Am i a good friend????

Question

I've been nice to very person that i know, i'm sarcastic at times and a bit of a goof but i've never had what people would call a 'true friend' cause i always got treated like i wasn't as good as them. Sure by now i'm getting use to it and am making friends but i'm always scared that they'll just drop me like every other person has. i think im a good person i'm a bit disty but i'm not like most girls, i'm not overly obsessed with looking the best at all times. I'm really shy but will be myself when i get more comfortable around the person. So why were the 'friends' i had in the past be such B I T C H E S to me??? Why do some people have to be so mean to other people??

Being sarcastic doesnt make you mean and i'm not all the time and its only jokes. I hate being mean to people because i know how it feels when someone is mean to you , it hurts bad. I have NEVER!! offended any person with my sarcasim because i've NEVER!! been taken seriously by anyone.

I cant help being shy because i'm always too afraid of people being mean to me cause that's all i got my entire life.

Answer 1

i dont really know why some people are mean to others, especially in school. but check and see if your former friends are in the 'popular' catagory now. because if they are, they most likely treated u badly for rank, to show they were kool and could boss another around.

and be goofy, if it makes u happy! :) try to find the one (or more) friends that are like u and can love u through and through! ask about likes and dislikes, that sort of stuff. invite her/ him (i have one or 2 guy best friends) over, to see if he/she can match ur oddness! y'know, a little rough-and-tumble!

i got all my best friends and would just about die if anything happened to them. we look out 4 eachother and care for ourselves too! i hope ur friendsships are long and filled ot the brim with laughter and crazy-ness!

^^ <*))><

Answer 2

It's mighty hard to know if you are a good friend by what you say here. I think a lot of people are sarcastic at some time in their lives , it depends on how far this sarcasm is taken. And I know people who are always sarcastic and they still have friends so I don't think it's that at all that is the problem.
Who knows why some people dissapear from our lives? It just happens!
I am a grown woman with many people having come and gone in my life and I still don't understand where and why of it all so I wouldn't worry about it all too much. I have checked and I don't smell so it's not that.
Mean people are mean cos they like it that way and they like seeing the reaction they get from it, hopefully they will be sad little old ladies one day and wonder what went wrong in their lives.
Just stay true to what you think is right and what you are comfortable with, don't lower yourself to anyone elses mean ways and think twice before too much sarcasm makes it way out of your mouth.
In the end people will do what they want so you just go your way and see what waits for you:)

Answer 3

Well because they are insecure and just that....snotty little witches that probably back stab each other. I'm a bit older than you, but I can tell you growing up, I didn't have too many friends because I was a bit different too. The good friends I had, were very good friends and we still talk after more than.....well let's just say a few years.....Anyway, you just work on developing your character and continue to be nice to everyone. Don't let people take advantage of you however, but you be your own best friend. The way you describe yourself reminds me of me, even now, and I'm much more comfortable with that today than I was when I was your age.... Hang in there, the good friends will come along when they realize what kind of person you really are inside.

Answer 4

I can totally relate to you, I know exactly how it feels.
People are butt holes sometimes just cuz they're insecure about themselves. I've had a lot of people who have been horrible to me. They've tricked me into thinking I was there friend but when the time came that I needed them-they weren't there. They were off somewhere else and didn't care about me anymore.
The risk of making friends is having them let you down. It can be hard to allow people to come into your life because you're afraid. But don't be cuz anybody who mistreats you will get it back at them. Allow people to come into your life and don't let anybody mistreat you.
To me, it sounds as if you're a great friend.

Answer 5

Umm my perfect acquaintances confident, yet even nonetheless i like the females I draw close out with, I wouldn't completely have confidence them. It sounds terrible yet i comprehend for a actuality that they each and every so often gossip approximately one yet another. the two way is say I even have some acquaintances who're the two straightforward climate acquaintances and a few who're like sisters to me.

Answer 6

Don't be upset,dear! A true friends're really hard to find. Not so many people has the true friends. One day you'll fin them, trust me. And don't be so shy!! good luck!

Answer 7

Honey thats just growing up, you will lose and grain more friend then you know, stay true to your self, dont get caught up in the drama, and you will find the true friends that you will grow to love and them to you

Answer 8

Maybe they were jealous of you. Maybe they thought you were really pretty or had a strong attitude. Maybe you could ask them why. I know that most people wouldnt but you may actually learn their problem w/ you. Good luck.

*Abby*

Answer 9

Look into yourself every time someone walks away and answer the question as to WHY it happened.
Some people are bitches, but when they all are, it may be you doing something.
Good luck

Answer 10

Girls like you lose friends right and left and never get invited to any parties because you are annoying. Wherre do you get off being sarcastic? You probably hurt people and they don't know what you're going to say next. I bet you're mean, too. Well, you're getting what you've been giving. Sorry.