I am very attracted to my male roomate who is also my best friend of 5 years. REcently Ive noticed him returning the attraction through subtle touching and sometimes kisses on the lips. He only does this when hes drinking though. If he ever makes the next move I am scared of what I should do. I want to be closer to him but dont want to lose him the next day because things are weird, if they would be at all. I DONT KNOW!
2006-11-22 13:23:11 · 18 answers · asked by Colleen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what I want to know is.... why do you have a male roomate??
2006-11-22 13:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
things would definitely be weird the next day if you just got into it out of the blue when he was drunk.
i think you should have a serious chat with him when he is not drinking.. talk about your long-time friendship and discuss the possibilities of taking things further.. don't take one giant leap right into sex though.. at least i wouldn't.. go from friends to dating. then dating to relationship. and if it gets that far, then go for the sex when you are both in love and totally ready for it.
2006-11-22 13:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becarefull I have been the guy roomate you talk of. Real Similer. Sometimes you get so close to people it feels natural. But sometimes it will make your friendship wired. But sometimes it might be true love.
Good Luck.
2006-11-22 13:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by robertski83 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably not a good idea. If things don't work out it is going to not only ruin the friendship, but may cause one of you to try and find a new place to live.
2006-11-22 13:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jon S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is a guy, he will want to have sex with you no matter what. You could set him up with someone else as a girl friend, or get a boy friend yourself so you don't feel the need for sex.
2006-11-22 13:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by DadOnline 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a male and that i've got had lady roommates in college. that's all we've been exchange into roommates. It worked out large. in case you detect you get alongside with large with Avi and you the two elect to be roommates then you relatively ought to.
2016-10-12 22:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ruin a good friendship by sleeping with him....girl go get you a man.....you guys are roomates....trust me if you do...it will become weird for a while......and you don't want that....
good luck
2006-11-22 13:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by girlegyrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While it's a tempting thing....it will ruin the roommate situation. Suddenly you will move into one bedroom and then into a relationship....based on sex. Bad idea.
2006-11-22 13:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by tjjone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He only kisses you when he's drunk because he's relaxed and isn't afraid to show you his feelings. Once he's sober, ask him to do something for you, when he does it, give him a peck on the cheek. Then he'll know you like him and you will be hearing wedding bells. Good Luck :)
2006-11-22 14:23:58 · answer #9 · answered by just tht kid over there 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends if you want to have a relationship with him or not. if you do I would do it, but I wouldn't do it just for a friends with benefits thing 'cause when you start dating other people it just makes it weird
2006-11-22 13:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋