is it better to be with a guy that ur not attracted sexuasly but will treat you like a queen or be with a guy that you're attracted sexually and emotionaly but will not treat you right ?
2006-11-20 13:54:07 · 20 answers · asked by gougga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats a really hard question but i think my answer would be ither way their not the one for you
the one for you will attract you in every way shape and form. not only that but he will treat you like your the only one on this world.
2006-11-20 13:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jordan Alexis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is.....everyone eventually gets old and saggy so you will not always be physically attractive to each other. That's when the personality really comes into play. Not to mention, people start to get more attractive when they treat you right. The not-so-hot guy all of a sudden becomes very sexy when you are treated like a princess. But, if you don't plan on marrying the guy then you best be sexually attracted to him or it wont work!
2006-11-20 21:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by jodie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not the guy u are attracted to that will treat u like dirt........but there has to be some type of attraction level for u to have a good relationship. Being treated with respect is number one for sure..........so u need to concentrate on that and find someone u are also attracted to, but leaving that as second in importance.
2006-11-20 21:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither...those aren't healthy situations or have any long-term relationship potential.
In the first situation, you'd be short changing both of you...why be with someone you don't want physically? And how do you think that would cause them to feel?
The second situation is just masochistic...a romantic relationship can't last based on only good sex...and one party not treating the other party "right" will just lead to unhappiness and resentment.
Situation #1 is unfair and a waste of time for both people...
Situation #2 is not kewl for the person not being treated "right"
2006-11-20 21:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don;t you go for a guy who is emotionaly attractive and will treat you right. Just because someone butters you up doesn't mean they're mister right. Im not at the age where i should be sexually atracted. Well, just no sex for me.
2006-11-20 21:56:14 · answer #5 · answered by DBCrower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Why can't you have someone that you are attracted to sexually, and that will treat you right? I think that you have to be sexually attracted to that person (and vice versa), and that person should also treat you with respect (and vice versa). There's nothing wrong with wanting the best of both worlds. Never settle for less.
2006-11-20 21:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What good is sexual happiness if you are emotionally neglected? In this case it might be better to be alone because you can only be with a person you are not attracted to for so long. Gotta sick back & wait for a the right combination. Get a vibrator and chillllllllllllllllll
2006-11-20 21:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that ques can only be answered by you.... i would pick the guy that would treat me like a queen, i just dont think i could put up with a guy who would not treat me right. if you dont pick the first one then dont take the other one either go find a man that will do both for you.
2006-11-20 21:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is going to treat you like a queen, you will grow to love them and be attracted to them.
2006-11-20 21:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are 3 billion men on the planet do you think you can find ONE, that has the two qualities you're looking for?
But, if not, its probably best not to be with a man that treats you badly.
2006-11-20 21:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ron H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋