I mean even if u knew that he is someone 11 yrs older than u or let's just say he is ur highschool teacher. He likes u but only sees u as a student and socializes with u like a very close friend and makes u feel welcomed and opened towards him but he is single and u know that this other girl is with him but u have a crush on him will u do whatever it takes to fight for the guy eventhough he is ur teacher? It's quite embarrassing but someone I know is in this situation.
2006-11-16 13:51:58 · 15 answers · asked by Shirley l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the old head of of my old college would up marrying a sixth former he taught.
numerous people (one or two that I know) wind up in some kind of relationship during the five to seven years that people are in school. It's human and statistics dictate that out of all the kids and teachers and all the time they spend together you will get relationships blooming... it's inevitable.
the results too can be disastrous or really beautiful.
the teacher has a unique power over their partner because of how the relationship is likely to have developed. that's why it's frowned upon, because that kind of influence can wreck someone's life. I think the situation might be moot because you don't know what they teacher thinks about the girl as opposed to what he thinks about his job and his reputation.. there are just too many variables to give a sensible suggestion about what to do.
girls have crushes and crushes come and go. she will embarrass herself or not as the case may be. she might succeed in snaring him....
good luck to all parties concerned! :-)
2006-11-16 14:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, well your friend shouldn't be jealous of the girl who's in this relationship with your teacher. Even if this teacher was Johnny Depp or the hottest guy on Earth, it's still sick and twisted and wrong, but mostly illegal. I have quite a few friends with "teacher crushes" but never have I had a friend who actually went to the next level with a teacher. That only happens on t.v., like on the news about sick and twisted teachers, some shows and movies, and porn, mostly it happens in porn. So obviously the fact that it's so sick and wrong does make it more appealing. But fighting for a guy is hardly ever worth it, especially when you're able to get sticky with the law. Not like your friend would get arrested, but that teacher would. And it's not like she could ever find long lasting happiness with this man, no matter what the circumstances are. Your friend can simply fantasize about having sex with the teacher, while her rival gets some very short term happiness with him. But I do kind of feel for her, she doesn't even have the "Oh, he can't like me because he's a teacher and I'm a student and that's wrong" excuse. Poor kid, I think I'll pray for her.
2006-11-16 15:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 05:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt have feelings for me in the same way i have feelings for him i would pretty much let him go. As far as being my teacher........... probably not....... well only cause my teachers all looked old and saggy LOL and there my teachers
you mentioned that he was single but this other is with him ..... so is he single or with somebody ? and as for the person in this situation you should tell her to leave him alone and find somebody around her age or her grade level at least.... its just insane to want to pursue this out not just cause of his age but because he is the successful one and she isnt. hope this helps yah out.
2006-11-16 14:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not going to go well...teachers aren't allowed to see their students i belive...they really shouldn't anyways. That person may think he likes her but most teachers do act that way towards their students
2006-11-16 13:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by oceankimmylucky 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So you like your teacher ? Just make sure he doesn't end up listed as a pedophile if something goes wrong.
2006-11-16 13:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jazz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no but i have 4 a girl
2006-11-16 14:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by kick me h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, let it go, youre a teenager and at this stage you dont know your @rse from your elbow. Its just a stupid crush, now get back to your homework.
2006-11-16 13:56:54 · answer #8 · answered by ugly little hate machine 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've seen lots of sh*t like this. The dude isn't interested in you and if he is, lets just say he's going to jail.
2006-11-16 13:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wont fight for no man at one time i would of but not now, plenty more fish in the sea
2006-11-16 18:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋