Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

My mom does it to me incessantly, always calling me fat and telling fat jokes (no, she's not kidding). Don't just say "ignore her", because that really doesn't work. I'm really uptight about weight, even though I'm pretty in shape, I work out regularly and eat healthy, so it really bothers me. Any ideas as to how to get her to back off and leave it alone?

2006-11-22 14:37:55 · 18 answers · asked by Alecto 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, he is in the process of a divorce. We became friends with benefits - but then he called it off until everything is final because he felt guilty. He said "god knows what is in my heart and what is in your heart, but that still doesn't make it right.." he says that he needs to push me away for MY sake (baby mama drama with his ex) and HIS sake.

So, we called off the benefits, started getting to be closer friends and I started having feelings.

Now he says that I have no chance in hell of being anything other than friends with him.

I don't think he was using me, because we hung out without having sex.

What the hell happened? I'm completely lost. Does he like me and is scared? Why did he rule me out?

2006-11-22 14:37:14 · 5 answers · asked by lickablecake123 1 in Singles & Dating

When I climax I like to blur things in Spanish or Italian....it's just come out. My guy knows that I only do this when my brain is literally "fried"

2006-11-22 14:36:59 · 11 answers · asked by Mesa 2 in Singles & Dating

we broke up two weeks ago..he actually broke up with me...

. and was in contact briefly last week. so, i stopped talking to him for few days until He instant messaged me yesterday and today. So, i was going on NC u know cus its hard for me to talk to him... and rigt now im confuse.... he says he wants to see me and wont tell me why.... he says he has a gift for me....but i think its an excuse to come see me.. and i told him why do u wanna see me... and he giggled and said dont worry and not to ask many questions.


so, he said to give him a call friday night after i come home so we could set up a time next day to meet up.....


what do u guys think of this?

2006-11-22 14:35:50 · 10 answers · asked by Andrea 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 14:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

but the guy had a low sex drive. How would you go about telling her that you want to slow down. With out hurting her feelings. Girls you can answer this to just the other way round.

2006-11-22 14:33:43 · 22 answers · asked by Bone Storm 1 in Singles & Dating

For the ceremony? Can you just not have them when you get married and maybe get them later. Or are they required?

2006-11-22 14:33:29 · 45 answers · asked by Danielle 4 in Weddings

Your at a sleep over & Your playing a game that the first one goes to sleep gets "ALL THERE EYE BROWS SHAVED OFF"!!!
Would you do this to your best friend if he or she goes to sleep first? Now Remeber It Just A Game!?!

True Story (she did it 2 her best friend)

2006-11-22 14:33:06 · 49 answers · asked by thinkpink4u101 2 in Friends

I am thankful for Van Halen!

2006-11-22 14:32:37 · 7 answers · asked by rljmmp 3 in Friends

2006-11-22 14:32:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 15 and there is this guy that I like and I didnt really start liking him until I thought he was flirting with me. For instance he always takes stuff from me in english and biology class and he expects me to chase him around to get it which i think it is adorable! So anyways, over thanksgiving break I can't stop thinking about him and I am not sure what I should do. Are there any signs that could show me that he likes me or any pointers! I never see him outside of class so it would be sort of awkward if i wanted to see if he would hang out at the movies or something. So before hanging out outside of school I want to make sure he really likes me first, Ugh, guys are so confusing I really need some help here! I am desperate. I know this has been long but I can't stop thinking about him and I really need some help. Thanks for taking the time to help and I definately appreciate it!!

2006-11-22 14:31:59 · 10 answers · asked by Danielle g 1 in Singles & Dating

ok I have a friend who came over to my house to play video games then during the middle of it while I was getting food he said.. "hold on" i'm going 2 use the washroom this is a friend who comes around casually and my parents treat him as if he were there own son and same with his parents anyways he goes in the washroom for 15mins and i'm like "wow that was long" and he jus smiled and continued to play ps2 little while later I go to the washroom and I step in this sticky white stuff and i'm like "WHAT THE HELL!" I go downstairs and ask "WHAT THE **** WERE U DOIN' IN THE WASHROOM" and he told me that he was pleasuring himself... I was stunned he's never acted like this before also a few weeks ealier I went to his house and shemale porn pictures poped up and he told me that they were pop ups... what do I do..what is wrong with him.. he has a girlfriend and everything a hot girlfriend to!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-22 14:31:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend SO much. i love cuddleing and kissing and stuff. But then my best friend told him to stay away from me because she thinks "I'm WAY to good for him" i don't know what i should do... Cuz now he thinks that i think i'm too good for him but he says he still loves me. What can i do??

2006-11-22 14:31:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 30 and she is 45
we both work in the same office
and we hang out alot at work
we always talk about going out on a date, but never do
do you guys think it will work?
am i too young for her?
is she too old for me?

2006-11-22 14:30:58 · 11 answers · asked by alooz 2 in Singles & Dating

So we've been having some problems with the people who live downstairs in our apartment building. We used to be friends, but the relationship turned sour after a financial transaction. My boyfriend and I just let it go, but they have taken it to a whole new level. Little things, that as isolated incidents, wouldn't be a big deal started happening every night. Someone kept turning off our hot water heater overnight, blew out the pilot light to our furnace, and took our laundry out of the dryer and stomped on it. I reported this to our landlord who advised we ignore it, and they would lose interest in it. A few days ago, I went to take our dogs out and the guy downstairs was waiting for me. He called me hateful words like b*tch and the dreaded "c" word, because I had taken off the knob to the back door because they kept locking me out (my landlord gave me permission to do it.) I called the landlord and reported the harassment, and he advised I call the police and file a report,

2006-11-22 14:30:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-22 14:30:42 · 8 answers · asked by vinny_the_hack 5 in Singles & Dating

can a relationship between 2 people work if there is a 20 year age gap

2006-11-22 14:30:08 · 26 answers · asked by kelly h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 14:29:39 · 8 answers · asked by srinu m 2 in Singles & Dating

what happens when your boyfriend broke up with you for another girl but you cant seem to let go..??? but you want to. how do you get over him.

2006-11-22 14:29:19 · 15 answers · asked by Stormie k 2 in Singles & Dating

Are there still guys who "buy" wives from other countries? Why do these guys do this? Are men who marry mail order brides sleazy, or just really sad and desperate?

2006-11-22 14:28:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is a doctor whom I discovered was calling female prostitutes online and transsexuals. I also discovered that he often wants to frequent gay clubs. What am I to think of this man? How? Why? He is well educated with a dark side. How sad - would you say he is gay or straight or ?????

2006-11-22 14:28:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 14:28:23 · 5 answers · asked by thecharmedones220 2 in Family

2006-11-22 14:28:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is a doctor whom I discovered was calling female prostitutes online and transsexuals. I also discovered that he often wants to frequent gay clubs. What am I to think of this man? How? Why? He is well educated with a dark side. How sad - would you say he is gay or straight or ?????

2006-11-22 14:27:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Mongolian girl, 26 years old, Master of computer science. 145cm tall.

2006-11-22 14:27:55 · 16 answers · asked by uyangaaaad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy in one of my classes, but im not sure if he likes me back. if he doesnt, is there any way that i could possibly make him like me?

2006-11-22 14:27:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in 8th grade and in a new school and I've noticed some things among my old friends through MySpace...
they're all "going emo".
It seems like they think they're emo because they have side bangs and black & white pictures. They're not in it for the music, they're in it for the trend. I see so many of the people that used to make me so happy now frowning in every picture, painting their nails black, and hiding behind their hair. I am labelled emo at my new school, and it's a totally different thing over here... but I can't manage to get out of my head the thoughts of my friends that are doing this bull. What should I do? Speak my mind to them? Or just keep quiet about it?

2006-11-22 14:26:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I havnt had my first kiss but my boyfriend has. im really nervous that ill be bad at it. i really want us to kiss, but im just so nervous. should i tell him that its my first kiss?

2006-11-22 14:26:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have decided to place chair covers on the chairs at the head table. My question is wether place them on all of the chairs or only the head table. I am looking to save money in the long run, but it is worth the elegance? The chairs at the baquet hall are a white plastic and look decent as is. I just like the look of the covers, but to pay for 300 covers seems like a lot of money. What do you think covers or no?

2006-11-22 14:26:06 · 8 answers · asked by Blondie98_01 2 in Weddings

Sometimes everyone leaves in my house (brother, sister, parents) and I get lonely and I have nothing to do. Especially during the weekends. I try to watch tv but there aren't any good movies or shows. And i would call my bf but sometimes he's not home when im feeling like that, so...are there any ideas on what I could do?
please no mean or rude answers. =) thank you

2006-11-22 14:25:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating