I kno he reall cares about me cause he always introduces me the proper way and is such a gentalmen.he's so nice to my parents and sibs.he thinks we should cause we've been together since i was 11 years old and he's never cheated.so peeps if you have advice to a 16 year old who doesn't kno to go all the way or not. so pleaz help me.
2006-11-22 13:58:28 · 8 answers · asked by Monique T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should wait, it sounds like your not to comfortable with the whole situation, or you wouldn't be asking this question. Don't rush into anything, your still young and have your whole life ahead of you.
If you do though don't forget to be safe, there are so much things out there nowdays.
2006-11-22 14:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldn't cause you both really to young and your not married thats what married couples do. he telling you that way cause he has testrone in his body so his hormones are out of control at that age. so just tell him he not ready to handle the responsibilty and am sure since he has been with you for a very long time he should respect it. let say you do that with him and yall broke up then what you have gave a piece to somebody that you not going to marry now so when you marry your husband you can't give him that very first time and if he is like me that will be upsetting to know that somebody has been with his wife. i understand that it is stressful and pressure but trust me in the end when your married you can celebrate cause you did the right thing.
2006-11-22 22:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u say further I'm assuming you mean having sex. You need to tell him NO. There is no next level. That is just a strategy to get in yo pants. What do you get out of having sex a baby. a std, a broken heart? It is just not worth the risk!!!!!!!!
2006-11-22 22:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you have been together so long and you both are so young makes me worry that this one might not be the right one. but if he is then he will understand if you want to wait. if you arnt sure then you need to think of ALL the risks. this will be his first time? make sure it is what you both want not just what he thinks you should do. be comfortable enough to talk to him and your parents about it. you will need GOOD birthcontrol. i wish you the best
2006-11-22 22:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by lovingmommy_of1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a gentleman he will wait.
I would tell him that you are not ready. Then, I would not allow myself to get into situations where either of you might be tempted to go further than you are ready to go.
Don't let anyone push you into something you are not ready for.
2006-11-22 22:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't!!! Now is not the time. 16 is too young to have to worry about all the risk that going along with sex. If you are not sure, that means wait.
2006-11-22 22:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by ladyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times are you going to ask this?
2006-11-22 22:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready then don't do it. Wait until u are ready then it will be much more meaningful to u.
2006-11-22 22:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋