I like this guy that plays in band with me, i keep on giveing him signals that I like him. But he seems to not notice them. I'm not sure if he likes me back. HELP!!!!!
2006-11-20 14:01:21 · 6 answers · asked by Becky S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Instead of waiting for the guy to ask you out, why not ask him out yourself. If he's not interested in you, he will sure turn down your invitation but if he like you, he will accept your invitation. Why wait for the guy to make the next move when you can take the 1st move rather keep on asking yourself the "He loves me, he loves me not" question over and over to yourself? Get a new target if this guy don't like you the way you like him. Maybe you will find a better man? Love is about taking risk, no risk no return right?
2006-11-20 14:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I commend you for giving him "signals" and resisting the urge to ask him out (many people would say you should just go for it, but trust me, guys would rather do the asking, they just don't admit it)
If you're sending him all the signals and he's not making a move, you can probably be sure he's not into you. I recommend the book "He's Just Not that Into You." It's VERY inciteful and funny, but will help you deal with his mixed signals, or lack thereof.
You'll find a great guy soon and this time HE'LL be the one giving YOU signals.
Best of luck!
2006-11-20 22:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by SummerPixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out!!!! what do you have to lose?? Right now you alone and just thinking about it. Take some action and ask. If he says no then you can move on to a better looking guy that will say yes.
2006-11-20 22:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. If you sit back and don't make the move you'll never know. This one is always tough but you need to do it, even if it doesn't work out at least you'll know and then can move on.
2006-11-20 22:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about a movie, and then say "iam gonna go and see it wanna come?"
2006-11-20 22:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .. you could just ask him out . maybe he\'s shy
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