i dont now if i should brack up with boyfriend or stay with the same relacion ship cause me and him fight alot and for averything and ever day and also his friend is always into our relacion ship that why we fight alot and also a 2 day ago we was arguing so i hit my boyfriend and my boyfriend is really viylens so he hite me i was going to brack up with him but i love him soo much i corrent wat should i do?
2006-11-22 14:01:31 · 16 answers · asked by cristal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All I gotta say is if yall really love each other than yall won't be arguing in the first place and if your boyfriend really loves you he wouldn't have hit you back even thou you hit him. think bout that?
2006-11-22 14:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Loca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't recommend staying in an unhealthy relationship.All the fighting and arguing could have you in an early grave. Don't mean to scar you but it is true. Women are so strong. We put up with so much but it has to end someday. If your confrontation with him is to the point you can't focus on what will better you in life you need to get out. You can do bad by yourself. Focus on what makes you happy and what will pay off for you in the long run. You are too special for that. Take care of yourself. Good Luck.
2006-11-22 22:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Conservative 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should definately leave him once they start hitting you thats it no repect and the violence will continue u sound very young please dont put up with it you have your life ahead of you dont settle for less than you deserve as for the friend jealousy if u r arguing so much theres the sign you r no ment to be together if a male has no respect for you you r doomed get out now take care
2006-11-22 22:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by susan f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave him especially if you are both starting to put your hands on one another once you start fighting like that it probably wont stop I hate to say it but you two aren't right for each other just leave before it gets worse there is some one out there for you who you wont fight with all the time
2006-11-22 22:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One violence is not the answer. And two you need to get out of that kind of relationship fast before you get in to deep. Now I know you love him but you need to ask yourself 2 things......
Do I really love him? Or is it lust?
AND
Am I willing to sacrifice my life and put my life in jeopardy because of a man that I "love"?
Also I think you should think deep about the word LOVE.
Good luck!
2006-11-22 22:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by kaykay_4lyfe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave first and go back to English class afterwards, ever hear of a sentence?
2006-11-22 22:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For crying out loud! Learn to spell.
Criminy!
2006-11-22 22:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him and get another boyfriend that you wont ever fight with and always agree with you
2006-11-22 22:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by angelz0101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him to the curb and spend your time at the library, you can find good books and good men in one
2006-11-22 22:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by dawn_horger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your abusing eachother GET OUT NOW!
2006-11-22 22:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Artificially Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋