I have a sister she makes good money and is in college she's doing great for herself and I'm very proud, I notice that when I'm doing good she looks at me (as if) when ever I tell her I'm doing good she gives me that long ohhhhhh ok...I don't have much I work very hard trying to finish school, I'm a normal person with regular friends and she hangs out with us most of the time and she has a great time, she really doesn't have much friends but the few friends she has are cool...we had an argument the other day and now she's fighting over a blouse? which is typical of her cause everytime we argue she'll say (I want my stuff back, which I do) but when everything is cool she doesn't bother with the stuff...what's really the deal?
2006-11-22 14:02:16 · 8 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
And now its the holiday and she will not speak to me at all...
2006-11-22 14:12:13 · update #1
F-that I'm not playing that game anymore I've just about had it! its a done deal!!!
2006-11-22 14:13:24 · update #2
She's my sister she's not suppose to pass judgement on me who the hell does she she is? who is she? 7 years and hasn't had a BF!
2006-11-22 14:15:25 · update #3
It is possible
2006-11-22 14:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by bex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your sister could very well be jealous of you.
My younger sister was like that when we were younger (heck, she still is). She didn't have a lot of friends and hung around with me all the time - even with me and my date. He even asked me, "Does your sister have to come with us all the time?" I hadn't even noticed that she was there until she whined about not having friends. She would borrow my stuff without my permission and if I had something I was using of hers and we argued, she'd always want it back. She would always watch me and would always be jealous of my friends or anyone that liked me. I never could put a finger on it except that she still does it. She just isn't happy with her life, that's all.
Your sister probably envies your personality. A lot of time, sisters can have a successful life but if you are the one with friends and cool attitude about things - it could be some things she envies and wishes she had herself.
If she is younger than you, you can reassure her by telling her you think she is cool (if you do think so). She might need to know that you admire her for this or that (only tell her if this is true). My sister did tell me this and never felt that I thought much of her. I probably didn't when we were little because my mom made her hang around me and she was a pain in the butt. But as we grew older, I realized that she just wanted MY acceptance. So now we are okay - though she sometimes gets mad when I don't call or visit her as often as she likes.
Oh well.... :)
2006-11-22 22:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by terryoulboub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly she could be a little jelous, because you have more of a "free" life style... i will tell you this from my experence that my sis is older then me, and i've always been the outgoing one.. like i had all the friends and i was always out, etc... Then i started going out with this guy whom i've been with for 9 1/2 years and we had a son, and now we are expecting another baby, and at times it can get frustrating cause NOW she is the one always going out, an having fun with her friends!! So i will admit i will get a little jelouse about her "freedom" but thats life and who really cares?!?! So maybe that is it?? Who really knows, i think you should just swallow your pride, because she is your sister and she is a part of your family weather you like it or not or at least for this one time, and go and talk to her, and if she still doesnt want to talk to you then, so be it, at least you tried... it takes two to have a relationship not one!!
~CHEERS!!~
2006-11-22 22:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup! Sister usually tend to be jealous, and some dont. It completely depends on how that person is. Ur the nice on and she's the mean one. Thats how it works. Lol
2006-11-22 22:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she felt than she's a lit inferior to you cuz you also have the edge to be somebody...
2006-11-22 22:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by I think this is useful you see 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She appears to be looking down at you.
2006-11-22 22:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm
2006-11-22 22:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by here and now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants your ciggeretts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-22 22:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋