So I decided to play around with these online dating websites like match.com and yahoo personals. I want to try to contact some of these girls but I have absolutely no clue about what she expects when she gets these emails. I know that girls get tons of emails so I need to stand out. How do I do that?
What do you want a guy's first email to read? What would get your attention enough to check out his profile and especially to write him back?
Should it be very short or be a bit more detailed?
Should I tell her she's gorgeous?
Compliment her at all or be more casual?
Should I tell her we are a good match?
Should I tell her some of my good qualities? What if she doesn't want to read my profile? Maybe I want to say that I give good backrubs, or that I love a particular hobby too.
Or is all of this too much?
Should I just say a joke?
It certainly has to be more than, "Hi, my name is..."
Anything else to ad?
Any suggestions on the subject?
Or is it all about the looks?
2006-11-22 13:26:56 · 4 answers · asked by SmartAlex 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well girls really like to be flattered be sweet and to the point. if you talk and talk and talk you lose our interest pretty quickly. Definitely compliment her. Say something funny too, a joke really gets a girl. Be very creative with your words, girls love individually. And no a choice of a guy on a girls part isn't always looks. It's about personality, kindness, caringness, trust and other stuff. Good luck
2006-11-22 13:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by Caitie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Spelling and grammar count. Your profile defines who you are and what you are looking for. So the best way to attract someone is knowing what you want. Don't go with the ANY ANY ANY answer, because that seems as if you don't have any standards. Be open to all things, but know your limits. Include a current picture, but not one that has your ex cut out of it, or you with the dog etc. If you do get responses, be courteous and reply nicely, even if you aren't attracted. You don't say how old you are, but if you haven't succeeded before with your "type" try something new.
Good luck!
2006-11-22 13:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by wq4you 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
lol, Kenneth only used a double time-honored!!! he suggested utilising online relationship amenities are dumb and to apply myspace. isnt that not a similar ingredient??? yet, myspace is somewhat greater risky. besides, only bypass out and consult with females. in case you bypass to college, consult with them abt classification artwork or something you observed on television. i dont be attentive to why they at the instant are not e-mailing you. some females are nonetheless old formed (not something incorrect with it) and that they are needed the guy to make the 1st circulate. only attempt it....
2016-10-12 22:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shud be a short msg telling hu u r were u seen her and that u wanted to be a frnd etc.. and at the end of the msg there shud be a question so that she will reply on ur mail.. i hope it helpd u.. hehe..
2006-11-22 13:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by tina f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋