i hate my mom, im twelve years old can i get emancipated??

Question

today my mom wanted me to go to a sycologist but when i refused, she used my sesion and paid for it with my money that i had been saving up (about 200$). I was suposed to go shopping with my friend but all my money had disipeared. I had to tell her I couldnt go. After she got back, I told my mom that I was too upset to go to school tomorrow. She told me if i didnt go she wouldnt take me to a bar mitzvah in florida i had been planning to go to for months. She also makes fun of me when i have a hard time at school.My mom ocasionaly hits me. What should I do?

Answer 1

You could call Child Protective Services in she's violent. It sounds, however, that you've caused some of your own problems with bad behavior.
Of course, her bad behavior isn't proper either.
Emancipated? Nope. You have to be older, and able to support yourself and exist in an adult world.
Stay in school, graduate, move away, whatever, but graduate. There are too many stupid people in the world now.

Answer 2

I know you are in a really tough situation right now. It seems like you are really going through a lot. I would call 1800-4-A-CHILD because your mom hitting you is unacceptable. It is a hotline number with counselors that can help with your situation. They can help you make the appropriate contact with Child Protective Services. While it is acceptable for your mom to say you can't go to Florida, it isn't acceptable for her to hit you are take your money (if it was money you earned by yourself), hit you, or make fun of you, and you can tell the counselors about that.


Also, You have to be 16 to be emancipated in most states.

Answer 3

Okay chill for a second. I do not an anyway agree with your mom hitting you first and foremost. But is she beating you down or did she slap or do you get spanked, feh I was never against corporol punishment.(and perhaphs did you mouth off and she hit you, because alot of the 12 year olds I know need to be slapped. Oh no you shouldn't use physical punishement to deal with children... you should treat them as equals is a bunch of bull) But for the rest... Your mom took you to a psycologist... do you need one? Maybe she thinks it is the best thing for you. Okay so she used your money, most parents wouldn't do that (I think) compare that to how much she has spent on you and done for you. I really don't think there is much of a competition. Okay, you were so upset you couldn't go to school. I think i'd really want toslap you if I were your mom a 12 year old girl is telling me she is not going to school. Uh you do realize you are required by law to go to school. You're mom was bargining with you, that's pretty nice. You've been planning on going to a bar-mitzvah in fl for months (mind you it's not in your state, big whoop, I've been planning on going to Puerto Rico for a very very long time with my twin for our graduation and then my parents decided we couldn't go. Most parents make fun of thier children, i'm sorry you're having a hard time at school (could this perhaps be why she was taking you to a psycologist?) You sound like most pre-teens and teens 'I hate my parents they are so horrible blah blah' I highly doubt you could get emancipated but let's say you could. How would you support yourself? I mean your 12, where can you work? I assume your in middleschool so you don't have a diploma. Where would you live? How would you by food? How would you get to school? How would you get around? What happens if your sick? Can you cook? Can you clean? Can you balance a checkbook? Do you know how to manage money? So what i suggest you do is go to that psycologist or just fume in your room. Ah the problem with parents today it seems they want to be their children's friend. (i sound so old but i'm only 18 ^^;;) I really don't think you understand how hard it is to be a mother. Okay, I know you don't know how hard it is. You really sound like a brat to me. No offense ^_^

Answer 4

Your mother is very much like my mom. I got tired of it and now i live with my dad. If you have a family member you can trust, to keep things bettween each other i would suggest ask them if they would let you stay with them. All that would happen is your mother would have to talk with them and sign a few papers. If your mom refuses to let you leave, then if your at least 15 the courts will let you choose were you want to live.
In your case you might have to just tuff it out or tell your mother that shes upsetting you.

Answer 5

Everyone is saying for you to go to child protective services, to tell your teacher to tell your councelor... Have you even talked to your mom about it? Maybe thats why she wanted you to go see the psychologist, because you wouldnt talk to her and hopefully you would talk to him/her.. If it was a huge problem with her hitting you, she probably could have beat you untill you went, but she gave you the option. She used your money as a punishment, the way I see it.
I think if your upset with your mother, you should tell her everything you told everyone on yahoo. Maybe you two could agree on a behavior modification between the both of you, without her going to jail and you going into a foster care somwhere and regretting not talking to her later on. And yes- I know i sound "mean" , but thats my advice.

Answer 6

You can't be emancipated at 12! How would you pay the rent? Talk to a trusted family member, maybe you could stay with your Aunt or Grandparents but then you just might forgive your Mom.

Answer 7

You cant get emancipated till your 16. If your mom is hitting your you should tell some one...anyone you trust.But you should try to talk to your mom tell her how you feel.you don't want to lose your mother and her friendship moms are meant to help you with your problems and comfort you. you must not feel very safe around her and you should always feel safe with your mother.I can understand what your getting at and if she hits it would be a good idea to tell someone

Answer 8

If your mother really hits you it need to be reported to a family member guidance counselor or CPS. If not you need to realize that your mother only wants the best for you and that is why she would punish you for not going to school. You are definitely to young to be emancipated living on your own is harder than you think.

Answer 9

in case you acquire emancipated the place could you bypass? i think of you prefer your mom greater beneficial than everybody at the instant. you and your mom are not gettin alongside given which you have been rebeling plenty. i went with the aid of this with my mom while i exchange into 15... it have been given to the element the place we fought and there exchange into diverse verbal and emotional abuse. i think of you have to be waiting to take great element approximately this and for as quickly as not rebellion against her. she's your rock. she's there for you. it relatively is scaring her which you're pulling faraway from her. she's scared that she will lose her lady offspring. you will ought to enhance up so rapid in case you had a newborn. possibly you ought to attempt to be greater open to her and you ought to talk some greater. possibly attempt speaking to her approximately adoption. she's basically being loopy simply by fact she's dropping you and he or she would not be attentive to what to do. diverse mothers bypass with the aid of this. you ought to bypass to court docket to get emancipated and in case you take place and you're pregnant, they maximum in all probability won't enable you to get emancipated for the easy certainty that the baby could be put in harms way of being missed, no well-being care, and greater than a number of alternative different issues that should be not ordinary to come back by utilising as a fifteen 300 and sixty 5 days old mom. i by no skill concept i exchange into rebeling. yet then i basically smacked myself on the pinnacle and awoke and found out what i exchange into doing. it exchange into the little issues like only speaking lower back and dumb stuff. you ought to've been doing a splash form of rebeling in case you're pregnant....

Answer 10

Well you could go to a counselor at school or to the doctor (psychologist) and tell them about this! They will help you get a better relationship with her if you are honest with them about what's going on! As far as getting emancipated, I am really not sure!