I need advice. I seem to ave a handle on my life professionally, I have a good job?
I own my own house and have a very good work ethic. I've never looked to a man to take care of me, I've always been fiercely independent and anything I've wanted, I've worked hard and gone for. I just don't get my personal life, have I put myself in a position that men are not interested in me? I either get men who want to latch on because they know I'm a good worker or young guys who want sex, I guess I don't know what to do differently?? HELP
2006-11-20 13:59:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe its all about confidence, if you don't have it men can sense it.And when you are looking for a man you will never find one let them come to you relax and it will happen for you.
2006-11-20 14:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, avoid all those men. Find a man who can be independent and can support himself without the need to latch onto anyone. I'm sure there are lots of successful men out there. You just need to take the time to find one like that.
2006-11-20 22:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Soggy Waffles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is that you need a screener! Do you have a very good friend that can actually pick you a guy? Trust is the key here.
Let her or him find you someone.
It is a studied fact that we as humans tend to pick the same kind of person every time(weather good or bad)and after a few bad, we get overwhelmed and then really get turned around in the decision department. So if you have a loved friend LISTEN TO THEM AND TRY IT THEIR WAY WITH AN OPENED MIND AND YOU MAY COME OUT OF YOUR FUNK!! GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-20 22:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by Paint N Paper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if you think your professional sucess is intimidating then dont bring it up early on. Personally, I wouldnt mind it, but I would feel pressure to improve to try to get to you level, not because I feel it is necessary, but because I would think you would eventually look at me as a bum, or an underachiever, etc...
So make sure you never give that vibe off...
2006-11-20 22:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what others think. You live the life you want to live. The right man will come along.
2006-11-20 22:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by mga1550 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not doing anything wrong, so don't feel like you need to change the way you live your life. my only advice to you is, if you're really interested in a guy, let him see you out of your "work" persona. most men are intimidated by a self-suficient woman.. or may be they just don't feel like they have anything to offer her, they feel out of their league. so, the next time you are interested in a guy, let him catch you just jogging, sweaty and red, or strolling in slacks, or doing whatever you do when you relax, or ask them to help you change a flat tire or something. give him a way to contribute, feel needed, and it just might work.
2006-11-20 22:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋