she kinda controlling we argue alot, she hates all my friends and chocies. sometimes i think that she buys my love. she doesnt trust me and she sometimes tells me that she hates me. why do i stay with her. because i love her, i care about her, she does take care of me,we have alot in common, when we are not fighting we get along. we share alot of deep dark secrets, and behind closed doors with a dont distrub sign on it i feel more comfortable then i ever think i could with her. HELP ME WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO???
2006-11-22 13:57:55 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She shouldn't tell you that she hates you. She shouldn't hate your friends either. Does she hate your family? I guess you should try to imagine her in your life in the future, and what that would be like. Would you two be living together, and you'd never get to see your friends? What's more important then, her or your life before you met her? Can you imagine having kids with her? I would hate to think there'd be terrible fights where she screams that she hates you in front of the kids. I kinda don't think you should stay. If you really want to stay and you think she has good intentions and that she is saying all of these mean things to you because you are living your life in such a way that it hurts her, then I think you need to think about making some changes in your actions... clean up your act a little bit, and see if she respects you then. But just think about these things so far, and try to answer some of these questions for yourself so you can make the best decision for yourself. I wish you all the best.
2006-11-22 14:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound like love to me, it sounds like lust. In that case, i think you should really think about this.. make a list. two columns, good things and bad things.. then compare them, see if the bad things are worth going through just to get to the good things...
2006-11-22 22:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Vlaew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not love so stop wasting both of your time and let go..
2006-11-22 22:00:20 · answer #3 · answered by ahnnah.reynoso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aren't you a girl cause your name says ashley - ewwww - break up with her if you feel that way
2006-11-22 22:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by ♥lovellly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KICK her to the curb
2006-11-22 22:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋