Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

How important money is in someone's love?
Should I choose tender and caring love with one person with modest living style over an opportunity of possible wealth with someone I might meet later in life?
Serious responses please.
Thank you.

2006-11-20 13:53:58 · 14 answers · asked by Mira 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend that has been my best friend since i was 2 and i made a new friend and i REALLY love handing out with her but both of them dont really like eachother......AT ALL! i have tried getting them to be friends but it just doesnt work. i think i might like my new friend better she is soooo fun and sooo awsome but sometimes she lies and that is why no one likes he and i dont think she lies that much at all, but when i am with my old friend i have so much fun with her.

2006-11-20 13:53:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-20 13:53:07 · 35 answers · asked by inuyashaanimepower 1 in Friends

Ok, so, there is this girl i really really REALLY like! but she goes to college 5 states away! :( And i tried bringing up the whole "what are we?" question, but i didnt get a clear answer (i dont think she tried to make it cloudy) and i didnt want to press it. Now she has asked me to go to her family's for thanksgiving. I already said yes, but should i like bring a floral arrangement for her mom or something? and how can a i casualy bring up the "what are we?" question without seeming like a creepy naggy guy? Im so confused! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-20 13:52:52 · 7 answers · asked by mighty_cuinn 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I are seniors in highschool, and we went to the KC Chiefs football game and his sister (2 years older) and Her Boyfriend were with us.

Here are my strange but potential reasons why she may have been flirting:
1. some drunk spilled on me and she whipped out a tide pen (basically bleach in a marker that takes out stains instantly) cleaned it all off my shirt, not to mention my friend tried to stop her and she was like "no i didnt get it all yet" as she had her hands all over my chest/stomache

2. at our seats she kept bending down and rubbing that fine assss on me arm/body

3. she appologized several times for her drunk boyfriend who she said and i quote "is a jackass"

4. she sat next to me every time she got up to get food/ext

Im not asking you to care, im just asking for your honest opinon thanks!

2006-11-20 13:52:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a slight arguement with my friend today. Where she offered me a ride home and i wouldnt take it
she wanted to know why i wouldnt take it and why i push people away
i basically told her that she never has to worry about me
shes says that she just wants to help and cares that if i ever needed her she was there

then she sent me an email saying this

I just wanted to apologize for how hard I pushed you tonight. I had absolutely no right to butt into your personal buisness like I did. I hope that you can forgive me. Just please understand that it hurts me so much to see my friends in pain. And no, you are not "dragging me down" and yes, I do care, and I care on my own free will. I'm truly greatful that you accepted my offer for the ride because you live a long ways away. Know this: if you need me, I'm here for you...and I know Will is too. You've helped me so much in the past, I wouldn't be as happy as I am now if it weren't for you...so please let me do something for you in return. Even if what you is for me to stay away now, I will. I apologize again. Good night mon ami.

Your friend
Christa

so then i sent her this

i saying this as softly as I can

your not sorry ok

you did nothing wrong

im going to say it again

you did absolutely nothing wrong

its me Christa

i always pushed away its come from my experiences

its the way ive been brought up

I wont ask anyone for a dollar, i wont ask anyone for a ride its just the way i am

if i had to walk 3 miles out of my way to help you or anyone else out i would because that was never done for me


I truly appreciate the care you give and what you both did tonight

its just i never had that before i never had that caring

i didnt know how to react



if you want to know whats really going on with me right now i would tell you


i dont want anything in return as far as im concered i didnt do anything for you that you wouldnt do for me


i just want you to be yourself

thats it


i want you to laugh at my jokes when you think there funny i want you to smile when you want to smile

watching you or anyone else laugh because of something i did or said gives me more than you could imagine


Christa i know you still dont want to hear this

im the last person you ever need to worry about

i think its spectacular how you care after i say that

ill find my way through anything ill go over anybody

I would never hurt you.

i would never tell you to go away ever

im sorry for what happenend. Ill take responsiblity.

thank you Christa you gave me something i never had.

if you ever need me for anything im right here
ill always your shoulder to fall back on

i then got this from her

Hey Bill!!

Don't worry, we're fine. I'm not mad or anything even remotely close, just concerned. The only reason why I didn't reply back sooner was because my computer caught a nasty virus and I gave it to Will's mom's computer as well. That turned into an ordeal and my computer survived but Will's wasn't so lucky (if you haven't talked to him lately, that would probably be the reason why).

So yeah, sure, we can talk tomorrow. I'm in the cafeteria in the mornings, you can probably pull me aside then. But yeah, Will was really concerned as well, we both want you to be happy and stress-free. Last nigth when I was with Will until 11:00pm trying to get his computer running and while he was stressing over that, he was all like "I really hope Bill's okay". I agreed with him. We both care about you and we both are willing to help in any way that we can, promise. So don't be afraid to talk to Will either, he would probably also understand because he's a guy and all. But if you really want to talk to me alone, that's fine too. Well I have to check on my brownies now so that they don't burn, talk tomorrow then.

Feel better mon ami
Christa


i wonder though if we are okay. i saw her today and things were fine, but i got this feeling like i gave her the idea that i dont want her to care about me. I get this feeling that ive just got to say exactly whats on my mind. To just spill it out. That if i dont say it that she is going to stop showing that care. so should i once and for all should i let it all out or has that already been done.

2006-11-20 13:52:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We say we are not afraid and then we freeze up when we are about to tell them. Why?

2006-11-20 13:52:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think the perfect kiss is?

2006-11-20 13:51:56 · 16 answers · asked by Just Because 2 in Singles & Dating

i have to present something in front of my WHOLE CLASS tomorrow!!! =[ it only has to be a minute long...the thing is, i'm REALLY bad at speaking in front of people. my face gets BRIGHT red....and it gets hard to swallow, so i just look like an idiot overall.

any tips on how to get my confidence boosted so i won't be so nervous? would foundation help my face look normal? =] i need any tips.

2006-11-20 13:51:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 13:51:29 · 4 answers · asked by littleman0824 1 in Family

He moved in with her immeditaely. He doesn't call about the kids. Why is this? He doesn't even call his parents to ask about the kids. Is he having second thoughts about leaving us? Does he need a break? Or is he falling in love with her? It has only been 12 days. I am dying to know why he wouldn't be calling. he says he still loves me, and I will always be his best friend...NO RUDE answers please, I know I shouldn't want him, but we have kids, I only want answers as to WHY,

2006-11-20 13:51:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I have been together for around 5 years and living together for 1 or 2 (and there were two short breakups within that time). We've gone through some very tough times, but we're still engaged. My problem, I think, is that I don't know how to let go of the past; I'm scared that history is going to repeat itself. I believe his problem is that he really doesn't follow through on what he says he will do. We also have in-law problems. I've heard that relationships require work, but how hard is it supposed to be? I keep telling myself that there are better days ahead, but we argue all the time (we are both extremely stubborn). Does anyone have any advice on how best to resolve differences between two people in a relationship? I don't want to break up with him again because I've tried that, and despite the arguments, there's no one I'd rather be with. I just want this relationship to work out. Thanks in advance for all of your responses.

2006-11-20 13:51:12 · 4 answers · asked by Persephone 6 in Singles & Dating

He twirls his dick while I'm trying to do my work on the computer in his room. He knows he's doing it in front of me an my brother. He just doesn;t realize that we occasionally look in his direction (My brother looks at him for talking).Im no pervert, but it is distracting and disgusting. And he has enough balls to do this yet never tell me **** on the "talk". What should I do? Here's a starter take a picture of him and embarass him in front of the community and possibly child abuse.

2006-11-20 13:50:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok i skipped a grade but i keep it a total secret from EVERYBODY at school... my best friend knows but she lives out of state. i am a freshmen in highschool and im just not interested in the stuff my friends are. see, i dont want to tell anybody because i just moved a year ago and where i used to live people knew and they treated me different. here its nice just to be treated like a 14//15 year old. is it wrong for me to keep this secret? please dont answer if your gonna b mean. thanks

2006-11-20 13:49:40 · 14 answers · asked by ♫ singin_gurl1200 ♫ 3 in Friends

2006-11-20 13:49:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and was chatting on line with other females and telling them he was single? When i asked him about it he lied and said he had no clue what i was talking about.is it to early in our relationship(6 mons) for me to feel like he should just be with me?

2006-11-20 13:49:17 · 21 answers · asked by sarahmartin0990 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and was chatting on line with other females and telling them he was single? When i asked him about it he lied and said he had no clue what i was talking about.is it to early in our relationship(6 mons) for me to feel like he should just be with me?

2006-11-20 13:49:03 · 12 answers · asked by sarahmartin0990 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl that is in the grade below me that i kinda like. One of my friends asked her what she though of me and she said i was "pretty cool". So my friend and i went to cheer on our vollyeball team in the state championship. I said to her that _ and i are going to watch the team play and u are more than welcome to come with. Before this she was really friendly to me now she acts like i dont even exist or like she is shy or something. Why is this and what can i do so she thinks i am "pretty cool" again. Should i talk to her about it at all? And she is usually friendly to everyone

2006-11-20 13:48:16 · 14 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this is a stupid question but has anyone ever felt kind of empty. i guess i want a bf, but i know i dont need one. and its like every thing is going way better than expected for me. but its like theres still something out there for me. i dont know if its i want a bf or if im craving something else? has anyone ever felt like this before were your just confused and not sure of what your missing?
-thanx! -lol-

2006-11-20 13:48:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies... Every single guy I know loves it when a chick wears a plaid short-skirt and white thigh-highs, so whay don't you wear them when you are trying to attract a guy you like? If I was the King, I would establish it as the national uniform for women.

2006-11-20 13:47:49 · 16 answers · asked by Christian Paragon 3 in Singles & Dating

I really was attracted to this female. I screwed up but there was no way around it. Okay, here goes.... I talked to her on the second day. I asked her if I could visit her or she could visit me so we can talk. It was awkward for her I know as a female because she hardly knows me to visit me or for me to visit her. A real turn off for a woman especially after only 2 days of talking. Reason I asked her this I have a pay as you go track phone and those damn phone cards are expensive when you keep calling people like that. Every time I'm buying more $15 and $25 pay as you go phone cards. I explained it to her, but she didn't respond back, she just said it's o.k. I understand. She hasn't called me back in 4 days after leaving a voice mail with "I understand the awkward situation, maybe we can meet in the mall or somewhere in the open?" I still haven't heard from her yet. I killed the moment? I was trying to save my money and minutes. Wasn't my fault, just being "real" with her.

2006-11-20 13:47:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or is it someone you are thankful for ?

2006-11-20 13:47:17 · 16 answers · asked by Geedebb 6 in Family

when you want to show your bf that you love him without expressing it in words? (how would you hint it to him) plz help me out!!!

2006-11-20 13:45:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 13:45:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to your girlfriend that mean you want to kiss? Ones that she will pick up on...

2006-11-20 13:45:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 15-year-old son told me that he has a pantyhose fetish when I drove him home today form school. He said he likes his History teacher because she always wear a piar of pantyhoses. What is a pantyhose fetish? I have never heard of this term?

2006-11-20 13:44:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister just left to oregon to live and now i'm hella sad cause shes my tilda and so plz im me at soccerteen4000 cause i really wanna talk me and her where crying and **** cause me and her are hella close and now shes gone =((

2006-11-20 13:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by soccerteen4000 1 in Family

My fiance and i met and i wasn't over my x boyfriend. We hooked up 2 weeks after the break up. My fiance (my best friend at the time who I told my problems to) said he can help me forget about him so we started dating. Well my fiance and I have been dating for 4 years and he proposed to me on the 3rd year. He didn't want to talk about wedding arrangements or anything. After, asking a few times we set a date. Well over the 4 years my X has been trying to contact me but i didn't answer the phone b/c I thought it would be disrespectful to my fiance. Well my X happens to be a friend of the family so I saw him at family dinner and he confessed his dying love for me. (Obviously, I still have feelings for him) and he asked me not to marry my fiance. He also asked me that if he asked me to marry Him what would I say. Now I'm confused and my fiance knows all of this and all of a sudden he wants to move the date sooner. What should I do. My f bought us a house w/o my name. Do I leave or stay?

2006-11-20 13:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She is really hot, but kinda mean. She hates my best friend and I hate hers. She likes me and i like her. My friend says no. What do you think

2006-11-20 13:41:37 · 9 answers · asked by Jeramy Cosby 1 in Singles & Dating

I have glasses and he doesn't. He likes my friend named Kayla and she hates him and he is pretending to like someone else to get her jealous. what do I do in that situation? How to I get him to notice me? No sexy answers. I hate those. This question is only for girls. so guys, don't answer or else!

2006-11-20 13:41:11 · 9 answers · asked by Sofia H 1 in Singles & Dating