Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

i am not really ready to have sex again becuase i am preety much mick up in my head with stuff going on for example my mum being ill etc but my boyfriend has been paitend we have been 2gether for 2 years and we have had sex before about a year ago.but we do other stuff...
but he dose go on about it alot, what do you think i should do?

2006-11-16 23:02:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can i by my mum (73 year old) for xmas
she can not have purfume or gold
help me please

2006-11-16 23:00:53 · 13 answers · asked by jones11chef 3 in Family

wat shud u do 2 the person hu sends some stupid info abt u 2 every1 which jus doesnt make sense....but its somethin bad abt u....

2006-11-16 22:58:45 · 12 answers · asked by gan 2 in Friends

I've found that women tend to subtely indicate their disinterest (or suddenly seem very busy). Why is it that they can't be totally honest and just say no thanks? I've read that guys sometimes do this too. Is this acceptable?

2006-11-16 22:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm with someone who i don't love but we have a child together.i have found someone i love and they love me.please what do i do?i'm so unhappy where i am.

2006-11-16 22:53:46 · 9 answers · asked by sarah e 1 in Singles & Dating

ok see i am very shy around girls. i talk to them if i am familir. but how should i ask this girl to the dance?

should i ask her as a friend [because she knows me cause i talk to her a little in person and more on aim]

or how else should i ask her

2006-11-16 22:52:40 · 12 answers · asked by ur_rich_jew 1 in Singles & Dating

how much is the right pocket money for a 14 year old boy, i give him 20 pounds a week and he is meant to buy his clothes and never does, he never washes up or does anything around the house, i have brought him clothes this week, someone said to me its too much, she gives her 12 year old son, 15 pounds a month and herself and her husband both have good jobs, my sons friend gets 100 pounds a week, another friend gets 40 pounds a week, i dont, have alot of money i am a single parent, worried about xmas presents. My older daughter say he gets too much, i do feel manipulated as he says his friends get so much.

2006-11-16 22:52:15 · 23 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am stuck
i have had alot of promblems recenlty and he has been supporting me a bit, and i want to show i love him, with something speacial but i am not sure how?

2006-11-16 22:51:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live with my ex fiance, who I just found out has a girlfriend. That doesn't bother me. The fact that he tells her he loves her bothers me, and the fact that he cheats on her bothers me. I need to take a sleeping pill at night. One night I didn't, and he had sex with me! I told him if he ever did again I am calling the cops and filing rape. Now he sleeps on the couch. He denies it all, but smart enough not to EVER do it again. It's really hard to live in the house, but we have to sell the house and pay off bills. He wants full custody of our five year old son. I thought of not calling or e-mailing him, and just not talking to him. Still it's never enough. I go out for a couple hours during the week, but still it's just not enough. My other two children love him. I just need to find away to block him OUT!

2006-11-16 22:51:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Honestly, how often do you hear a women say," I can't believe how much my husband has let himself go." or ask this question on here "How come so many men immediately gain weight after getting married?" Men do though.

2006-11-16 22:46:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a friend tells me that the boy does not look anything like the guy my ex is with
how do i go about asking for a test?

2006-11-16 22:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by ace_71385 3 in Singles & Dating

How can i convince my closest friend that she no longer owes
me anything her debt has been paid in full!
I have a very dear friend who has been down on her luck,her family
refused to help her in any way until i stepped in.I gave her a reason to live again.I was by her side when she was very sick,i practically nursed her back to health,i was by her side when she had a mild heart attack,by her side when she collapsed and spent a couple of months in the hospital.i never gave up on her,i did everything a friend should and more!Now she feels she owes me
her life.i reapeatedly told her that she has repayed me by being the
dearest friend i could ask for,and for being healthy and happy,i have NEVER asked for anything of her except for continued friendship.Yet she still feels as if she owes me a life debt!
How can i convince her debt has been paid!

2006-11-16 22:43:23 · 2 answers · asked by kenshaw01 3 in Friends

my ex but still loves me? then y the time wrong?
Exes ever forgive or want back?
my ex and i broke up quite a while ago. although i think he loves me well he says his heart is with me.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there awlays ures. i have been a ***** to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things. ehich i regret totally.
he says he needs to find out who he is , he sed his heart is with me but his head isnt and circumstances mean we cant be together at mo becaus at the monet he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end? some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thta i love him and know it can be good
i asked if he wnats me to move on , and he sed no he doenst but he cant be with me at this time. the thing is he says my heart is always with him but his head not with me

2006-11-16 22:42:49 · 4 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im wondering what age teenagers get sexually active?! for guys and girls?

2006-11-16 22:41:53 · 15 answers · asked by David 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It had been for almost 2 yrs now...I do not like to even have eye contact with my wife. I do not like to even touch her in anyway...not to mention, I do not enjoy talking to her...What does that means?
Well, we do have some problem before...she ever openy fllirted with a guy whom she think he is rich in hope to buy his heart...I ever quarrel with her before over this betrayal of trust over greed..though eventually she returned, it is actually due to the guy being found out to be a conman....Now I am so confused..do I love her or not? Anyway, since then, she had always been picking stuffs to fight with me even over minor issues.....

2006-11-16 22:41:04 · 6 answers · asked by alexander2nite 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am the mother of a gorgeous little boy, i am succesful in my life. idependant etc...so why is it that when a man realises i am a mother too that they are scared off!!!

2006-11-16 22:40:45 · 27 answers · asked by kelley k 2 in Singles & Dating

Lately making a girl squirt has become real popular especially on the web. Is it really possible to do this and how can it be done. I realize that this may seem inapropriate but i figure as longer as we keep the language away from the sexual profanity it shouldnt offend anyone.

2006-11-16 22:39:33 · 8 answers · asked by stone2003@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

Say a friend or acquantance is telling a guy something, for example maybe a close relative of hers is having major surgery in a few days.

What should the guy do in assisting her? Me personally, I offer sympathy and a shoulder. Sometimes I ask questions, about the topic, that sort of thing. What are your opinions (women only thanks).

2006-11-16 22:37:16 · 5 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Friends

I love a guy already but I would like some guys as plutonic friends but I find that it is hard why?

2006-11-16 22:35:27 · 14 answers · asked by drop_it_likeithot 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been going out for 2 weeks, he doesnt like sport, is a bit of a computer nerd, the thing is he is wanting to buy me jewellery and i would feel mean if i didnt get him something just as good!

2006-11-16 22:34:34 · 15 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been married with my hubby for more than 6 ys. And I dont love him. Till i met this guy, and i am pregnant by him now..should i leave hubby and start new life with my new man? but my hubby doesnt want to get divorce. I feel guilty when i see into his face. and my new man wanna have a family with me..what should i do?

2006-11-16 22:33:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I have been best friends with my best friend for Over 4 years we get on really well and speak a on the phone a few times a day.
Anyway she was there in the delivery room when I have my second son along side my husband, she know my deepest secerts and all that.
Anyway today i told her that i was thinking about having another baby as my youngest starts school soon and always said i would have another when he went to school.
Anyway this morning i told her i was going to try to get pregnant this month and that i was really excited, and she told me not to complain to her when i fell like Crap cause she couldnt deal with listening to me winge again.
I than in turn said well your my friend and should be happy for me and if i winge you should be there to listen casue if you cant winge at your friends who can you winge at??Anyway i told her she was being rude and hung up on her.I now feel bad about hanging up on her but was so upset i need to end the call.
Advice would be good???

2006-11-16 22:33:38 · 29 answers · asked by La diva R 2 in Family

2006-11-16 22:32:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

whats your philosophy for a good life?......

2006-11-16 22:32:05 · 6 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had the strangest of dreams. I was wondering if anyone can help me get some meaning out of it . Maybe it was just meaningless... I dunno. Here goes:
I am back home at my parents place. My husband is (of all ppl) Matthew Mcconaughey ! (Believe me .. he's not even my fav actor nor have i ever had a crush on him) And he is shirtless... ;)
Then I am going fishing with my family (in real life we have never gone fishing) to place near the outskirts of my hometown. Some how I dont know the place I am going .... but I know I have read abt the place and have seen the picture. I try to identify landmarks on the way, but am not able to do so. Neways we reach , its a kind of a foreboding forest (something like what they show in the movie ET) we can see the silhouette of the trees and the light through them , like the silhouette of the trees is black and the background light is kinda bluish white .... but somehow I am not scared... I feel I have seen a picture of the place before.

2006-11-16 22:31:13 · 5 answers · asked by Care on Demand 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-16 22:30:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-16 22:29:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have fell in love with this girl in school we never met for it to happen but we started off slow and nice like just friends and then it went to more we wrote letters and then kissed and led to a bed and then we woke up in the same bed holding on to each other so what should I do I also have a prom date what can i do dump him or dump her

2006-11-16 22:29:36 · 9 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Friends

I just wanna know. I mainly think about my ex-boyfriend and I, and how great it would be if we stayed together and keep going. Then I think of how crap it is too because he's off and is in love with another girl. I hope he likes her better than me! >_> What about you?

2006-11-16 22:29:14 · 11 answers · asked by <*) ) )>< 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the perfect gift for your friend (boy) this Christmas? (only cheap gift) for your friend, Because I know, it doesn't matter about the price or amount, it depends on the value of the giver.

2006-11-16 22:26:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends