In a young (teen) relationship, at what time period should the 2 start saying "I love you" or "love ya'"?
2006-11-19 14:21:55 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should'nt plan it. It should just happen. There are right moments just like there's a right person for everyone...But honestly...say it when you actually Love them would be my guess. It will probably happen when your stomach is in butterfly's and your nervous! LOL....good luck!
2006-11-19 14:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's a rule that sets when should you start saying I love you. You just feel it... and when you you should say it. Just be sure it's not just a simple crush... when one is a teenager love can be easily confused by the feeling of a crush or new relationship rush. How can you know for sure it is love? I'd say when its been months you're with your bf/gf and you still feel the same way... that's real love... the one that doesnt fade it only grows.
2006-11-19 22:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Aija 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first answer, but love is something that so many teens completely misunderstand, it's not something you say unless you really mean it, because take it from me, if you say it and then later dump him, he'll most likely get hurt a lot worse because he thinks you "loved" him. or vice versa. say it, only when you truly mean it, and understand just what you are saying.
2006-11-19 22:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by funkfighter45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a certain time period that you need to be together to say it. It's not about time...it's about how you feel about one another. Don't rush into saying either. Just let it happen.
2006-11-19 22:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Angela M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU shgould NOT say the Love word, becuase real love takes years of trust to develop. It is NOT sexual attraction or orgasm, as many think.
2006-11-19 22:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't a set time. It is suggested to say it only when you really mean it. When the time comes, you shall know.
2006-11-19 22:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ortensia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u say love ya when u're in a casual relationship
when things become serious, it's better to say it clear such as i love you..... :)
2006-11-19 22:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you believe that you love that person. Do not say that you love him unless you mean it.
2006-11-19 22:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by melomane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you actually do love them. & make sure it's actually love - not just a teenage crush.
2006-11-19 22:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by liss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we were saying it first day we started goin out, but the whole relationship has been fast (we're 14)
2006-11-19 22:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋