Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

Fellas, If your girlfriend whom you live with were to wake you up at say 2 or 3am to have passionate sex with her, and if she were ready and willing to do certain things for you.... would you be mad at her and not want to do it because you get up to get ready for work at 7? And if you are a girl, in your opinion how do you think your past or present boyfriends would respond?

2006-11-20 14:07:46 · 17 answers · asked by Lucy20 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my girlfriend for half an year, and we like each other very much. Last week we went to a mountain hunting for rabbits and I unfortunately fell off from a tree 'cause it was snowing and everythins was slippery. My leg got cut by the tree trunk, so she took off my pants. I was wearing a pair of pantyhoses because my friend told me a pair of pantyhoses are very good for your body to keep warm when you do something in clod winter outside. But my girlfriend got so annoyed by that, she thought that I have some mental problem. I tried very hard to explain to her but she didn't listen to me at all. She said that I was wired to wear women's pantyhoses and she doesn't answer my phone any more! What should I do to let my girlfriend to trust me that I am mentally Okay?

2006-11-20 14:07:40 · 7 answers · asked by John McRally 1 in Singles & Dating

today my mom wanted me to go to a sycologist but when i refused, she used my sesion and paid for it with my money that i had been saving up (about 200$). I was suposed to go shopping with my friend but all my money had disipeared. I had to tell her I couldnt go. After she got back, I told my mom that I was too upset to go to school tomorrow. She told me if i didnt go she wouldnt take me to a bar mitzvah in florida i had been planning to go to for months. She also makes fun of me when i have a hard time at school.My mom ocasionaly hits me. What should I do?

2006-11-20 14:06:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Relationship question. My girlfriend of the past 4 plus years is behaving strangely. We have been on and off again for the past year plus. We split up per her decision of not trusting me, although she was the one being secretive with new friends, hanging out with different crowds etc. Facts are that she has shared herself with another, maybe more than one guy. I have also done this with a woman as it was a one night stand. From snooping I found that she had developed feelings for this gent. as he was a true player and used her for the sex. I am trying to get back into her life now, she is accepting the time and care I give to her but seems she is incrediblyt selfish. She has time for me when her friends dont have a "night out planned". I see pics of her being warm and friendly to many old college friends, male of course. She gets numerous calls, voice mails and takes her phone with her everywhere. AM I A FOOL to pursue her as she is, was the best love of my life???

2006-11-20 14:05:16 · 12 answers · asked by snolt2000 1 in Singles & Dating

I particularly want to hear from the guys, would you move across the country to live with a girlfriend?

2006-11-20 14:04:49 · 19 answers · asked by alltheanswers 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok a pic is below and also i am an extremely kind gentleman like 15 year old. Very mature for my age, an actor, a soccer player, baseball player, tennis player, intelligent, and my hair is different now btw. I jus got turned down so i want to see what ppl think www.myspace.com/marlinosufan

2006-11-20 14:04:17 · 14 answers · asked by Tommy T 1 in Singles & Dating

...holding hands and dinner at a nice restaurant? Do they make a Dummies book Learning How to Be More Romantic?

2006-11-20 14:03:59 · 22 answers · asked by rokdude5 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i really really like this guy.. for like 3 years now. and at some point, i'm pretty sure he liked me too. we started out as friends, talking at parties and such... and he'd made attempts to hold my hand and made jokes about "the two of us". but a few years have gone by now and i only see him in the halls. i can almost "feel" the connection from the past. and he'll focus on me in the crowd, and is extra quiet around me. and if we ever talk, he'll stare at my lips. (my friends tell me all this- before they even knew i liked him) he's really shy and according to my friends, doesn't treat anyone like he treats me. he's had a few girlfriends before, but they've always been the ones to ask. anyway, i was wondering how i could get him to loosen up around me WITHOUT actually asking him out right away. (that would be awkward since i haven't talked to him for so long). once we get reaquainted that would be more appropriate... also, do you think he likes me?

2006-11-20 14:03:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 14:03:14 · 6 answers · asked by LIVE LIFE LIKE ITS GOLDEN 1 in Friends

Why do guys cheat on there gurls but when it happens to them it's a whole different story. What my point is why do you cheat on your girl and you tell her that you love her?

2006-11-20 14:02:05 · 7 answers · asked by grldntolliver 1 in Singles & Dating

At my wedding in a few months, my fiance and I want to really wow our family and friends with an impressive dance. We learned the waltz, but we need to pick a song. Any recommendations?

2006-11-20 14:01:49 · 3 answers · asked by murolo013 1 in Weddings

I like this guy that plays in band with me, i keep on giveing him signals that I like him. But he seems to not notice them. I'm not sure if he likes me back. HELP!!!!!

2006-11-20 14:01:21 · 6 answers · asked by Becky S 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright, I have a few dating issues at the moment, i can date 1)my ex who cheated on me when he was drunk 2)my ex that bought a video game instead of our oprah tickets or 3)try to date a guy i don't have a hope with...... I have STRONG feelings for all three of them, but i don't know what to do...help anyone?

2006-11-20 14:01:17 · 8 answers · asked by Bbclarie_Chick 1 in Singles & Dating

I am currently in a fresh relationship with a guy for the past few months. The relationship is long distance and I have gone to see him. Recently the relationship has gotten a little quiet meaning: He does not call and if I do either he wont answer or He will rush the convo. I have heard his friends making dates with chicks in the midst of our convo but I really aint pay it any attention. He says he loves me but I am not feeling any love from him. Its been 3 days since I talked to him last. What should I do? SHould I just leave or See it through.

COnfused

2006-11-20 14:00:39 · 30 answers · asked by *LDY* 1 in Singles & Dating

I need advice. I seem to ave a handle on my life professionally, I have a good job?
I own my own house and have a very good work ethic. I've never looked to a man to take care of me, I've always been fiercely independent and anything I've wanted, I've worked hard and gone for. I just don't get my personal life, have I put myself in a position that men are not interested in me? I either get men who want to latch on because they know I'm a good worker or young guys who want sex, I guess I don't know what to do differently?? HELP

2006-11-20 13:59:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 13:59:19 · 6 answers · asked by Lolo 1 in Friends

lol if so, what?

2006-11-20 13:59:06 · 13 answers · asked by cutiee 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you think of my poem? plz point out area’s to work on? I just barely wrote it and I really want to get it –if not perfect—at least really good!!! so plz read it, yes I kno it’s a little long, but it only takes about 40 seconds to read… hasnt anyone ever told you to stop and smell the roses =)

So Called Friends

Do you not know
I am independent
I choose what I want to do
And when I want to do it
I can see what you are trying to do
You are trying to
Manipulate me
Control me
Well it wont work
I have matured and
I have realized
That Although we were good friends
Things are changing
Maybe for the best
Maybe for the worst
Maybe we’ll never know
You ignored me today
Acted like I was invisible
And that did hurt
Maybe last year I would’ve
Dumped him
Trashed him
But I know that
I am different than you
And I realize
That although you MAY have my
Best interests at heart
You cannot make my decisions for me
You cannot control me
I do love you

2006-11-20 13:58:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He's 29 yrs old. Doesn't smoke, doesn't drink coffee, doesn't do drugs or take any prescriptions. He eats healthy, exercises and drinks socially.

Problem, he has difficulties getting an erection, maintaining an erection and has premature ejaculation.

We've been together for almost 2 years. I feel I have been extremely patient, tender & caring. After 2 years of complete patience & understanding on my part, he still doesn't see that there's a problem. He has not slept with many women (only 3 including me). He has never been able to get a 2nd erection within 24 hours - sometimes that is even pushing it. We only get to see each other on weekends, so honestly he's only erect for one round which will last a couple of minutes. I am left feeling so hurt and angry as I put all my effort into helping him get an erection and I'm left hanging all the time - and I do mean all the time.

I tried to tell him to see a doctor and he had no clue as to what I'm was talking about???

2006-11-20 13:57:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I asked "why is my husband so hot?" I got deletet and I got a violation message. How stupid is that? I've seen questions on here that contain some offensive stuff, but they don't get deletet. Could it be that someone complained or something?
Maybe they can not deal with it that my husband really is that H-O-T! ;o)

2006-11-20 13:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by pearl_682 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 13:57:19 · 23 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 13:56:55 · 9 answers · asked by Abner R 1 in Singles & Dating

like sometimes i hate it when alls goin well but evetually yu run out of topic to talk abt now what?..?!.. besides all the stupiness lie kissing and all but im saying like conversation wise.

2006-11-20 13:56:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont wear lowcut clothes.

2006-11-20 13:56:33 · 12 answers · asked by weirdo123 1 in Friends

2006-11-20 13:56:11 · 13 answers · asked by Cathead01 1 in Singles & Dating

ok...i like this guy...hes a senior in high school...and im a freshman in high school also...we are friends...we talk and flirt on the internet all the time...im debating on asking him to my winter formal...i just dont know if he likes me...or if he will just say no...his g/f just recently broke up w/ him...like on sat. night...his ex is like sorta my friend...i didnt start liking him until sunday...is that bad to like him??...will this mess up our friendship??...what do i do??

2006-11-20 13:55:48 · 8 answers · asked by lil_hott_stuff 1 in Singles & Dating

Dont people feel hurt when they backstab someone , who has always been there for them , will they even feell the least of guilt for doing this to me !

2006-11-20 13:55:13 · 14 answers · asked by BABY GURL 2 in Friends

Ok. If you want the whole scoop, you can read any or all of my Q's. I bet there are 100 about all this stuff. Anyways, here's the abridged version: we start going out, hit it off HUGE! Not sparks, fireworks. Things going great. Few months pass, she grows distant. We talk. And talk, and talk. You get the idea. For the next 3 mos, it's hit or miss w/ her, my feelings grow deeper. And I really think hers have to for me. Turns out she's got something in her past between us, not her fault, but she's not past it, either. I know this much but don't know specifics. I have ideas based on her approach to me (we start to get close, she backs away, we get closer, she shies further away. Bizzare) But, now she has decided it is best if she is single right now as she claims she "will only hurt me" which I think she really believes yet she texts me like crazy. I want to be w/ her and will lay it all out for her soon. My Q: since she won't tell me what's in the way, can I tell her I may already know?

2006-11-20 13:54:33 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

My dad's wife has always been an embarassement at functions but they were always cordially invited. Lately she has been bringing up the fact that my sons father is not her biological dad when we have warned her about it and told her not to bring it up that was private, our son also told us, the last time our son and daughter wen to visit them my dads wife was mean to them, yelling, and thowing food at them. My son was upset and she insists on bribing our daughter who is 3 with candy and sweets to keep her happy. Should we invite them for Christmas or just send them a gift in the mail?

2006-11-20 13:54:29 · 9 answers · asked by tcy114 2 in Family

is it better to be with a guy that ur not attracted sexuasly but will treat you like a queen or be with a guy that you're attracted sexually and emotionaly but will not treat you right ?

2006-11-20 13:54:07 · 20 answers · asked by gougga 1 in Singles & Dating