Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

2006-11-22 14:10:28 · 15 answers · asked by Trent B 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing B for about a month. We met at work and we knew instantly we had chemistry. He was dating his girlfriend of three years at the time but I guess they were on the outs when I first met him. He said that she was controlling, jealous and physically abusive towards him and he wanted out. Anyway, they seperated and we started talking and hanging out together and I knew that I was starting to have feelings for him. He said that hewanted to take it slow and see how things progressed because he feels like he made so many mistakes in the last relationship and that he didn't want to lead me on or hurt me. We talked things over and he said that were dating but not serious. That was fine with me so I said that I would give him his space and that whatever happens, happens. Now he calls constantly, wants me to stay over, takes me to dinner all the time and asked me last night if I would go with him to meet his parents in 2 weeks. What's up with him? Does he like me? Is he confused?

2006-11-22 14:10:09 · 6 answers · asked by PrincessAsh23 2 in Singles & Dating

1. Short hair or long hair

2. Styled (fauxhawk, spikes) or unstyled (loose) hair

3. Masculine face (thick eyebrows, wide nose) or feminine face (thinner eyebrows, small nose, thick lips)

4. Facial hair or no facial hair (and what kinds)

5. Wide shoulders or narrow shoulders

6. Muscular or "Thin"

7. Which muscle groups (arms, chest, shoulders, etc)

8. Generally "hairy" (arms, face, etc.) or not

9. Tight or loose jeans

10. Tight or loose shirts

11. Showing off what they got or leaving you room to imagine

12. "Man's man" or ladies man

13. Too feminine (sensitive) or too masculine (chauvanistic)

14. Cocky or self-conscious

15. Anything else that bugs you/turns you on

Thanks!

2006-11-22 14:09:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today is our 6 month anniv.! he went to jail oct. 19 and has the slight chance for release in January or up to six months after. We were living together in georgia and since he has gone to jail i have had to move to New York to be with my family. Now im struggling to work 2 jobs to save enough $ to get our own place before he gets out. I just feel like i have so many things going on i never have the time to sit back and just cope with him being gone.
I dont know how to comfort him through letters when i cant find the words to comfort myself.

2006-11-22 14:09:21 · 12 answers · asked by Haley H 1 in Singles & Dating

low income both parents,divorce was pro bono and both parties will be filing bankruptcy.neither makes the poverty level income,so what would be a fair or reasonable child support? the man wants to support daughter even tho mother was guilty of adultery.

2006-11-22 14:09:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Dating tips for over 40's? I haven't been "out" there for years. What does it look like? I don't have baggage but how do you date and not talk about your 'stuff' when you are in your 40's....you've been through the marriage, divorce, children. How do you go out on a date and leave all that out and just have fun?

2006-11-22 14:08:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 14:07:59 · 19 answers · asked by akiyo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 14:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by james_siple 1 in Friends

Guy likes me and comes dwn from L.A. to the Bay at the drop of a hat to visit me. We're talking a 6 hour drive. He leaves L.A. at midnight cuz we were on the phone and we were tlking bout how mch we missed each other. He gets to my house at @ 6 a.m. We spent the whole day tgthr and it was perfect bliss. It seems like we really like each other. This was our 3rd time seeing each other. Well b4 he decided to com dwn I had already had plans with my gfs to go to a prty wit a bunch of Pro Basketball Players. Anyway I didn't care about the prty but my frnds hounded and hounded me to go and it was wrng and rude for me to flake on them when we already had plans. I was torn between them and this guy; I asked the guy if he wld just come with me. He said he didn't have clothes but that I cld go and that while I was at the party he wld visit his frnds that lived near by. I cld call him when I was done and we cld go bck home. He dropped me off at the prty and I hvnt herd from him since

2006-11-22 14:07:08 · 1 answers · asked by veronski 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 14:06:41 · 6 answers · asked by james_siple 1 in Friends

2006-11-22 14:06:32 · 17 answers · asked by The_Cookie_Goddess 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 14:06:31 · 4 answers · asked by katie k 1 in Singles & Dating

should u stay or leave

2006-11-22 14:04:46 · 21 answers · asked by kimmy b 1 in Singles & Dating

I am sort of shy.

2006-11-22 14:03:36 · 2 answers · asked by LovingAngelsInstead 2 in Singles & Dating

they always say they do but are they lieing

2006-11-22 14:03:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this is WAY wrong, but I think I love him. Every day after school I find an excuse to stay after. He treats me less like a student and more like a friend. Once he took me to coffee. I've never met his fiance and to tell you the truth, I don't want to. He recently invited me to his wedding. I don't WANT to go, it would be too painful, but I want to object. He loves ME, not that other disgusting creature wearing the size 15 wedding dress (I'm guessing!)! Help me. We love each other, and our love is PURE. He doesn't know it yet, but he wants to marry me. Maybe we can have 12 children and live in a mansion by the sea. I know I'm young, but I'm NOT naive. I know this is right. I can feel it. The question is, how to break it to the fiance. And I need to start shopping for wedding dresses, because the wedding is next week. P.S. my teacher doesn't know anything about my desires, he probably thinks that our love will never be. My parents are aware of this and approve.

2006-11-22 14:02:51 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really don't know what to get him and Christmas is next month! help please >_<.. I want to get him something special.. but I just don't know lol.

2006-11-22 14:02:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a sister she makes good money and is in college she's doing great for herself and I'm very proud, I notice that when I'm doing good she looks at me (as if) when ever I tell her I'm doing good she gives me that long ohhhhhh ok...I don't have much I work very hard trying to finish school, I'm a normal person with regular friends and she hangs out with us most of the time and she has a great time, she really doesn't have much friends but the few friends she has are cool...we had an argument the other day and now she's fighting over a blouse? which is typical of her cause everytime we argue she'll say (I want my stuff back, which I do) but when everything is cool she doesn't bother with the stuff...what's really the deal?

2006-11-22 14:02:16 · 8 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Family

i dont now if i should brack up with boyfriend or stay with the same relacion ship cause me and him fight alot and for averything and ever day and also his friend is always into our relacion ship that why we fight alot and also a 2 day ago we was arguing so i hit my boyfriend and my boyfriend is really viylens so he hite me i was going to brack up with him but i love him soo much i corrent wat should i do?

2006-11-22 14:01:31 · 16 answers · asked by cristal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 14:01:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 14:00:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was aggravated at this girl today for like totally hugging other guys when she well and good knows i like her she doesnt give a darn about my feelings to an extent when we are at school but when im at home and she reaches home she calls and said shes sorry should i put up with this or just not talk to her?

2006-11-22 14:00:55 · 5 answers · asked by NOOB 3 in Singles & Dating

It seems that every business deal, every item sold, something needs to be fixed so he has to stay late, etc..., etc....
we want to know that we are more important than a business deal!! Sure you can take a day or two or tomarrow off, but what if tomarrow doesn't come??
How can us women communicate this and still be supportive??

2006-11-22 14:00:44 · 19 answers · asked by Dolphinmarine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked out this guy, he smiled and nodded, and blushed....but he didnt say yes he'd definitely go out with me.

So is this a good sign?

2006-11-22 14:00:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone likes you?

2006-11-22 13:59:50 · 7 answers · asked by Italyfan 4 in Singles & Dating

I kno he reall cares about me cause he always introduces me the proper way and is such a gentalmen.he's so nice to my parents and sibs.he thinks we should cause we've been together since i was 11 years old and he's never cheated.so peeps if you have advice to a 16 year old who doesn't kno to go all the way or not. so pleaz help me.

2006-11-22 13:59:09 · 10 answers · asked by Monique T 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are swingers. We want to go about a 3join with a man, but where should we go and what should we do and say to slowly persuade someone to do this with us? We live in NYC, have been here for about 6 years, but do you know of any places we could try asking? We obviously are looking for somebody bisexual, and please no angry comments, I'm not being rude or joking or being dirty. It's an honest question and I do appologize if you don't like our lifestyle, but I am looking for real places. If there's a site I could go to to even find places around here, I would like links to those as well, unless you know of some places. Thank you so much, I would really appreciate some ideas. (No offense to Bible readers, but please don't push your information in our faces, we know and respect your opinion, but don't see it in our lives.) Thank you.

2006-11-22 13:59:06 · 6 answers · asked by Arthur Andrews. 1 in Singles & Dating

I kno he reall cares about me cause he always introduces me the proper way and is such a gentalmen.he's so nice to my parents and sibs.he thinks we should cause we've been together since i was 11 years old and he's never cheated.so peeps if you have advice to a 16 year old who doesn't kno to go all the way or not. so pleaz help me.

2006-11-22 13:58:58 · 18 answers · asked by Monique T 1 in Singles & Dating

I kno he reall cares about me cause he always introduces me the proper way and is such a gentalmen.he's so nice to my parents and sibs.he thinks we should cause we've been together since i was 11 years old and he's never cheated.so peeps if you have advice to a 16 year old who doesn't kno to go all the way or not. so pleaz help me.

2006-11-22 13:58:28 · 8 answers · asked by Monique T 1 in Singles & Dating

she kinda controlling we argue alot, she hates all my friends and chocies. sometimes i think that she buys my love. she doesnt trust me and she sometimes tells me that she hates me. why do i stay with her. because i love her, i care about her, she does take care of me,we have alot in common, when we are not fighting we get along. we share alot of deep dark secrets, and behind closed doors with a dont distrub sign on it i feel more comfortable then i ever think i could with her. HELP ME WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO???

2006-11-22 13:57:55 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley N 1 in Singles & Dating