I work in a retail store and a married couple came to me to buy somthing for the man and after talking with them for a while and getting ready the thing that I sold the man was looking at me in a very sexy way and I felt he was thinking about me in a sexy way and after a few weeks he came to the store asking about somthing else and I know it was not that !!! his wife and kids were with him when he was looking at me that way but she was busy talking to me and she did not notice how would you respond to this????
2006-11-19 14:28:15 · 10 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its just looks, dont worry about it, if he actually says something, then tell him he has his responsibilites to his WIFE and CHILDREN.
2006-11-19 14:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have a really big strong bf or even a hot sexy gf that keeps you busy at night. Lol, joking, I say don't do anything, guys are going to look at you, rather they have 2 wives and a zoo of kids. They will never stop looking, married, dating anything like that. It would only be a problem if you responded back to him, and the wife noticed, because she could quite obviously get you fired. If he keeps coming back, I would notify your manager that a particular male customer is being bothersome and the manager could possibly have you work in a different area of the store.
2006-11-19 22:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks are looks.there are some people out there that still do it,
even if they are married.but when the start to cross the line thats when you should nip it in the butt.if it's uncomfortable for you,and
yes your at work you should report this customer to your boss
or someone who's higher up and can watch him when he is around and let them also catch him doing something wrong,so you have a witness,for if something does happen or more gets said,and you'll have someone to back your story up to his wife
and whomever you all feel that needs to know.maybe if it makes
you feel better let someone know at work about this guy and the looks just incase you feel something more may end up happening.and when you see him come back let that person/persons know,so they can also be on the look out for him and what he does around you.and hopeful his wife/kids will be with him.if he is alone be double careful.like i said looks are one thing.but words and actions are another thing.if he starts to come around alot more and seems to be looking or asking about you thats when you know you've got a problem.and you all should do something about it.unless you like it and like him,and you don't know what to do because you know he's married and has kids.and you don't want to feel respondable for any family thing.but you must not like it if your asking this question.
good-luck,also if my old man was hitting on someone i'd like to know i'd be glade if the other person came and told me what was going on..
2006-11-19 22:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by stacey b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless I was in the mood for a whole lot of trouble, I'd keep it strictly business between us and not have any discussions with this man other than professional. He is a married man on the prowl. Do you really want to be involved? Yikes.
2006-11-19 22:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG i work in a retail store and i get this all the time but what really gets me is when they come in without there wives then with there wives and kids and then come back wihtout there wives and they start hiting on you and want ta meet for drinks i just tell them sorry but i dont date marries men
2006-11-19 22:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jeannie T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt respond at all. You can't control how people look at u.........u can only control how u respond. I would totally ignore something like that and not show any interest or even act like I noticed he was doing it. Thats the only thing u can do.
2006-11-19 22:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ignore it because he is a slut. The fact you noticed at all means you are attracted and my advice is to not act on it.
2006-11-19 22:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run the other way! That just sounds like trouble.
2006-11-19 22:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by music lvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go out with him, but you can't stop people from looking.
2006-11-19 22:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by ~Leading Lady~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would i bother. Are you desperate to get hitch?
2006-11-19 22:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋