Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

2006-11-20 13:41:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It has come to my attention that a disgustingly larger percentage of you have been sexually assaulted than I could have ever imagined. My ex girlfriend and a very special girl to me have recently told me that they have both been assaulted--and both more than once! It seems as though it is more common for a woman to have been a victim than to not have been one. I just wanted to know if this has happened to you and whether or not you did anything about it. I have a feeling I won't like the answer.

2006-11-20 13:40:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im seein this guy for more than a year, we start with as beein friend and then we got pretty closser..like kiss...etc.. over the time i really got the feeling for him. im totally in love with him. should i tell him that i love ... how should i tell him

2006-11-20 13:39:33 · 12 answers · asked by alisha 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl ive been friends with 4 like 10 years and were like bfffffff but now this 1 girl comes into the picture she looks just like me and is trying to replace me. my friends thinks i have no idea wat im talking about wen i told her . anyway this 1 girl hates me and its really annoying she trys to act just like me to her 2 it really annoying i cant take it any more!! ill b talkin to my bff and she'll come over and pull her away and start giggling with her i HATE it!! help me!!

2006-11-20 13:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by bAbbii.K 1 in Friends

2006-11-20 13:38:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When will they stop playing the field?
Does maturity come with age?
Can a womanizer change?

2006-11-20 13:38:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for examble: you must travel at least nine hours (on ship) in order to see him. Can this type of relationship last? And if you love him how you are able to know if he is faithfull to you?
2.Can a man be good friend with his ex-girlfriend?

2006-11-20 13:38:18 · 3 answers · asked by Evita 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im getting my wisdom teeth out in two days (i am getting put to sleep for it)

(I asked this in this section to see if any of you had experience on this) thanks...

2006-11-20 13:38:08 · 7 answers · asked by hello hello! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a best friend of ten years, since high school, and she has broken up with a really great guy to date a bunch of other men, and has even slept with three of them. Problem is that I really like her ex and he really likes me. She was always really mean to him and he could never do anything right. They were known as " That" couple that always fought in front of everyone and made everyone feel uncomfortable. I NEVER tried anything when they were together and only recently started to crush on him, he has talked to me alot as well and wants to date me but I feel guilty; as if he and I would be cheating. I don't want to betray my friend but I also don't want to miss out on a really great chance with a fantastic man. Please help with honest answers.

2006-11-20 13:37:53 · 13 answers · asked by CandyCain 3 in Singles & Dating

should i call tonight or tomorrow?I met this girl last friday, emailed her on saturday since i only had her email, and she send me her number on monday ( today), she said she checked it only today.
Should I call today or wait till tomorrow?

2006-11-20 13:37:46 · 6 answers · asked by T REX 1 in Singles & Dating

i got kicked out a few days ago and now i'm living with my dad instead of my mom. he lives about two hours away (in Tampa) so i have to go to a different school. i miss all of my friends VERY much. today my mom called (in tears) telling me she wants me back (wich we knew she would do anyway. but my dad was (and still is) so excited to have me living with him wich i haven't done since i was 3.(they got divorced) he's always been around and everything. he's a great dad. she's not such of a great mom, but i miss my little brother and sister and my friends. i'm teriffied of going to a new school (with good reason, it being in Tampa and having a very high crime rate and being MUCH bigger than i'm used to) but, i will still be able to see my friends and talk to them. i know the people will be mean at the new school because people have told me. i don't want to go back to my mom's because of her and it will hurt my dads feelings very badly. that's all i can say 'cause imabouttorunoutoutofspace

2006-11-20 13:37:19 · 1 answers · asked by lacy_mali 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So there's this guy (yes I know, how many posts do you read on here that say that? Probably 2 many to count oh well.) Lately I've been wondering whether he likes me (I have liked him for a while). We are friendly, but I'm so quiet that I never really say much to him other than "hi". He seems not to notice me most of the time---and not in an "I'm ignoring you because I like you" kind of way, it just seems like he doesn't see me. But lately he will always sit next to me at the computer at school. He was hanging around today when I was doing something on the comp, too. But he said nothing to me, only talked to the people around me. I said something (because I was semi-listening to them) and then a few minutes later he walked away. I've also caught him staring at me a few times. I feel like I'm getting mixed signals--or am I just reading too much into nothing? I tend to think the latter, but I also have low self-esteem about these things. Any advice?

2006-11-20 13:37:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If someone your acquaintances with to semi-friends. You feel they seem in a bad mood. Should you just say hello and be friendly or would it hurt to say are you ok? I'm a girl and he's a guy. Would this make it seem like I like him then. Because I wouldn't want him to think I like him like that. Advice, leave it alone, or ask how they are? Or would it be ok the next time you see them smiling. Say something like there's that smile!!! Where's it been?

2006-11-20 13:36:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 13:36:36 · 6 answers · asked by K.D. 3 in Singles & Dating

..would like the fact that your guy is still a virgin?

2006-11-20 13:36:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am looking for somthing christmasy i guess and romantic but nothing so romantic that its like a valentine's day present so please suggest ideas!

2006-11-20 13:35:58 · 13 answers · asked by wutsupdog345 2 in Singles & Dating

my sister and her boyfriend live in different states but have maintained this hard relationship for 2 years now but my sister is always hanging out with a man that is in love with her. he knows she is "comitted" but keeps persuing. i feel as if her boyfriend should know but i don want to lose my sister.. i love her. should i mind my own??

2006-11-20 13:35:51 · 6 answers · asked by bossy 1 in Family

i go to an all girls school and i am a huge tomboy. at my school people hit me and when i hit them back everyone gets mad at me for hitting them back even though they see that person hit me. when i get fed up and cry people make fun of me. my classmates throw things at me. like the other day in library, we were all working on computers and two girls were throwing shoes at me. they kept missing so i ignored them, but one of the girls picked up the thick hardcover book she was using and threw it at me. it hit me on my sore ankle and it HURT. i got mad and she got upset and my whole class was really mad that i got mad. i know why im so different. because im a tomboy the las ttwo years one girl targeted me to boost her popularity and even though she stopped making my life miserable its still messed up. why cant i be like everyone else? why are they so mean?

2006-11-20 13:35:34 · 5 answers · asked by Colin Night 2 in Friends

again, another question. just want to get other peoples take on the situation.

so some of you may know, but a liked this guy, and he liked me. He was supposed to ask me out, but was too shy. Then he stopped talking to me completely! My friend told me that he thought I liked another guy, which is why he didn't like me anymore. Now he is talking to me again, and what he does is cracks jokes. But we have P.E. together, and most of the time I can't hear or understand what he's saying. So I end up going "huh?" why he laughs and then he just says "Nevermind" and looks down. Am I pushing him away, even unintentionally?

2006-11-20 13:35:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 31 year old teacher. Attractive but gained some pounds (six foot three-245lbs). I am smart, funny, semi confident, and responsible with a wild side. I have begun working out. What are some practical and attainable (I can't buy a lexus) things I can and should do?

2006-11-20 13:33:34 · 11 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 13:33:16 · 6 answers · asked by maria h 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do to get a hott boys attention and what atrches you boys???

2006-11-20 13:32:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I are having an indoor, evening wedding, and I would like to wear a black wedding dress with white accents. I was thinking of wearing this one:
http://www.anntaylor.com/IWCatProductPage.process?Merchant_Id=1&RestartFlow=t&Section_Id=2240&Product_Id=857033#null

I would have a white bouquet and white flowers in my hair. I'm just wondering if it would be too dark, and if I do go with black, what would my bridesmaid wear (I'm only having one bridesmaid to keep the wedding small)?

2006-11-20 13:32:38 · 28 answers · asked by Galoshes 3 in Weddings

2006-11-20 13:32:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how do you get this guy to like you but he likes one of your friends? he acts like he doesn't even notice me.

2006-11-20 13:32:26 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i like my best friend alot and he just doesnt like me, he likes one of his other friends and that makes me cry everynight and im tired of all these tears and i just want to be with him so bad cuz i just really love him alot

2006-11-20 13:32:09 · 2 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

i had a slight arguement with my friend today. Where she offered me a ride home and i wouldnt take it
she wanted to know why i wouldnt take it and why i push people away
i basically told her that she never has to worry about me
shes says that she just wants to help and cares that if i ever needed her she was there

then she sent me an email saying this

I just wanted to apologize for how hard I pushed you tonight. I had absolutely no right to butt into your personal buisness like I did. I hope that you can forgive me. Just please understand that it hurts me so much to see my friends in pain. And no, you are not "dragging me down" and yes, I do care, and I care on my own free will. I'm truly greatful that you accepted my offer for the ride because you live a long ways away. Know this: if you need me, I'm here for you...and I know Will is too. You've helped me so much in the past, I wouldn't be as happy as I am now if it weren't for you...so please let me do something for you in return. Even if what you is for me to stay away now, I will. I apologize again. Good night mon ami.

Your friend
Christa

so then i sent her this

i saying this as softly as I can

your not sorry ok

you did nothing wrong

im going to say it again

you did absolutely nothing wrong

its me Christa

i always pushed away its come from my experiences

its the way ive been brought up

I wont ask anyone for a dollar, i wont ask anyone for a ride its just the way i am

if i had to walk 3 miles out of my way to help you or anyone else out i would because that was never done for me


I truly appreciate the care you give and what you both did tonight

its just i never had that before i never had that caring

i didnt know how to react



if you want to know whats really going on with me right now i would tell you


i dont want anything in return as far as im concered i didnt do anything for you that you wouldnt do for me


i just want you to be yourself

thats it


i want you to laugh at my jokes when you think there funny i want you to smile when you want to smile

watching you or anyone else laugh because of something i did or said gives me more than you could imagine


Christa i know you still dont want to hear this

im the last person you ever need to worry about

i think its spectacular how you care after i say that

ill find my way through anything ill go over anybody

I would never hurt you.

i would never tell you to go away ever

im sorry for what happenend. Ill take responsiblity.

thank you Christa you gave me something i never had.

if you ever need me for anything im right here
ill always your shoulder to fall back on

i then got this from her

Hey Bill!!

Don't worry, we're fine. I'm not mad or anything even remotely close, just concerned. The only reason why I didn't reply back sooner was because my computer caught a nasty virus and I gave it to Will's mom's computer as well. That turned into an ordeal and my computer survived but Will's wasn't so lucky (if you haven't talked to him lately, that would probably be the reason why).

So yeah, sure, we can talk tomorrow. I'm in the cafeteria in the mornings, you can probably pull me aside then. But yeah, Will was really concerned as well, we both want you to be happy and stress-free. Last nigth when I was with Will until 11:00pm trying to get his computer running and while he was stressing over that, he was all like "I really hope Bill's okay". I agreed with him. We both care about you and we both are willing to help in any way that we can, promise. So don't be afraid to talk to Will either, he would probably also understand because he's a guy and all. But if you really want to talk to me alone, that's fine too. Well I have to check on my brownies now so that they don't burn, talk tomorrow then.

Feel better mon ami
Christa


i wonder though if we are okay. i saw her today and things were fine, but i got this feeling like i gave her the idea that i dont want her to care about me. I get this feeling that ive just got to say exactly whats on my mind. To just spill it out. That if i dont say it that she is going to stop showing that care. so should i once and for all should i let it all out or has that already been done.

2006-11-20 13:32:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-20 13:31:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband wants to open his own business in construction, doing remodleing and roofs. he want's something like HandyMan. i was wondering if someone can come up with something better.

2006-11-20 13:30:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

NO SMART-*** Answers please. I need this for my essay which is due tomorrow.

2006-11-20 13:29:48 · 4 answers · asked by killsyche 3 in Other - Family & Relationships