answers · asked by Mr B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do u hate when a guy thinks girls cant do anything herself???
like they r better??

2006-11-22 12:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by amber 2 in Friends

2006-11-22 12:23:17 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

he cheated & it wasnt the 1st time i love him so much & he isnot even a good father/husb but i love him. He was everything hes the only men i ever been with i met him when i was 15 married him when i was 20 & have 2 girls 2gether. but he cheated & this time i actually saw him with her he said he only leaned over 4 a kiss on the cheek but i could swear they were kissing. I found out after so many doubts finally found out emaisl that were sent to each other, he claims he didnt sleep w/her 1/2 of me belives him why? after i comfronted him he ran away i follow & all he said was the things werent the way they seem after those email he still said no why?? i love him, why lie to me 1x he called her after &meet w/her in a dead end st. that i just happend 2 drive by & saw them and all he said was he knew he had ****** up but didnt sleep w/her. i left the house after 5mon of problems hoping he'll come after me but never did & i begged him so many times how do get strong & walk away?

2006-11-22 12:20:18 · 3 answers · asked by HelpmeFast 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am sick with a chronic condition, in bed almost all the time. I feel like I am shortchanging them in so many ways. I can't help with homework, I forget to take care of things, I can't drive them to their appointments, I often don't have any good meals for them. Their dad gives me plenty of money, but there is so much that you just can't hire, and even hiring and managing help I cannot do. They are frustrated with my condition. Their preference would be to live half the time with me and half with him. But he is so rigid, it is either almost all him or me, for him, with one of us taking them only every other week-end. He is a good dad, but will not be flexible about his custody preference. He can be temperamental too, which is why I took them in the first pace. But, it's now about a year, and I can say that, while I adore them, I am failing them.,.

2006-11-22 12:19:38 · 8 answers · asked by claudia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I told her i wanted a divorce and she said that i was going to pay. i left the house because she started to throw things. i came back home an hour later and the police pulled me over a few houses from my home. asked me what happen and said ok now tell me again this time the truth, what happen. I said the same thing. The police told me that my wife said i was hitting her and pulled out some of her hair. I said she was lying i never touched her. They arrested me and i was in jail for 4 days. I pleaded guilty so i can save my job. I have never ever been arrested before for anything. i have to do domestic abuse classes and 16 hours volunteer work and a misdoremeanor on my record. my wife confessed to her ex husband a former police office and 3 of her older sisters and her son (my step son) who is 17 and said the only reason she had me arrested is because she wanted me out of the house and she lied to the police about the hitting and she pulled out her own hair. what can i do. help me.

2006-11-22 12:19:34 · 5 answers · asked by lost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 12:19:21 · 1 answers · asked by the king 1 in Singles & Dating

is it weird to walk up next to a girl who likes me and hug her?

2006-11-22 12:18:03 · 1 answers · asked by NUBBERZ 1 in Singles & Dating

We have only had a sexual affair. It was to get our fantasies met. Now my husband will be back in town soon. How do I get over the disappointment?

2006-11-22 12:17:42 · 6 answers · asked by awfulp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

two days ago me and my gf went to a mall in WV.we saw some friend at the mall.they told us to follow them.so we did.they took us to a place where the restroom are then unlock this door that open to a place with bedsand they start to make out.we ran out.we when to a movie and there was a hot guy who was flirting with her.i stay clam and said let's go.we see him later and he flirts with her again and i got so mad and hurts him so much he got a bloody nose.now my gf is mad at me what should I do,please help me.her name is Carolina Rodriguez

2006-11-22 12:17:05 · 1 answers · asked by Will 3 in Singles & Dating

The husband who is now a widower has one little kid.

2006-11-22 12:16:48 · 2 answers · asked by DAVE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i havent found a guy that likes me just for me since my ex. and its buging me i think there just going to like me like that but then he admits he just wants sex and im tired of it i want to meet a real guy

2006-11-22 12:16:12 · 1 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl that i have been seeing but i want to tell her i am in love with her but i dont want to of scaring her off or make her uncomfortable

2006-11-22 12:16:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always had trouble thinking of something to say to a girl I'm interested in. I always end up saying something boring like "Hi, what's your name" and it never works. It's sad, the only girls I've every been with have been ones who've approached me! Any advice?

2006-11-22 12:15:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a man goes down on the first date is he just a whore? Do women ever go out and get men to go down and then be like thanks see ya later?

2006-11-22 12:15:29 · 1 answers · asked by Aaron A 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have a BF but this guy and I like are best friends and he told me that he likes me and I kind of like him but I also like BF. I don't know what to do. Plz help me!!

2006-11-22 12:12:00 · 1 answers · asked by grldntolliver 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl at school. i think i like her.

2006-11-22 12:10:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i tried shaving down there (private) but it really doesn't look like the way i wanted it too....yea how am i suppose to do it?help plz.

2006-11-22 12:09:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating