I have a question for all you women out there, can you perchance help me with this one?

Question

My wife and I are swingers. We want to go about a 3join with a man, but where should we go and what should we do and say to slowly persuade someone to do this with us? We live in NYC, have been here for about 6 years, but do you know of any places we could try asking? We obviously are looking for somebody bisexual, and please no angry comments, I'm not being rude or joking or being dirty. It's an honest question and I do appologize if you don't like our lifestyle, but I am looking for real places. If there's a site I could go to to even find places around here, I would like links to those as well, unless you know of some places. Thank you so much, I would really appreciate some ideas. (No offense to Bible readers, but please don't push your information in our faces, we know and respect your opinion, but don't see it in our lives.) Thank you.

Answer 1

Hey! We really like a site called SLS. It will allow you to do a search & show you many ppl are in your immediate area, as well as different listings of clubs & events like Meet & Greets in your area. You can join for free, and it really serves as a great way to find others you may be interested in. Good luck, and happy swinging :)

Answer 2

I thinkyou should like go to a BI chatroom in NYC and maybe go from there? start talking out easy with a man and be like yea me and my wife are thinking about a 3 some with anoter guy jus take it easy

Answer 3

Look in local magazines/newspapers in the classified section.

Answer 4

http://www.swingersclublist.com/New_York_swingers.html

i got kinda confused from this website but if you can figure it out..
go you!!

ooo you seem very sweet but don't appologize for your lifestyle silly!!!

Answer 5

i don't know any sites personally but perhaps you could google swinger clubs. i'm sure they exist...good luck.

Answer 6

www.adultfriendfinder.com