Ok i skipped a grade but i keep it a total secret from EVERYBODY at school... my best friend knows but she lives out of state. i am a freshmen in highschool and im just not interested in the stuff my friends are. see, i dont want to tell anybody because i just moved a year ago and where i used to live people knew and they treated me different. here its nice just to be treated like a 14//15 year old. is it wrong for me to keep this secret? please dont answer if your gonna b mean. thanks
2006-11-20 13:49:40 · 14 answers · asked by ♫ singin_gurl1200 ♫ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it's not wrong to keep it a secret... but it obviously bothers you to do so if it's up here....
as long as you don't lie... and tell the truth when they ask... don't ask don't tell... lol... then everything seems cool....
but if you really wanna get a heavy load of your chest... get to know alot of people... make really good friends... real and nice ones.... and then just tell them in a conversation... say how you're kinda of a smarty... but if they already think you're awesome... your grades won't make a difference.... see what i mean...
GOOD LUCk.. it'lll be okay.. it might be hard, but grading skipping isn't something to be ashamed at... they jealous cuz they'll be working for you one day... and that's just their loss...
good job kid...
2006-11-20 13:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by DR. Connect 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a freshman too but i didnt skip a grade. Its nothing to be ashamed about (skipping a grade) but if you really dont want people to know then dont tell them. If you ever get into a relationship you shouldnt keep any secrets though. I wouldnt treat anyone differently just because they skipped a grade but thats only me. Highschool is pretty tough though. I know what you mean. It will get blown up and everyone will over react but someone will find out eventually.
2006-11-20 21:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by imsmartkid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong.. I skipped 2 grades it was difficult to get interested in the things my friends were,but i acted as an anchor to help keep them from too much trouble. Then a few years later i profited from their horror stories. So relax , your best friends already suspect and eventually youll get around to talking about it... Zed
2006-11-20 21:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by zedbrzrkr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong.. But why be ashamed of being smart enough to skip a grade? Be proud of yourself and your accomplishments..
However, if things are great for you now then don't worry about saying anything. If it's not broke, don't try to fix it. You don't have to be interested in the same things they are. It's what makes you unique!
2006-11-20 21:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by bellagirlinchicago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think it is wrong to tell people that you skipped a grade however its okay to keep it a secret.
2006-11-20 22:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by kjunem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not! everyone has secrets. this is not bad at all, nobody wants to be an outsider or differently. but if and when you do decide to tell someone and you dont want it to get out just be careful of who you tell. they could use it against you in some way or another.
2006-11-20 21:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it. It's good to keep a few secrets, while your young, because peers can be quite harsh. Besides, it's not like you're hurting anyway by keeping it.
2006-11-21 00:44:32 · answer #7 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong at your age many people are judgmental about your age and it is not fair for them to do that to you. What they don't know wont hurt them. I know that high school it can be hard enough to fit in so keep your secret all you want and good luck.
2006-11-20 21:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by nickieandsarahsmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you shouldn't be scared to let people know that you skipped a grade well some people might find that cool because maybe your smarter then them. And well if they don't like you for that then just don't bother.... you didn't lose anything
why would you care about what people say?
2006-11-20 21:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by coolplaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,cause what if some guy likes u for who ur not and then u are upset cause u don't really like what he does.?
Or if some friends want to have a gettogether and start talkin bout stuff u don't want to have anything to do wid?
I would let out who u really r,
good luck,;)
2006-11-20 22:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋