Was I wrong or Was He? I think I was but I think punishment is too drastic.?

Question

Guy likes me and comes dwn from L.A. to the Bay at the drop of a hat to visit me. We're talking a 6 hour drive. He leaves L.A. at midnight cuz we were on the phone and we were tlking bout how mch we missed each other. He gets to my house at @ 6 a.m. We spent the whole day tgthr and it was perfect bliss. It seems like we really like each other. This was our 3rd time seeing each other. Well b4 he decided to com dwn I had already had plans with my gfs to go to a prty wit a bunch of Pro Basketball Players. Anyway I didn't care about the prty but my frnds hounded and hounded me to go and it was wrng and rude for me to flake on them when we already had plans. I was torn between them and this guy; I asked the guy if he wld just come with me. He said he didn't have clothes but that I cld go and that while I was at the party he wld visit his frnds that lived near by. I cld call him when I was done and we cld go bck home. He dropped me off at the prty and I hvnt herd from him since

Answer 1

You showed him that you weren't really into him and didn't feel that he was really worth your time. Call him and apologize.