Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

im thinking about going belimic cuz everyone tells me that im fat and i am starting to believe it should i go?

2006-11-16 14:06:40 · 17 answers · asked by Bre Bre 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i am going tomorrow to the movies with my boyfriend...we have just started going out about 2 weeks ago, and i mean, we have madeout but what are some other things i could do to keep him "entertained"? thankss soooo muchh

2006-11-16 14:06:33 · 3 answers · asked by Cheerleader657 2 in Singles & Dating

Don't want internal bruising for the rest of my life. Want to slow him down a bit. Help please?

2006-11-16 14:06:33 · 9 answers · asked by SpearTheBeardedClam 1 in Singles & Dating

K, I have a ot of problems.
A) This guy I really like, and i know he likes me, was walking next to me, and suddenly he started laughing. He wouldn't tell me why, either. We're only freshmen, so I know he's really immature, but is that it?

B) The same guy got really hurt becasue another guy i sit by in one of my classes said, " Hey, that geek likes you!!!" Really loud while the boy was sitting next to me, and the boy got really quiet for the rest of the day. I don't know why, can you help me? He says he didn't hear anything, but it would have been impossible for him not to.

C) ANOTHER guy, a junior this time, keeps flirting with me, but he is like, huge. He's this black football player, and really tall. My mom doesn't like him becasue he is flirting with freshmen. I like him tho, cux he's nice. What do I do?

If you guys could help, it'd be really nice!!!
Thanx!!!
:-)

2006-11-16 14:06:17 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I find her fun, and attractive. And thats pretty much how we communicate. 2 minutes after class every day. Cause once I talked to her for like an hour and found her incredibly boring and wanted to vanish into thin air. Why does this happen to me?

2006-11-16 14:05:55 · 12 answers · asked by plow the field 1 in Singles & Dating

I think it's the woman cuz some boys are soft little pansies and don't know any other way I guess. Both are sad though.

2006-11-16 14:04:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I knew him at a friend gathering, a week after, he asked me out once, movie and dinner, and we kept in touch on the net. Coulda say there was chemistry between us, but I think maybe I can get to know him more. We then met a few times at some friend gathering. Recently, my friends were out for something that I m not that into, so I did not go. He did ask me if I would go, and I told him honestly that I woulda. Later on, I got to know that he was in. So I coulda help but wonder he is actually not that into me though he asked me out once. Plus, I sense that maybe he is after another girl friend of mine (My friend was in that night too). I do not know as I did not ask my friend. That friend used to ask me how thing going between he and I, but since they met, my friend did not ask me this question anymore. Should I just forget him right away?

2006-11-16 14:04:36 · 3 answers · asked by bebe 1 in Singles & Dating

a girl gives u a love tap punch on the shoulder everytime she sees u? Her and i have been good friends and i like her but i dont know if she likes me would her love tapping me be considered an attraction? or just playful?

2006-11-16 14:03:53 · 7 answers · asked by Epidemic 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep thinking about her...what can i do to help me move on?

2006-11-16 14:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by udon'tknome731 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, recently I've been in a bit of a financial bind due to living on my own and having taken some time off of work for a recent death of a family member. This past month money has been really tight and I've been hinting all month to my boyfriend - hoping that he would lend me some money. Whenever I did, he would just change the subject. Finally, this past week, after getting sick with the flu and having no money for any medicine - I finally asked him straight out to borrow forty dollars. The way he reacted - it was like I had asked to borrow one of his kidneys. He told me I should just ask my parents, and then he got off the phone angrily.

For the record, he never takes me out and the last time he spent any large amount on me was when he bought me groceries 7 months ago. My boyfriend also pays no rent, or bills and eats out every other day. Now he says he's sorry (after I borrowed it from my mom) but I am really tired of this and I feel I deserve better - what do you think?

2006-11-16 14:02:30 · 31 answers · asked by Calin A 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 14:02:15 · 13 answers · asked by SpearTheBeardedClam 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do love songs (no matter what type of music) always bring back memories (good or bad) and make you want to cry?

*I'm not crying but its hard not too*

2006-11-16 14:00:35 · 9 answers · asked by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy...we got drunk once and end up in bed. We both decided that it was a mistake and blame it on alcohol. Although there was a physical attraction. He has told me that he is not interested in a relationship since he is still getting over his last break out, which was 6 months ago. He also has told me that he rather have me as a friend, than have what happend that night. I'm usually soporting of him and try to help him anyway I can. he has told me:
"You are a very smart, beautiful, and proffesional woman, and that is an exceptionally rare trait in women that I meet" & "you're awesome (my name). thanks for being so understanding and helpful"
Do U guys use these type of words w/ girls that U are interested as friends only?

2006-11-16 14:00:28 · 6 answers · asked by Mesa 2 in Singles & Dating

I have an ex boyfriend that I loaned money to. He and I are great friends, well sometimes we are great friends. He gets moody and there are times when he isn't the nicest person when he talks to me. He recently started seeing a girl and that is fine but I also would like to get some of my money paid back. Problem is he will accuse me of being jealous or of our friendship having a catch if I bring up starting payments. How do I bring up the touchy subject of repaying money without seeming like there are conditions. He makes me feel like I am a bad friend for asking him to be responsible and pay me back. Help.

2006-11-16 14:00:06 · 11 answers · asked by A. C 1 in Friends

Okay, I'm a senior in high school and this past spring I was pursuing this girl who seemed to be interested in me. Things were goin well and I asked her to hang out and she gave me her number but then it was just all downhill from there...I tried callin her a few times but she would say she was busy...I never really understood what went wrong but I just let it go and moved on. However, I like her again now. I know it's stupid but I cant help it. I really want to give it another shot, but if I ask her out again she would think I'm ridiculous for not taking the hint awhile ago and she would think that I had never gotten over it all the while. How can I do it in a way that doesn't set me up for humiliation...P.S. It's not so much that I'm afraid of the rejection, it's just that there's no reason to embarass myself if it can be avoided, and if i just straight up ask her out she'll probably say no bcuz why would she change her mind all of sudden

2006-11-16 13:58:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a serious crush on a married man . He knows about my crush and he flirts with me when ever I'm around him . I know that I would never try to mess up someones' marriage but, I can't help dreaming of what could happen if I let the temptress in me come out. What do I do, I see him almost everyday?

2006-11-16 13:57:55 · 12 answers · asked by Primarosa 1 in Singles & Dating

Viagra. I tried my friends dads and i was on for 3 hours. what a pill.

2006-11-16 13:57:05 · 19 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you lads prefer us tall, small, skinny, curvy, big boobs, short hair, long hair, blondes, brunettes tell me please..... ??

2006-11-16 13:57:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

be with them if they were still in love you.

2006-11-16 13:57:01 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just curious...

2006-11-16 13:56:42 · 5 answers · asked by Peta Chips 2 in Singles & Dating

and also needs time to think?

2006-11-16 13:55:46 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is a good nickname for chelsea

2006-11-16 13:54:50 · 7 answers · asked by Chelsea [♥] Dawn 3 in Friends

Every November my husband and I would host a dinner for about 80 people. He began doing this with a smaller crowd before we were married.
The last 20 years I have hosted and prepared everything myself. I just love it and I had such a great time. It was my way of expressing my gratitude and love towards our friends and colleagues.
My husband and I have recently seperated and he is going ahead with the party, hiring a caterer, etc. I feel very hurt as it feels like I am so replaceable. (I want a reconciliation in our marriage and this just doesn't feel right.) Many of our friends don't know we are living apart and they will receive his version of the story which is a little altered from the reality of the situation.
The thing that makes me question my reaction is that I have been very depressed and seemingly I am not ready to move on yet and it seems he is. It almost feels like a betrayal in some sense.
I don't know if I have the right to feel hurt or not.
What do you think?

2006-11-16 13:54:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am pregnant, and last time I was pregnant my husband made lewd comments about my body(1 year and a half ago). I won't get naked in front of him, because that made me insecure. He gets angry saying he was only joking. He had commented on how my butt spread out, the layers of fat on my legs ect.ect.

2006-11-16 13:54:12 · 21 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 13:53:59 · 29 answers · asked by Evelyn 1 in Singles & Dating

A close relative of mine got married a while back and I wasn't chosen as a bridesmaid because I was married. I normally wouldn't care but she chose other bridesmaid she hardle knew and my husband was the best man!!! Is this BS or a real tradition?

2006-11-16 13:53:40 · 20 answers · asked by IKEA freak 1 in Weddings

2006-11-16 13:53:29 · 14 answers · asked by Bre Bre 1 in Singles & Dating

i broke up wit my boyfriend about a week ago and i really miss him and i want to get back wit him because we broke up over a dumb reason.so i asked one of my friends to see if he wants to get back with me but he told her dat i ****** up and she said it seems like he still wants me but he's still hurt from me breaking up with him.i know i ****** up but i want to know wat i can do to see if we can get back together.

any advice???

2006-11-16 13:53:06 · 4 answers · asked by YAHHHHHHHH 2 in Singles & Dating

We were neighbors our freshman year of college.

He was crazy about me the first time he saw me, and I felt things for him too -- but I was in a relationship at the time.

Two years later, we end up as neighbors again and I am single now. Today I told him that I like him. He seemed really speechless about it. Things are cool between us, but just up in the air right now... I'm not sure how he feels anymore.

What would make a guy lose interest?

Did I make him lose interest?

2006-11-16 13:52:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm a junior in High school. I have a group of friends that I'm constantly in touch with. All of us are acclaimed Christians, but slowly, they've fallen from Christ. Now I'm the only one left who's dedicated to Christ and still a virgin. Is sex really worth the wait? Do any of you regret having sex before marriage? I know God wants me to wait, so I will strive to please Him; but I need some advice for my friends. Please help me!

2006-11-16 13:52:37 · 25 answers · asked by Savannah 1 in Friends