We started dating almost 2 weeks ago. He lies about the dumbest things but then i caught him lieing about liking this other girl before we dated. I don't care who he liked in the past but he shouldn't lie. Last night when i was in the shower, he was on my computer messaging this girl saying "can i call you so i can tell you i don't have feelings for you so my girl can here" then he said how she was beautiful and can't wait til she is 18 and wants to kiss her then he said something about " can i call u and tell u have no feelings 4 u like the dating part and were just friends so my ***** wont call the cops on me for liking someone younger" Ok, i wouldn't call the cops. I love him so much but if he says he is done lieing, should i believe it? I know most of you will say no because you all have been through it but how do i know for sure? He was crying too., what should i do? I do love him! keep in mind he is with me every day and min. that i let him.
2006-11-16 13:47:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy will ruin your life if you let him. If you want to see what hell is like, stick with him.
2006-11-16 13:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by يا حسين 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide if you want to be in a relationship where in the back of your mind you will be questioning the truthfulness of everything he says. Because you will be. From what I can tell, you already are. Also, the fact that he was messaging an underage girl on your computer while you were in the shower doesn't exactly inspire trust.
Honest communication and trust are the foundation of a good relationship.
"if he says he is done lieing, should i believe it? I know most of you will say no because you all have been through it..."
Sounds to me like you already know the answer to your question.
Best of luck to you!
2006-11-16 14:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mary L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet love, I read the entire thing, but needed to read only the first part when you say he lies about the dumbest things. This makes him a liar. Liars don't change. If he lies about dumb things, he lies about important things. You do not love him. You love what you WISH he was, and what he will NEVER be. Don't allow him another moment to break your heart. Leave him. Leave him fast. Run Forrest! Run!!
2006-11-16 13:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he lied before you got together what makes you think he is going to stop lien especially in a new relationship and then he is on the computer while you are in the shower and trying to get her to lie to open your eyes you just fell for a liar and every body not perfect but at lease in a new relationship they try to keep every thing up front and open only you can decide what to do but if it was me i would cit my ties now before i got to deep good luck
2006-11-16 13:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will happen again and you will be more in love with him then and you will feel even worse. You will cry harder. You will be more angry and betrayed. It is true, you love him and he loves you but he will hurt you over and over. He didn't accidentally sneak behind your back and IM some girl, he did it on purpose, he wasn't crying because he made a mistake and hurt you, he was crying because he got caught and his plans got screwed up. DUMP HIM BEFORE HE HURTS YOU ANY MORE!!!
2006-11-16 13:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys r funny they say they will do something but tey wont my bf always crys if he thinks i am mad at him or sumthing. but every guy is diff n if u really love him n u know 4 a fact tat u wanna b with him den give him another chance but if he dont change then just let him go no matter ow muc it would urt good luck n god bless u
2006-11-16 13:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first evry guy desrves a 2nd chanse but if he sent dat 2 a girl then he blu it i woud never do dat 2 my gf
also im havin som trubles wit me n my gf if anybody can help that woud b cool chek my ?s 2 see pleese eamil me or anser da ?s
tanx i dont wanna loose her i love her soooo much
2006-11-16 13:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by scott_groen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell some authority about his child fetish or pedofilia. that will hopefully end this younger girls relationship w/ ur man. then tell him he has three chances. like three wishes. after he used those three chances he gets no more and you dump him. it would be better for both of you but especially you.
2006-11-16 13:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by Nikolae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying can get you ( meaning everybody) in trouble.
2006-11-16 13:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you should not stay with him. Two weeks of this should be enough.
2006-11-16 13:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋