Why is she acting like this?

Question

There is a girl that is in the grade below me that i kinda like. One of my friends asked her what she though of me and she said i was "pretty cool". So my friend and i went to cheer on our vollyeball team in the state championship. I said to her that _ and i are going to watch the team play and u are more than welcome to come with. Before this she was really friendly to me now she acts like i dont even exist or like she is shy or something. Why is this and what can i do so she thinks i am "pretty cool" again. Should i talk to her about it at all? And she is usually friendly to everyone

Answer 1

ok im sorry, but who cares about her inmature attitude anyway -honestly. shes prbly kinda freaked out that u invited her since sometimes people in grades higher than u are mean and yur nice. if u want her to think your kool then act kool and dont cling on to a little kid

Answer 2

She LIKES you. Teenage girls usually do this sort of thing. They'll be really friendly and nice, but when they start having feelings for you, they'll clam up. Usually, it's because a friend said something, and the girl is embarrassed.. Or, she simply doesn't know how you feel about her, and doesn't want to push her feeling onto you, and make everything akward. What you need to do, its talk to her! Say something like "Hey, you don't need to be all shy and quiet around me, I'm the same guy I've always been.. I like it when you're outgoing and act like a goof sometimes." Or, if you just want to cut right to the point, just tell her you like her. Good luck to both of you!

Answer 3

I think shes shy take it from me im a girl. I would be shy to if a guy ahead of me asked me out. Give her a little bit of time she will change if she doesn't than you should comfront her about. She wont stay mad at you forever remeber she said your pretty cool which means she likes you.

Answer 4

It's hard to say. Maybe she misunderstood what you were saying or you gave her the wrong impression. You need to talk to her. It's not that hard. Just say, "Hi, I was hoping you were going to watch the team play with us the other day." Smile and be very friendly.

Answer 5

She most likely caught on that you like her and since you're older, that tends to be a little intimidating. So I would imagine she's really shy around you now and isn't quite sure what to say.
Just make some chit chat and make her feel comfortable around you.

Answer 6

She's not interested. What was she suppose to say, "he's yucky"? of course not. She didn't want to be mean, but she's not interested.
PS....I don't know how old you are, but NOTHING is less attractive to a girl that a guy that asks his friends to find out what a girl thinks of him. Major lack of confidence and security. Major turn off.

Answer 7

Maybe she thinks your cool as a friend and she thought you were asking her on like a date and she doesn't know how to teell you she just wants to be your friend.

Answer 8

well if u sed dat excatly she now thinks ur an egit. and pretty cool means she aint really botherd wiv ya m8, sorry man but it had to be sed be unpredictable and be in control of the situation make her come to u if she doenst den.... u knw what to do.

Answer 9

gopack: She thinks that you are hitting on her. She wants to be "friends" not your lover. Talk with her and explain to her that you were not hitting on her (I assume), and want to be only friends. I think the "come with us" part stole the show away from her. Good luck to you!

Answer 10

well give her time. maybe she's shy. or maybe she saw someone who was pretty cooler. is she the only girl aruond? you're young. look around and see