Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

YOU can only see your spouse just before the wedding ceremony.
He or she could be 18-90 years old. Gorgeous or ugly, fat or in shape..... take a chance. BUT worth 50 billion $. And no divorce in the future.
would you go for it?!

2006-11-16 13:52:10 · 24 answers · asked by tanyasiv 4 in Singles & Dating

I mean even if u knew that he is someone 11 yrs older than u or let's just say he is ur highschool teacher. He likes u but only sees u as a student and socializes with u like a very close friend and makes u feel welcomed and opened towards him but he is single and u know that this other girl is with him but u have a crush on him will u do whatever it takes to fight for the guy eventhough he is ur teacher? It's quite embarrassing but someone I know is in this situation.

2006-11-16 13:51:58 · 15 answers · asked by Shirley l 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 13:51:56 · 8 answers · asked by megan'sthename 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been crushing on this VERY good guy friend of mine for a pretty long time now but he doesnt know. we're really comfortable with each other. somehow, someone found out and i think theyre spreading rumors. it mustve got to him bc he wont talk to me or look at me!!!!!!! [grrr]

2006-11-16 13:51:37 · 7 answers · asked by Alice 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently found out my dad has been cheating on my mom for the last 3 years. My mom doesnt know, I found out sort of by accident. I used to be a daddy's girl. I used to think he was the greatest person in the entire world. Now I feel so alone and lost. I really want to get over it and go back to normal. I want to be happy and secure again. How do you start to forgive someone. I feel odd leaving a questions like this on here but I have no one to turn to since Im the only one who knows.

2006-11-16 13:51:35 · 27 answers · asked by gti_gal8885 1 in Marriage & Divorce

could he create a rock so big that he himself could not lift it???

2006-11-16 13:51:33 · 11 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i went to this party and we were the last to arrive I mean I've been waiting for this party a long time I got my hair done and everything so I looke nice I was a dress that was worn by Jlo in an award show. He left and went talk to his buddies so other people saw me along they started talking to me and flirtung with me. then when he saw I started I club full men he got jealous and started talking crap I ignored him and while I was sitting by myself some one ask me to dance so I yes while I was on the dance my grab the guy and started a fight. I don't know what to think anymore.
Help/

2006-11-16 13:51:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok me and my wife are now seperated but at one point in time like a week ago she wanted me to sign her payroll check after checking the mail and put my signature on it as well and put it into one of my personal checking account so i did. its fraud but she gave me permission. once the check cleared i took out the money and handed it to her. she called me one day about child support i told her i didnt have it yet. she got all pissed off and her new lover is yelling in the background and all that other crap and he told her as i heard in the background get his *** for signing your check. so they went down to the police and reported i signed the check without her permission which is a lie and now im being investigated. what in the hell can i do in this kinda situation to protect myself and stay outta jail?

2006-11-16 13:51:18 · 8 answers · asked by jerry1282004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 13:51:07 · 3 answers · asked by h_burnette3728 1 in Singles & Dating

My father was abusive growing up. He was an alcolholic and beat my mother and me. Growing up I swore I would never end up like my father. He was a bastard and I hated him. Now I'm married with a 3 year old daughter. Our marriage is on the rocks right now. We have a hard time paying bills, ect, and it makes our marriage more stressful. I was drinking alcolhol watching the football game a couple nights ago when my wife walked in angry. She was mad that I was relaxing after a long days work and that I wasn't taking care of our daughter. (Wife works till 2pm, picks up daughter from daycare, cleans house, ect.) she was yelling at me and it pissed me off, i work hard to pay for our home, bills, clothes, ect, and I was feeling unappreciated. Well....I slapped her. I feel bad, and humiliated. I can't look at myself and feel good. I'm turning into my father. My wife took my daughter and drove to her parents to stay the night. She said she won't come home. What can i do?

2006-11-16 13:50:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I live in n.y and I would like to keep my name its been mine all my life i've been married for twenty years.First time I hear about this crap i want to know,is it law.If it is as i woman i feel discriminated against men can keep thier identity but we have to loose ours.It can't be a law.I'm 37 years old have 3 kids and i have always been me. As far as i'm concerned my kids have to have his name not me.

2006-11-16 13:50:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is a song done by this acapella group called Straight Company. The song is called Death Ain't No Big Deal. I want to have it played at my funeral, whenever that is. There is a line in the song at the end that says, "So long, goodbye, beyond the sky." At that point, I wanted to have my hand rigged up so I would wave goodbye to the people attending the funeral, but with a disclaimer written in the funeral program that something would happen, and please don't freak out. You see, I have a strange and weird sense of humor, and my friends know this. I think they'd get a kick out of this, what do you think?

2006-11-16 13:50:20 · 10 answers · asked by kellygirlaj 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

for anyone who hasnt already answered my girl and i have been goin out for almost a year it will be a year in like a week then all of a sudden she comes out of nowhere yesterday and says she wants to break up and says its her not me that i do everything she could ever dream of and more and she is glad that i let her do really whatever she wants then today she says that she is mad at me and says it is over what the hell is this all about and what should i do i love her to death and she says she loves me more than anyone else. i really dont want it to end any advice is welcome on what to do or what is going through her mind thanks everyone. trust me i know she is not cheating some well trusted mutual freinds are with her if she did somethin and didnt tell me i would know about it thats why i have no problems plus she has always proven herself trustworthy thats why this makes no sense to me

2006-11-16 13:49:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 20 he is 26.They seem be emotionally insest.He lives with me but they used to talk on the phone 3-5 times a day,she is very emotionally dependant on him.When I told them it was inapropriate and they need to talk less they got very distrot.He was very upset and went on a drinking beng for about a week or two.She would call me and cuss me out and cause all kinds of problems between me and him.The way it has been with them makes me feel like Im having an affair with a married man.When he still lived with her and i would come to vistit he would go to her room every five minutes,and sometimes sneek in there and act like he was going to the bath room.She has bragged to friends about the size of his penis and told me in front of him that when he was a baby she thought he had a very large penis and that the girls that got him were lucky.Once i was talking one the phone with him while she was in the shower,when she came out in a towel he giggled,hung up,didnt anwer and couldnt exlain why.

2006-11-16 13:49:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so what had happened was I was deployed to Iraq for a total of 19 months since 2003 and numerous other deployment with the US Army.Well being in a all male unit (infantry) , sometimes a man gets kinda lonely out there and instead of turning gay, I bought a couple of porn movies for happy time. Well, since my reutrn I have became sort of addicted to porno but not to a way I am subscribe to a site or anything like that, I just like to browse through websites and enjoy myself. Well, its been 6 months since I have been back home and my wife caught me during my happy time. Well she is pregnant and is starting to grow. She broke down saying I did notlove her any more and I did not find her attractive any more. Honestly,I feal her is very attractive and has gotten very sexy curves since being pregnant. I love her and will always be a faithful husband to a point that I do not chat with any females or I try to hit on any one. I feal she doesn't understand me and I need someones opinion. TY

2006-11-16 13:49:19 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well there is guy I have as a booty call, its a week since we have anything and I see him online sometimes, well doesnt talk to me and I dont either. But you know I want to find out if he hasnt asked me for any because I dont know if he is seeing anyone, I dont want to ask because he will think Im desperate for him or Im in for him you know...He has told me if I need it to ask him or anything but I feel shy calling him and you know since we havent spoken to in a week I dont know, im not desperate for sex just you know, is it wrong if i see him online to say hi to him...usually i say hi i dont mind just wondering anyways

2006-11-16 13:49:09 · 10 answers · asked by Aby 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do you tease girls? Is this because you like them? Also, if it is, why don't you ask them out afterwards? Is it because you are afrain, or what?

Thanks

2006-11-16 13:48:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 13:47:49 · 18 answers · asked by abc123a v 1 in Singles & Dating

We started dating almost 2 weeks ago. He lies about the dumbest things but then i caught him lieing about liking this other girl before we dated. I don't care who he liked in the past but he shouldn't lie. Last night when i was in the shower, he was on my computer messaging this girl saying "can i call you so i can tell you i don't have feelings for you so my girl can here" then he said how she was beautiful and can't wait til she is 18 and wants to kiss her then he said something about " can i call u and tell u have no feelings 4 u like the dating part and were just friends so my ***** wont call the cops on me for liking someone younger" Ok, i wouldn't call the cops. I love him so much but if he says he is done lieing, should i believe it? I know most of you will say no because you all have been through it but how do i know for sure? He was crying too., what should i do? I do love him! keep in mind he is with me every day and min. that i let him.

2006-11-16 13:47:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I work at a convinence store and even though people know I'm married they still make comments. My job is to take it with a smile, but I want to sock them in the face."Are those moon pants, cause your *** is out of this world", please give me a break.

2006-11-16 13:46:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok well ive recently just got together with a new girl..and im kinda confused because she just kisses me when she like feels its an ok time but like i dunno if she wants 1 kiss or 2 make out with me im not a kissing expert can someone help me ill give u 30 points if u can =] thnx.

2006-11-16 13:46:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 13:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by WW 1 in Singles & Dating

This Guy told me that, But I dont know what it means.
Or what he means.

2006-11-16 13:46:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Jealous?

2006-11-16 13:45:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-16 13:45:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering. Sometimes I watch these rap videos and they mostly show the light skinned girls so I just wanted to know.

2006-11-16 13:44:48 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Would you date a guy who just got divorced 3 mos. ago with his ex-wife still living in his apartment but sleeping in another bedroom? He said he couldn't do anything with his ex-wife because she doesn't have a job and can't afford to rent an apartment.
He's my classmate and he had asked me a few times if I want to go out with him, initiallly on the phone, then in class. But he asked me again after class when we're going out, and what I want to do; he seemed serious that evening, but neither did I say "No" nor "Yes." Then I asked him when he was available. I told him I'll think about what we were gonna do, so he called me the on Friday to find out. I called him, but I was changed my mind while I was talking to him. I asked him if we could go out on Saturday instead. He said ok, I'll just call on Saturday night then in the end of the conversation. I told a couple of friends about him and his ex-wife, and they were a little surprised. He didn't call back that Saturday. I didn't call him

2006-11-16 13:44:44 · 14 answers · asked by mshealerless 3 in Singles & Dating

He says that his office in Northern New Jersey is about 1 hour each way to his home in Newtown PA. He just moved to NewTown a year ago. I live in Maryland which is about 200 miles from Newtown and he usually comes down every other weekend. I applaud him on getting ahead in his company, however when I asked him does this mean that in few months time we won't talk and/or have vists very often. He quickly changed the subject. Do you guys think that I should make a clean break now before 5 months comes quickly. I care for him so much but I really don't want to hold him back.

2006-11-16 13:44:36 · 2 answers · asked by Contessa 2 in Singles & Dating

I almost cheated on my wife in December. She found out about it and at first I denied it and then I told the truth. She stayed with me until May. Then she moved home to go to school. We were still supposed to be toghther. In July she told me that she wanted a divorce. I am very in love with her and really regret what I did. I truly believe that she still loves me, but she is scared to be with me. How can I show her that she can trust me when she won't spend any time around me?

2006-11-16 13:44:15 · 15 answers · asked by Joe d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sending an email to someone I care about but never met (will be meeting him in a week from tomorrow. How should I end the email?

Don't want to say Love or anything too mushy but want to show that I care. What you suggest?

2006-11-16 13:43:32 · 7 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Other - Family & Relationships