be with them if they were still in love you.
2006-11-16 13:57:01 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, and she was in love with me and me her. Things were perfect until one night she had to go to Atlanta. Dallas, Georgia, 1977. She ran through a stop sign and was killed instantely. Thank God her children was not with her. I guess she was the only person that I truly loved; after the many, many years. I still visit her gravesite in North Alabama. I have never met a person like her in my entire life including two ex-wives. Never did I see her when she was not smiling. It kills me to even write what I just put in print. Sometimes a person will come along that you truly adore. I was in California when the accident occured, and I came to visit my father. I , at the time did not know she was dead. Dad said , Robert I saved this clipping for you and thought you would like to have it. It was her funeral announcement. I went into shock.
I can't blame it on my dad as he did not know we were that close.
It has been twenty-nine years, and there is not a day in all those years that I have not thought about Barbara. I WISH I HAD BEEN IN THE CAR WITH HER....
2006-11-16 14:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard question because I'm happily married to a different man now...but I would be lying if I said I didn't think about my first love on a fairly regular basis. I do realize, though, that the more years that pass, the more fond my memories of him are, and I know that is just my mind playing tricks on me. So...in the end, I would have to say no.
2006-11-16 14:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by missapparition 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would love to, but unfortunately my first true love has died, 4.5 years ago, if he was still alive I would have been with him, God I would give anything to have him near me again. I was the happiest woman alive when he was by my side and when he died I felt like I died as well, and even though I am still here and I have moved on and I am pretty happy now, a big part of me did die when he did.
2006-11-16 14:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with him is one of the biggest mistakes in my life. I wanted to see the world and he was "boring" to me. Well, I've seen the world and it's not worth all the hype. Now, I would love to have a life with a good man, a modest home and living in a small town or country. Yes, I would want to. Unfortunately, the last time I spoke with him, he was married.... so I ended contact, 'cause I had a hunch his wife might get upset to know he was talking with his "first" if you know what I mean.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-11-16 14:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After 20 years! - Bumped into him and was with him!
It was the best! It's had it's repurcussions - my heart was broken all over again, - but man, it was great while it lasted, of course, but better to have lived and loved than never to have loved at all. It's never too late. It's only too late when you die. Since we are both still alive , hope is alive.
2006-11-16 14:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Canela 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope, I wouldn't....he and I were together for a short time and it brought me to my fiancee, the most wonderful man I have today. It was one of lifes lessons that I wouldn't want to live again. I am happy looking toward the future!!
2006-11-16 13:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, but there is only one small problem. He became a bisexual crossdressing criminal in his early 20's (we fell in love in JHS and dated throughout HS and college) and although he's coming out of jail soon, I don't think I'll be looking him up. Did I add that I became a health-conscious, well-educated professional?
2006-11-16 14:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by oh really 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that ship sailed. I wouldn't erase that time from my life at all, it contributed to who I am as a person but there is a reason our relationship didn't work out. We were kids and had a lot of growing to do, after a while we were just stunting each others growth.
2006-11-16 14:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by BLANK 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, because my first love allowed his family to control him in all his decisions.
He left me after senior high school and joined the Navy.
I wrote him everyday, he came home and started dating someone else.
I saw him walking down the street about 5 years ago and we talked, were nice to each other, but he wanted to get with me, but my feelings had changed.
I wished him well and we went our separate ways.
2006-11-16 14:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by purpleone726 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not. I'm so truly in love with my husband that I really question if I ever knew what "real" love was before. Nothing has ever felt like this before - I don't miss my first love (or any of my ex's) one bit.
2006-11-16 14:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Peach 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋