I am currently in a fresh relationship with a guy for the past few months. The relationship is long distance and I have gone to see him. Recently the relationship has gotten a little quiet meaning: He does not call and if I do either he wont answer or He will rush the convo. I have heard his friends making dates with chicks in the midst of our convo but I really aint pay it any attention. He says he loves me but I am not feeling any love from him. Its been 3 days since I talked to him last. What should I do? SHould I just leave or See it through.
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2006-11-20 14:00:39 · 30 answers · asked by *LDY* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont leave him see what he does he may be in a busy time in his life right now. As for the friends making dates. thats his friends.
2006-11-20 14:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me share some wisdom with you. I had along term relationship that lasted for 3 years long distance. But eventually I got the same thing you did. No communications and when I did get them I was also rushed to get off the line they had something else going on and didn't have time to talk.
So I knew that no matter how much I cared about her the distance was too great to overcome. I worte to her and told her that under the circumstances it appears we will never actually be together on a premanant basis. That was 18 months ago. And I never heard back from her at all.
The answer to your question is. Yes end it now and move on. Life is too short to be miserable.
2006-11-20 14:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by groundpilot43061 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HATE long distance relationships. They're truly unfair, and they rarely ever work happily. No matter what you do, there will always be something missing, and going to see him will always be a hassle that doesn't really solve the problem. Find a fish who's in your own pond, your boyfriend sounds like my ex when he was ending the relationship (we weren't long distance, but still, it's a major warning sign) Anyways, it was absolutely horrible and he began to tell me lies to get me to shut up, and didn't treat me like an asset and treated me more like an anchor. I hated him for it, but trying to cling on when a guy isn't into you will never help, no matter what you do or how much you talk about it. It's only going to end badly... you deserve someone close and someone who loves you!
2006-11-20 14:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships aren't meant to work out. I'm not sure how far the distance is between the two of you, but you're going to make yourself go crazy. You're obviously doubting him since you're panicing already. What are you doing yourself? Are you being faithful to the relationship yourself? Personally, I wouldn't enter into a long distance relationship. Not enough info/detail into this, so this is all unless you have more.
2006-11-20 14:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is subtly backing out of the situation. You can either call him on it. Try and find the truth of the situation but you may not like the answer. You do have the choice to get out of it and look for a local relationship that has a much better chance of working out.
2006-11-20 14:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by midastouch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UmM....wow...well u can check ^ on him once or twice..Because it sounds like hes cheatin on you...you no men are all the same...he might be cheating on you because you live far from each other...if u see any fishy stuff goin around...then talk 2 him personly. yu can't just talk on the phone with him...more advise email me at everjenny12@yahoo.com and that goes for every one else!
2006-11-20 14:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by EverJenny12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, leave him now. He doesn't seem like he cares about your feelings enough if he's checking out other women while you're on the phone with him. Leave him.
2006-11-20 14:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by italia_azure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships are like that but you should probably go for someone closer to you unless you think he's worth the headache
2006-11-20 14:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go down to whereever he lives thats far-away like you said, but then i would stalk him -- not stalk him, but watch where and who he goes to. I wold then phone him, an tell him u r coming to visit him, when ( or if ) he is with sumbody else.
I would deffinitly break- up with him
2006-11-20 14:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by yyyeah. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him...It is my bellief if you love some it take 10 minutes to talk and let someone know they matter to you, and it takes 2 minutes to say hi.
2006-11-20 14:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋