2006-11-22 13:29:05 · 16 answers · asked by dimples 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In a situation like this, I would recommend behaving as you always do. Ignore the rumors around you, and soon, people would soon see that your so-called "best friend" had lied. If you are always on your best behavior, then there is obviously nothing to worry about.
2006-11-22 13:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to look at what he told them, and why "everyone" so readily believed them. If you were friends with these other people, then they should have some bearing as to "who" you are and that you are not this "person" he created. If you can see why everyone believed this person, then you need to fix that problem. If there is no reason anyone should believe them...then don't worry about it. It will pass.
2006-11-22 21:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just happened to me - I won;t go into details but the best thing you can do is concentrate on building relationships with people who would not do that to you. It may be hard now - but by letting one bad relationship out of your life you will make room for so many more better ones.
2006-11-22 21:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by reno girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think eventually time will tell. My ex-husband and his family did the same to me too...but I just didn't care as we can't stop what others say or think about us. But you know that this "best friend" cannot be trusted anymore. Good luck.
2006-11-22 21:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did that she's not youre friend, true friends dont do that.Dont talk to her anymore and if people ask tell them its not true, prove everyone wrong and do everything on the contrary of what she said.And get a new friend.
2006-11-22 21:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think is she really your friend or is not your friend anymore? You need to go up to her and settle things out in a good way. Tell her what you feel. If she is willing to stop she is truely your friend. If she doesn't she is not your friend. take tha in to conciteration.
2006-11-22 21:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by angelina W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold your head up high, tell the people you can that she lied, prove that she lied and never speak to that "friend" again.
2006-11-22 21:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even friends won't do that let alone best friend. you should know who the people around you are to you in your life.
2006-11-22 21:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously shes not your best friend, ask her to stop talking bad about you and find new friends if you need to
2006-11-22 21:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would'nt use the term best friend anymore....id say dont go 4 revenge..but realize that karma is a *****
2006-11-22 21:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋