but the guy had a low sex drive. How would you go about telling her that you want to slow down. With out hurting her feelings. Girls you can answer this to just the other way round.
2006-11-22 14:33:43 · 22 answers · asked by Bone Storm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The easiest way to solve this problem is to marry her and have a couple kids.Then you will be writing us and asking how to spice up her sex drive.Bite the bullet and enjoy her drive,it is a good thing and shows she is into you.
2006-11-22 14:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it cant be that good if you dont want it all the time. I love instigating sex and i also love being carressed and made to want it!! I think if the person with the low sex drive doesnt want it all the time it may be that what they do get isnt really turning them on. I would speak to the highly sexed person and maybe suggest having sex your way. If the sex is good when you have it and you really do just have a low sex drive i would tell the other person sex isnt everything and try mabe getting a hobby together or going out more so you cant have sex all the time!! (p.s you could just buy her a sex toy and tell her to use that on her self instead you can just watch!)
2006-11-22 21:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by nicnac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest with her, explain that your sex drive isn't too great at the moment but reassure her its not because you don't fancy her anymore. Then I would talk to your doctor it may be that you are suffering from stress and this can affect your sex drive without you realising it. You can always come to some compromise and reassure her you love her in other ways, by cuddles, compliments etc and if she hasn't got a vibrator get her to get one this will take a great deal of pressure off you and could be fun for both of you too. Good luck, but above all be honest she will appriciate you more for it. x
2006-11-22 14:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by looby1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not many guys have a lower sex drive than a female. Just tell her how it is, that you feel you have a lower sex drive than her and if she doesn't respect that then end it or enjoy the load of sex that most guys would love to have!
2006-11-22 14:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 08:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a woman with a high sex drive just want more and more and husband needs a break just come out and tell her there are other ways you can please her , but then maybe your to good when you have that drive she can't get enough , but i know to much sex can destroy a relationship as much as not having enough sex.
2006-11-22 14:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why send me round and I could help her cool down a bit with a good cold shower and a good hard shoulder. If you get a little bit excited why you can join in and have so fun too, as long as we all have fun. I am a real good trucker if you know what i mean!!!
2006-11-22 15:04:13 · answer #7 · answered by lesbianlorry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check with your doctor. the low sex drive may be a treatable problem..
if you aren't wanting sex for emotional or moral reasons, then tell her you want to slow down.. if she loves you, she will accept this.
2006-11-22 14:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think Pink4u101
The way to let her know is to tell her after sex & let her know when you 2 are in bed 2gether. Tell her how you feel. I am a women with a higher sex drive, than my mate & i let him know how i felt after sex(lol)! And he start giving me more oral. So that another way to please your mate without have sex!
P.S:: Just make sure she's satisfied;)
2006-11-22 14:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by thinkpink4u101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, and if she doesn't want to stay because of that then it is her loss. She would only be interested in sex and not the person.
2006-11-22 14:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋