I am 20 he is 26.They seem be emotionally insest.He lives with me but they used to talk on the phone 3-5 times a day,she is very emotionally dependant on him.When I told them it was inapropriate and they need to talk less they got very distrot.He was very upset and went on a drinking beng for about a week or two.She would call me and cuss me out and cause all kinds of problems between me and him.The way it has been with them makes me feel like Im having an affair with a married man.When he still lived with her and i would come to vistit he would go to her room every five minutes,and sometimes sneek in there and act like he was going to the bath room.She has bragged to friends about the size of his penis and told me in front of him that when he was a baby she thought he had a very large penis and that the girls that got him were lucky.Once i was talking one the phone with him while she was in the shower,when she came out in a towel he giggled,hung up,didnt anwer and couldnt exlain why.
2006-11-16 13:49:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I HOPE THIS IS BULLS*HIT. IF NOT, RUN!
2006-11-16 13:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by CHUCK 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are u exaggerating a little bit about the penis situation? where did you hear that from? There is nothing wrong with him being close to his mother and talking to her on the phone but if it bothers you then you need to break up it sounds like your a little jealous
2006-11-16 21:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jaime T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if that's what going on I would say that they are too close. And if I were in you spot I couldn't be with him. I mean I know that mothers are always going to be in the way but that's too much. And for her to be talking about his penis in that way then there is something seriously wrong with that relationship. And if you plan on marrying him you need to think if he will treat your kids this way. growing up this way he may think that it is OK to be with like your kids and might try to do the something with yours. it really comes down to if you think you will be able to handle it or not. I couldn't but its completely up to. I say they are way to close and end it now.
2006-11-16 21:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by just wondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, I would seriously talk to him again, tel him how you feel, and leave him, your not cmfortable and not happy...that is important in a relationship, he is 26 and he should have a lttlw room from his mother right now he should be focused more on yo. Give some time for yourself, and definetly time from him. this story is awkward,and it seems to me. he is a little sick and so is his mother. God Bless!
2006-11-16 22:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by old 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to ask your self - Do you Love this Guy? Is it worth all this gross yuck? Have you asked him or talked about it? Maybe it has something to do with drugs. Do you get along with her? So if you don't move on - there are plenty of normal guys with normal mothers or not so normal because normal is a bit boring. Bur you know what I mean. Good luck to you
2006-11-16 21:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way to young to get yourself in the middle of this mess. No matter what, honestly, can you see yourself dealing with this situation - because it won't get better - for the rest of your life? Cut and run, girl.
2006-11-16 22:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by jello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all this upsets... why are you still there? Just get a bloke with a less restrictive relationship with his mother.
2006-11-16 22:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by margo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go...the guy's got huge issues and he's never going to cut THOSE apron strings...
You'd be playing second fiddle forever...and disgusted about it...
2006-11-16 21:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not normal at all and i think you should kick em to the curb.. he nor she is gonna change and it;s always gonna be you against her''and he's such a mama's boy he'll always take her side.. get a nice and normal boyfriend...,,,,,, good-luck
2006-11-16 21:55:57 · answer #9 · answered by Cami lives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like some fine people....hahaha....get out of this scene,b4 ya end up on a episode of springer!!!!!
2006-11-16 22:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by curious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like all the clues are there, dump him.
2006-11-16 22:38:14 · answer #11 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋