and was chatting on line with other females and telling them he was single? When i asked him about it he lied and said he had no clue what i was talking about.is it to early in our relationship(6 mons) for me to feel like he should just be with me?
2006-11-20 13:49:03 · 12 answers · asked by sarahmartin0990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He denied it so that right there tells you - he is dishonest. At least you found out now. Dump him and keep looking. He cannot be trusted.
2006-11-20 13:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel like I didn't have a boyfriend.
Are you SURE it's him? Are pics posted? You've seen the messages? How do you know this? If you are sure, then confront him with your evidence.
And no...6 mos isn't too soon to feel he should be with just you...but if y'all haven't declared your exclusivity, then perhaps you are assuming something he's not feeling...
Sounds like y'all have a few things to talk about...
2006-11-20 13:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it's far to early to honor the commitment of a faithfulness, I think you have to pass 6 and 3/4 months before the faithful part comes in and 10 years before they have to stop lying to you.
2006-11-20 13:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yikes. I hate to tell you this, but he doesn't sound like your boyfriend. You will save yourself a WORLD of hurt and embarassment if you call it off right now. I think thats what he's trying to get you to do anyway, which is a spineless move many guys do when they are too chicken to break it off with someone. This really sucks, you are too good for a jerk like that! NEXT!
2006-11-20 13:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by SummerPixie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boy, have I been through this before. You have to ask yourself, "is he is in to me as much as I am into him"? Cause if he's looking then, then the answer is NO. Maybe you should look into match.com
Good Luck to ya
2006-11-20 14:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by MaxiRacing 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have to agree with most of the comments already. ive been with a guy like that before and i think you should leave the pathetic loser. he lied and then when he knew you knew he still denied it anyway . he has something to hide . he obviousy doesnt have any respect for you at all to do that to you.
2006-11-20 13:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the answers are good here. Stop taking life so seriously! There is plenty of fish in the SEE.
2006-11-20 13:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now is the time to confirm if he wishes this to be an exclusive relationship or open.......
do not be offended by his response but be cautious that you had to ask him - this should have been something that was already discussed openly......
if he chooses open - be glad you know now and did not have to learn it thru another girl......
if he chooses exclusive then remind him that includes the computer sites and honesty!
2006-11-20 13:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Marsha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and i wouldnt have a bf lol but that is besides the point. excuse the language but that is hella ****** personally i would consider that cheating cuz he is practically looking for someone else and i cant stand people who cheat. i cant stand anybody who cheats or thinks they can control their girlfriend
2006-11-20 13:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by jack_attack0322 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not in a single, committed relationship, then you have no reason to be upset.
If you are supposed to be just committed to each other, then drop him quickly before he does worse.
2006-11-20 13:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by peaceandharmonyandmercy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋