I am 15 and there is this guy that I like and I didnt really start liking him until I thought he was flirting with me. For instance he always takes stuff from me in english and biology class and he expects me to chase him around to get it which i think it is adorable! So anyways, over thanksgiving break I can't stop thinking about him and I am not sure what I should do. Are there any signs that could show me that he likes me or any pointers! I never see him outside of class so it would be sort of awkward if i wanted to see if he would hang out at the movies or something. So before hanging out outside of school I want to make sure he really likes me first, Ugh, guys are so confusing I really need some help here! I am desperate. I know this has been long but I can't stop thinking about him and I really need some help. Thanks for taking the time to help and I definately appreciate it!!
2006-11-22 14:31:59 · 10 answers · asked by Danielle g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would bet that he likes you. one way a guy flirts with a girl is by paying her extra attention. also doing anything to get close to you and talk to you. he is doin all of these things. you have to flirt back with him big time now. smile, giggle, play with your hair, gently touch him when talking, those kind of things. even let it be known to your friends you like him. hopefully word gets round to him and he asks you out. goodluck!
2006-11-22 14:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've pretty much been going through a similar situation...
Here are a few pointers:
1. When you walk by him, pretend like you don't see him and ignore him. If he comes up to you and says "hi," it means that he cares enough to seek you out, and likes you.
2. Don't ask him out, wait for him to make the first move. He may just have a flirtatious personality, and not be interested in him. You can hint around at going somewhere with him, but DO NOT directly ask.
Boys are impatient, if he really likes you, he will ask.
3. Call him with some phony question about one of your classes. It will help you get through Thanksgiving break :-)
4. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-22 14:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with it. Don't do anything stupid. My best friend is a guy and he does stuff like that all the time. He loves......to goof around all the time, and while it's annoying, he doesn't mean it in an intimate way. Your crush is unhealthy; get some fresh air and sunshine. If he does like you enough to take a chance, he will tell his friend to ask you out. Don't obsess over something when you're not sure what it is yet.
2006-11-22 14:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey looks to me like you need to work up the courage to just talk to her..try doing it on facebook or twitter? After you're sure she likes you take the plunge and ask her out, She'll never be your girlfriend if you don't make the effort. Girls like you to be funny too so no pressure just be yourself and she'll like you anyway :) Good luck.
2016-05-22 20:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hes definetly interested in you if he tries to get your attention...just ask him out sometime(he wont reject it trust me im a guy)...when you are out with him just talk to him...tips on a date:DO NOT BE SILENT!!!that doesnt mean you have to rattle on and talk non-stop but do not always wait for him to talk and do not give him one word answers when he ask you questions...doing so would just make it so akward and both of you would feel like strangers...just try and talk like he is your good friend and you could really confide in each other...after that when he sends you home just tell him that you kinda like him and see his response....DO NOT BE SHY IN ASKING....even if he really has no interest in having a girlfriend he would still be flattered that a gal finds him adorable....so good luck...
2006-11-22 14:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are confusing i think girls r anyway, instead of playing around talk about anything like school stuff
2006-11-22 14:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by iowadude92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does like you i'm 14 and every guy has a different way of flirting and I honstly doubt that he would treat you badly (awkwardly) outside of class...He prolly does like you.. and you should go for it.
2006-11-22 14:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well wen u guys are in class and he makes a joke or something see if he looks at you to see if ur luaghing or check to see if hes always staring at you more than any other girl in the class.also if he flirts wit you more than any other girl in the class.hope i helped.
2006-11-22 14:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of him as your girlfriend that way you more relax, and be yourself , what would you do if you want to get together with the girls? show your interest if He is into you he would take the hint ! good luck ! you have tones of opportunities!
2006-11-22 14:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by violet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it. go take a risk and run with it. good luck
2006-11-22 14:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋