Family & Relationships - 19 November 2006

I posted before but saw it was in the entertainment catagory so maybe that why it didn't get answered. My niece who is 14 is messed up in a gang. My mom wants me to talk to her bout it but I don't know what to say. I always thought she was just a wannabe cause she dresssed like a rap video girl but I guess it's a hard core gang. She lives in a really bad hood so maybe she feels safer being in a gang. I really don't know what to say to her since I have no idea what it's like to be in a gang. My mom is all crazy bout it cause she's heard all the bad stuff of gangs. Does any one know what it's like in a gang and why a girl would join?

2006-11-19 14:35:55 · 12 answers · asked by kayla j 1 in Friends

2006-11-19 14:34:53 · 15 answers · asked by ashlee j 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife is leaving after being togeather for three years for her old boy friend that cheated on her in the past. I concerned because she hasent talked to this guy in 3 years and he lives 5 states away. in the meantime she wants to live with me and save money for a place with this guy and then take my son with her . how can i get her to realize shes taking a big risk i want to be with her i lov her. please help me save this marrage.

2006-11-19 14:34:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever picked someone out to mess with by making them think you liked or loved them? Why did you do it and why did you pick that person? Was it funny to you? Did you feel like it was okay to do because they were stupid enough to fall for it?

I'm wondering if this is why a guy acted interested in me big time and then told others he couldn't understand why I thought he liked me as more than a friend.

2006-11-19 14:33:29 · 9 answers · asked by Hopeful girl 3 in Singles & Dating

sooo...why do guys like it when girls are loud in bed???

2006-11-19 14:32:27 · 12 answers · asked by Hannah.Elise 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband to be has been offered his grandfathers wedding ring to wear....Although very flattered and touched by the offer, he wants to have his own sentimental ring to represent the start of our own family. He doesn't know how to tell his father that although he is very touched by the offer, and yes he would love to have the ring, but would like to have his own personal wedding ring....Any suggestions on how to accept and reject at the same time?

2006-11-19 14:32:10 · 9 answers · asked by JILL (Chicago) 1 in Weddings

ok i have a friend that her name is louise that love her bf but her love for him is more like a friend ship. he really really loves her. but she wants to break up with him tomorow and dont know wat to say. ok her friend jenna is going to tell him. but the louise always sits right next to him in 1st period.wat should lousie say wen he asks her if its true . thats they are breaking up.

2006-11-19 14:31:38 · 7 answers · asked by ♥FISH♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

im a senior in high school and dont know if this girl s into me or just wants to be friends. how can i know if shes flirting with me in person text messages and mysapce?? HELP

2006-11-19 14:31:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Your g/f falls asleep in ur arms?? Do you put ur arms around her or cop a feel?? What does it symbolize to you that she feels??(trusting, safe, secure..???) How do you want her to feel(safe, secure, protected)??

I know when I was raped, From there on I always wanted to be in my b/f's arms cuz I wondered if the guy would come back at night.
Would you have understood? Or been like get the **** away??

2006-11-19 14:30:18 · 5 answers · asked by arabella 1 in Singles & Dating

Is today's society chasing away good fathers, making men afraid to be Daddy? Is it really worth it to raise children in a single mother home if the father is a really good father? I am turning in a research paper Tuesday...what do you think?

2006-11-19 14:29:16 · 13 answers · asked by kmoc123 5 in Family

i have dis ex bf. i love him so much that eventhough he kept on hurting me emotionally but still i love him.that eventhough le left me or i broke up with him im still hoping that he'll come back to me.

2006-11-19 14:29:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work in a retail store and a married couple came to me to buy somthing for the man and after talking with them for a while and getting ready the thing that I sold the man was looking at me in a very sexy way and I felt he was thinking about me in a sexy way and after a few weeks he came to the store asking about somthing else and I know it was not that !!! his wife and kids were with him when he was looking at me that way but she was busy talking to me and she did not notice how would you respond to this????

2006-11-19 14:28:15 · 10 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

I should be happy, but I'm not, I have a great boyfriend, good family, great friends, I've got everything I could ask for, but I'm still not happy with things, I sit here and I think of all the things I could change about my life to make myself more happy, but I like things the way they are, its comfortable, but I'm not happy, sure theres moments when I'm exstatic, but 80% of the time I wish I was someone else that is more happy than me.

2006-11-19 14:28:04 · 10 answers · asked by Bee 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 14:28:03 · 7 answers · asked by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 in Singles & Dating

im confused im still luv my ex girlfriend but how do i know if she still luvs me my head is sending me all the wrong signals i think little guidance would be nice

2006-11-19 14:28:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Got it listed on Tug2 & at The Summit Resort. Only asking $1500. Sleeps 6
Maintanance ONLY $334.00
It's on the beach- Any suggestions

2006-11-19 14:27:35 · 2 answers · asked by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was told that if I didn't do something on my web cam that my friend would be emailed and be told something he would not like. I told him that it was blackmail, and he agreed it was.

2006-11-19 14:27:28 · 6 answers · asked by lotsoflions 1 in Friends

I was told that if I didn't do something on my web cam that my friend would be emailed and be told something he would not like. I told him that it was blackmail, and he agreed it was.

2006-11-19 14:26:30 · 2 answers · asked by lotsoflions 1 in Friends

or had the hots for them......would you eat part of a corned beef sandwich out of their dirty sweaty shoe in order to be with them???

2006-11-19 14:26:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this wonderful guy for almost 3 months,he knew I had kids,he has none,and single friends who have none as well,he and his friends like to go out,but I can't because I do have children,therefore I feel bad,so I just sent him an e-mail breaking up with him,we met online,I know that I shouldnt have broken up with him like that,but I just couldn't face him,was I right to let him go for my reason?

2006-11-19 14:26:18 · 11 answers · asked by dimples1221 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to try to be more romantic in our relationship but is that wrong for the girl?...how would i be romantic without overdoing it?...have ne cute ideas that could be done at home?...nothing sexual

2006-11-19 14:25:49 · 6 answers · asked by Shelley 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 14:25:27 · 4 answers · asked by Maji 3 in Friends

In a typical teenage society, is it wrong for two highschoolers, me being the guy, the guy white and the girl asian? Do people look at you differently? I used to like this girl and i found out today that she likes me but im not sure if all my friends, and everyone for that matter will look at me differently. Im fairly popular and she is too at a different, nearby school, and im 10th grade, shes 9th. I sort of like her but dont want to be looked at differently at the same time. What do you thing and what should i do?

2006-11-19 14:25:22 · 6 answers · asked by Tommy T 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i like this guy a lot and he has got me mad a couple of times ignores me and flirts with other girls and that gets me really mad but i just cant get over him what should i do can u plz help me? my other friend wants me 2 but its just 2 hard.

2006-11-19 14:24:07 · 7 answers · asked by ~*SexiLexii*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-19 14:24:06 · 4 answers · asked by rattlingyouallover 1 in Singles & Dating

We're both 17 and I've know her for 14 years, but lately, especially since she went to a drama college she's completely self obcessed. She talks to me about how brilliant she is compared to others and I don't like it but feel like I should agree with her to keep the peace. Also I feel like this is a front as she sometimes acts like she used to.
She's very fake and wears very deep tan, dyes her hair and will never be without alot of make-up which I see as a mask. I'm friends with her younger brother who is so understanding, like she used to be and I'm starting to prefer him! I know this is wrong but I'm king of a goth so I don't understand her chav like behaviour. What can I do to help her be herself?

2006-11-19 14:24:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We had a big family dinner at and my in laws they made sure that ever one had a seat at the table except me I ended up having to go in the living room and sit with the children and no one said im sorry or tryed to find me a chair and I have been married into the family for 8 years . they make me so mad i could spit nails!!!!!

2006-11-19 14:24:01 · 17 answers · asked by motherofcampers 1 in Family

In a young (teen) relationship, at what time period should the 2 start saying "I love you" or "love ya'"?

2006-11-19 14:21:55 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay so me and my boyfriend have never met in person...but we have been going out for a little over 2 years. We want to get each other stuff for Christmas this year but I have no idea what I should get him. I don't want just anything I want to give him something that means something. Any ideas?

2006-11-19 14:21:45 · 3 answers · asked by muskie2007 2 in Singles & Dating

the kid needed a hair cut badly and i saved them $15.

2006-11-19 14:20:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family