I really was attracted to this female. I screwed up but there was no way around it. Okay, here goes.... I talked to her on the second day. I asked her if I could visit her or she could visit me so we can talk. It was awkward for her I know as a female because she hardly knows me to visit me or for me to visit her. A real turn off for a woman especially after only 2 days of talking. Reason I asked her this I have a pay as you go track phone and those damn phone cards are expensive when you keep calling people like that. Every time I'm buying more $15 and $25 pay as you go phone cards. I explained it to her, but she didn't respond back, she just said it's o.k. I understand. She hasn't called me back in 4 days after leaving a voice mail with "I understand the awkward situation, maybe we can meet in the mall or somewhere in the open?" I still haven't heard from her yet. I killed the moment? I was trying to save my money and minutes. Wasn't my fault, just being "real" with her.
2006-11-20 13:47:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Use your house phone to talk to her..The only thing you can do now is if you get in touch with her is to let her know that you dont have many minutes. If she doesnt talk to you in a few days give up. If she likes you then she will return your calls.
2006-11-20 13:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by imsmartkid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her. She isn't interested in you or else she would have made some sort of move in order for you and her to talk.
On the other hand, perhaps she didn't even have a phone card and therefore had no answers for you.
I suggest this: Call her ONE time, be direct and to the point. Tell her you like her very much and would like for her to be honest with you as far as there ever being a chance between the two of you. Ask her IF she has a way of calling you without it costing her too much. Ask her IF she will call you.
Just be up front with everything and then let it flow. It will either work out or it won't. If it does, good. IF it doesn't....move on. Rejection is a horrible things......but, in your life time, you will face many "rejections". Don't let them get you down.
Good luck. Pops
2006-11-20 13:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are like that. She might be thinking u are cheap now and she is not worth it to spend the money to talk to her. This is not a good sign in a woman. You have left her a message and I would just leave it at that, if she wants to call u back she will. You don't want to look desperate on top of the situation that has already happened. Move on a find a woman who is a little more understanding and not so into herself.
2006-11-20 13:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude your right it probably did spoil the moment..she really doesn't know you at all..maybe you should invest in a home phone ..there much cheaper and you can talk as long as ya want!! it sound like she thinks your moving a little to fast to soon...give it a few days , if ya don't hear from her ,give her another call and talk a little more before ya offer to go visit her...slow it down a little
2006-11-20 13:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Katie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After one voice messagae &/or text with no response I would say give it. Any thing else will be perceived as "stalker behavior" and make her want to talk to you even less. Maybe you'll get lucky & see her out & about & can strike up a conversation then.
2006-11-20 13:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 10 is not gonna settle for a guy that cant even afford a regular cell phone.
2006-11-20 13:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by armond425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK - first mistake was the whole phone minutes thing.
Second mistake: You persue her too much. You should make her persue YOU.
However, if she won't see you, the Hell with her, she sounds like a child, which begs the question: how old are you?
2006-11-20 14:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the moment is over. Leave her alone. She probably thinks you came at her with too many issues too soon.
2006-11-20 13:50:44 · answer #8 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the "I met this 10" attitude showed through and she's looking for someone more substantial.
2006-11-20 13:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by SlapHappy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it up. If she was going to call you she would have. Besides, there are plenty fish in the sea.
2006-11-20 13:50:34 · answer #10 · answered by andy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋