i was aggravated at this girl today for like totally hugging other guys when she well and good knows i like her she doesnt give a darn about my feelings to an extent when we are at school but when im at home and she reaches home she calls and said shes sorry should i put up with this or just not talk to her?
2006-11-22 14:00:55 · 5 answers · asked by NOOB 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may like her but she has a right to hug who she wants. If you can't deal with the fact she doesnt like you the same back then you need to put distance between u and her. But you have no right to try to control her.
2006-11-22 14:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds shady, I wouldn't put up with it. If she can't show you the respect in public as she does on the phone then she's not worth your time.
To top it all of she knows she's doing it, because she calls and apologizes when she gets home. It would be different if she did that unknowingly, it would be different, but still not good.
I wouldn't totally stop talking to her I would say a quick hi at school and act completely uninterested in what she is doing or saying and if she calls, answer and just act random about anything she says and than make up a lame excuse why you need to get off the phone. Like oh someones knocking, then say hold on and then tell her you have to go, then don't say talk to you later or anything just say O...K.. bye. It will drive her insane, then maybe she'll realize how nice it was to have you in her life.
And don't talk to her about it, she'll think your clingy or controlling. Just kind of avoid her in a non-chaulant way until she comes to you for answers. Believe me if you onced paid alot of attention to a girl than all of a sudden just stop, it makes them wonder and possible like you more.
2006-11-22 22:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she's putting up a front. She's one way with friends and out in public and another when she's in private.
I would say, she most likely doesn't care about your feelings. You'll know for sure if you bring it up the next time you talk with her and tell her that you don't understand why she would be so flirtatious with other guys infront of you when she knows that you like her.
The worst thing you could do is fall for the "But that's just the way I am" excuse. Because that's all it is - an excuse.
2006-11-22 22:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what are you two, dating, exclusive, boyfriend/girlfriend? If you are not exclusive, she can do what she wants and if you accept her apologies every night you are the one with the problem. Maybe you should just walk away, it does not sound healthy.
2006-11-22 22:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get her in the sack..if ur any good she'll prob stop messing with any guy's at that point.
2006-11-22 22:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋