Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

My husband and I would love to move away. We found a place we love and have really done our research on it. The only problem is it's 7 hours away from our family and my mom is more than unhappy about it. My mom is one of the sweetest people alive and would never do anything to hurt me, but she has said about anything to make me stay. She makes me feel guilty about taking her grandchildren away (we don't even have kids yet!) and how she feels that it's wrong. My husband and I know this is what we want but my mom and I are so close I don't know if I could leave her. This isn't causing problems with my husband and me, but that's only because he is so great. He still recognizes the fact that my mom is meddling in our marriage, but he also realizes how hard it is for me to leave her. I'm torn between what may be best for me and my husband, or what would make my family happy. She really is my best friend and just wants me near her. What do I do?

2006-11-16 13:30:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked a question similar to this earlier, but this is more for my friend. She got dumped, but he said he had 'reasons'. I don't think there ever is a good enough reason for ripping someones heart out, but she wants to know if he is really gone. He wrote this...
sorry bout dumpin u, i had reasons

2006-11-16 13:30:28 · 6 answers · asked by Kennedy B 1 in Singles & Dating

we started dating in pretty much mid november of 2004 and officially started dating on Jan 4, 2005. on Jan 1st 2005 Matt cannon was at her house for new years she said she was flirting with him(two years later) and i show up later that night and she told me that was when she realized that she loved me cuz im not like the other guys.... the next day she calls me hey can i go to the movies with matt and i of cours said yes cuz i trusted her and i also didn't know that her and matt had ever messed around with each other. so they go to the movies where she kissed the guy and never found out till just the other day. She has messed up many more times w/ guys nothing to serious tho and has pretty much lied to me about talking to anyone ever. I have been pretty mean to her but **** this sux. She told me everything but i only found out by asking the guy straight up and then she finally confessed everything. should i stay with her? she's gave me her password to everything even cell phone.

2006-11-16 13:30:17 · 6 answers · asked by bhphilip06 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend who didn't talk for a couple of days, he broke up with me earlier tonight. I am so devastated. I really loved him. He said he was doing it so I wouldn't be hurt anymore. I don't know what to do. How can I get through this?

2006-11-16 13:29:54 · 19 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl that i use to be frends with that just started saying stuff about me that wasnt true and started hating me for no reason i tried to ignore her but its hard not to

HELP!!!!!!!!

2006-11-16 13:29:53 · 8 answers · asked by mrs.urie 1 in Friends

but i love him and after 10 months he has to care to.

2006-11-16 13:29:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 25 I asked a guy out on Thursday and he said "i'm busy how about you come to my house and watch dvd on friday instead". Now since i made the first move to ask him to do something do i wait for him to call or should i give him a call at lunch time and ask what time he wants me to come over? Do you think he will wait for me to call and make plans if i don't?

2006-11-16 13:28:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my cuzin was kicked out she has many places to stay.. i keep tell her to stay with me...she comes over then leaves saying she coming back never comes back..hr step-dad told her to get out and her mom a agreed and she left now they want her to come home but she dosent what to.. and i keep sayin i dont know were she at i just seen her at school..wat should i tell her..she can just be runnin the streets.??/

2006-11-16 13:27:55 · 4 answers · asked by amira1222 1 in Family

im just curious. well im a single mom im 23 years old, and sometimes i find myself wondering if i did wrong in not waiting, if thats the cause for not finding the right guy? i love my son to death and there is nothing i would change about it. Some girls are single moms and find good guys, ive been told and I know i am an attracitve person just wondering....ive decided to just wait and in time something good will happen.

2006-11-16 13:27:52 · 5 answers · asked by Patricia 1 in Singles & Dating

My father in law is 81 years old and is terminally ill. I never cared for the man. Thus far in my 27 years marriage this man has done nothing but be a nusence. He doesn't care for me, never has, never will. He even tried to prevent my husband from marrying me. He thinks I'm not good enough to be his daughter in law just because I was born into a poor family which at one point was homeless. He thinks like I'm low class and treats me that way. During family gatherings, birthdays, ect, he always expected me to be the kind "servent"; that I should wait one him and his family hand and foot. He also treats my kids horribly; because I'm their mother. As well he is constantly aruging with my husband about the state of MY marriage. Anyway, problem is, my father in law needs a nurse, and he refuses to go to a nursing home. Since I'm a stay at home mother.....the family expects me to do it! I really do not want to take care of that irritable man. Ideas, thoughts, please!

2006-11-16 13:27:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my husband and i have been married for 13 years. he has 3 kids they never liked me or my 3 kids from day 1. I have been nothing but good to those kids and they have admitted, to trying everything to make us divorce. Now they are all 3 married with kids themselves and they are still at it. they have always been extremly spoiled and they dont care about anyone but themselves. I cant take the mind games and harrasment anymore I love my husband, but my health isnt so good anymore and the stress worsens my condition. My husband says he knows that they are wrong, but he wont do anything to alienate them.He wont even scold them about thier rude behavior. They even acted horrible with us at their grandmas funeral! I wont ever go around them again,and I wont allow them in my house anymore. I have babysat their kids I have cooked for them, I treat their father like a king. And they still hate me. I dont want to cave in and divorce my husband,but it is causing extreme problems,in our marrige.

2006-11-16 13:27:00 · 6 answers · asked by foxtrot 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And why do I care?

2006-11-16 13:25:57 · 20 answers · asked by Maitri* 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been seeing a man who spends lots of money on me. Thing is he wants sex. Just because he buys me things should i give him sex? i want him to make love because he loves me, not because he thinks he deserves it. (known him 3 yrs)

2006-11-16 13:25:23 · 21 answers · asked by as 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay heres my story, theres this boy I like for a while now, he is my best guy friend. But just recently another boy who I don't think nothing of just started giving me love notes Cheesey but sweet. I really want my guy friend and I to work out but I don't think he likes me, so should I try it with the new guy ?

2006-11-16 13:25:23 · 5 answers · asked by Gizmo 1 in Singles & Dating

ok this is part 2 of my story..........i told yall about how my man doesnt work and has not for a year...........well he and my daughter got into it because he talks to me any kind of way and only she and i work and pay the bills. she is 21 ........im 43 and he is 54. he smokes crack...........well two days ago he and my daughter got into arguement and almost a fight.....the cops were called and they ran his name and found out he had a warrent for petti larency........i end up going to jail that night to because i had some unpaid traffic tickets... i knew that i might have warrent because i hadnt been paying on my fines so when my daughter called the cops i hid in the closet.........but the thing is he told the cops my name and were i worked....and this is how they end up running my name........so my questions is.............shouldnt i just leave him because it seems he doesnt care because he told the cop about me having a warrent? ...............................

2006-11-16 13:24:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is the cutest, sweetest Chapel in Rough and Ready, CA which is an old gold rush town. They will do any style of wedding, like fancy, country, theme, and it's very reasonable. I love it. Everyone else is having expensive, big, (seems to me) impersonal weddings, what do you think? Would this be cool or too old fashioned?

2006-11-16 13:23:57 · 4 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Weddings

I've been nice to very person that i know, i'm sarcastic at times and a bit of a goof but i've never had what people would call a 'true friend' cause i always got treated like i wasn't as good as them. Sure by now i'm getting use to it and am making friends but i'm always scared that they'll just drop me like every other person has. i think im a good person i'm a bit disty but i'm not like most girls, i'm not overly obsessed with looking the best at all times. I'm really shy but will be myself when i get more comfortable around the person. So why were the 'friends' i had in the past be such B I T C H E S to me??? Why do some people have to be so mean to other people??

2006-11-16 13:23:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Subtle signs?
I grabbed my friend's shocking gum and squirted water on it and she laughed. Also, when I was walking behind her she moved some of her hair to her sides (it was originally in the back of her hair). Point is she moved her hair, possibly to get my attn

2006-11-16 13:23:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just had to encourage a thirteen yr old gurl if her mom ain't doin that SOMETHING IS WRONG! We got to encourage our young folk! I'M 23! I was lucky enough to have people in my life encouraging me during My tween and teen yrs. which were rough!We gotta start encouraging our young people today or they may not live to see tomorrow!Wake up world our young people are dying by our own hand!

2006-11-16 13:23:31 · 5 answers · asked by murmic05 3 in Family

Hi my name is ashley I am only 22 and am already so frustrated with life I am married and have two children one who is one and a half and the other will soon be 3, my kids are great but at a difficult age and I have noone to turn to I turn to my mother and she just says I should appreciate them and I do but my husband dosent help AT ALL he works 2nd shift and overtime some in a transmission shop and thinks he dosent have to do ANYTHING at home he dosent take "good" care of the kids on the days I work 1st shift he gets them up at 1 o clock in the afternoon feeds them and changes them when I get home I do ALL of the house work down to the trash up to the laundry and I take full care of the kids Im the only one who bathes them but he says his job just wears him out so I decided to start them in daycare which my mother says is selfish I should stay home with them because thats what my husband wants and thats what our kids need so hes doing whatever he can to try to force me to stay home..

2006-11-16 13:23:17 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I do...you think i'm crazy???

2006-11-16 13:23:00 · 10 answers · asked by KOTEHOK 1 in Singles & Dating

I like to people and friends

2006-11-16 13:22:31 · 5 answers · asked by Kay D 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my guy friend likes me ALOT and i like him a little but im not sure how much i like him. how can i tell and should i date him???

2006-11-16 13:22:15 · 2 answers · asked by jedi_kt13 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean, if they are very different but you feel that you really enjoy a lot being with them cause you have a high quality of time with each one and you feel that you need the friendship and love from each one. No puritan responses please.

2006-11-16 13:22:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there are to boyz
1)his name is tanner
2)his name is lucas
tanner) he is sweet cute and contry (sorta) but he likes to make fun of me and we still hang wit each other but i dont like the name calling but i like him

lucas) he is sweet kind and totally city boy but he likes to hit on me (like slapping kicking) but he doesnt do it hard but we are bff but i dont know every since tanner came in the pic he has been the 2nd love but i have loved him since 4th grade and im not gonna let him go but then again i dont know who to choose
me)im city but i love both country, and city boyz.
i like to make fun of tanner also.
i hit on lucas.
but i dont know who to choose can you help me plz

2006-11-16 13:21:28 · 17 answers · asked by Casey Loves Tanner 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do if your best friend who is 13 is going out with an 18 year old? before you answer negatively, take into account that you've kindof gotten used to him being around and you dont want either person to get into trouble. advice please...

2006-11-16 13:20:29 · 9 answers · asked by Just Me. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-16 13:19:44 · 11 answers · asked by j 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 13:19:42 · 5 answers · asked by emme_adies 1 in Friends

2006-11-16 13:19:14 · 15 answers · asked by BasketballFan 1 in Friends

Does anyone kno how to write an eulogy... does anyone have any samples...plz and thanx

2006-11-16 13:18:01 · 12 answers · asked by millimel_5 2 in Family