Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

I am getting married to my best friend in the whole world. We get along great but he has no idea how to be romantic. I have tried to deny my need for romance claiming its some girly useless thing. But I need up heartbroken. I want to help him learn how to treat a woman. He is not mean or bad just romantically retarded.

2006-11-16 13:42:34 · 15 answers · asked by shea26 2 in Singles & Dating

There are two girls at my school, one that I have liked for a while, and another that I began obsessing about lately. The one I have known for a while is younger, extremely nice, smart, and a very hard worker. The other is my age, nice, a hard worker, but is the blondest person I have ever met. Neither of them have been in a previous relationship, and both of them seem to like me. what should I do?

2006-11-16 13:42:11 · 9 answers · asked by Peta Chips 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright, I'm 13. I'm not the hottest boy in the school. You could call me somewhat a nerd. I wear glasses, I'm Asian, shorter than the girl I like, play video games and I'm not too good looking. Probably average looks. I honestly don't care about how I look.I'm shy. Bad experiences with girls, and I'm trying to get past it, but not so easy.

But the main problem is that I'm trying to be set in an ideal situation so I can talk to her. She doesn't know me, and that's why she rejected me. I was hoping that at lunch, I would get to sit next to her and we could try to get to know each other. That's one option. Another would be to go talk to her privately(or with her friends around, whichever, but I'm hoping that I'll get to talk to her alone) at recess and winging it. But I'm too chicken(see, those bad experiences with girls have gotten to me over these years) so I'm trying to think this through carefully.

So tell me what you think I should do or give me more options.

2006-11-16 13:42:10 · 3 answers · asked by The World Ends with You 5 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like my bro's friend. the problem is he dosen't knw who i am. he is really really cute. i want to tell my bro that i like him, so he can talk to his friend about me. how do i tell my bro that i like him?

2006-11-16 13:41:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help

2006-11-16 13:41:18 · 14 answers · asked by gatoroak 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boy friend had sex about 3 months ago and now im pregnant. i dont know if i should get an abortion or just go through with it. im 13 and so is he i love him and he loves me but i dont know if were ready. my parents arent good and neither are his they are dead beats. thats why im asking you.

2006-11-16 13:40:48 · 12 answers · asked by samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

the amount of money my husand pays in child support is killing our marriage trust me i knew about the children but the child support came about after the marriage and his amount of money left over after the support is not cutting it plz help any advice is welcome

2006-11-16 13:40:17 · 7 answers · asked by kinya p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My MIL is essentailly a nice woman but very meddling..... First of all, my husband and I were recently married. He was married before (ten years ago) and has a thirteen year old daughter. Things were going smoothly at first as we were all transitioning into our new roles and new lives, then the MIL struck. BTW- we live on the same street- I know we need to move. Since the step daughter was very little and my husband worked a shift work, my MIL usually kept the stepdaughter and she spent the night there. Occaisionally she would spend the night with us. Now, she doesn't spend any time here at our house at all. MIL says that I am too young to be her step parent (to the daughter) and discredits me and her own son. She constantly calls the shots for the girl not even allowing her own son to step in and make decisions. HE TRIES- honestly....she overides him everytime. I think that he is afraid to confront his own mother and even his own daughter. Please help...advice anyone?

2006-11-16 13:40:12 · 11 answers · asked by breezyb23 1 in Family

he is so hot i dont know what to do. i want to touch him and or fall on him on purpose. will u guys give me some advice?

2006-11-16 13:39:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but i'm not really sure if he likes me. What do I do??

2006-11-16 13:39:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Each time after crying, I feel tired and don't want to work. Why and how should I deal with it?

2006-11-16 13:38:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-16 13:38:44 · 11 answers · asked by manofsteel_returns 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anybody know some meaningful lyric songs... I don't know if I have the same meaning as other people may have, but I'm looking for songs like "Drops of Jupiter" and "calling all angels" and "Konstantine" (in order by, train, train, and Something Corporate) does anybody know any really good songs like that... that just hit the spot and brings tears to your eyes? Thanks.

2006-11-16 13:38:03 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

=)

2006-11-16 13:37:03 · 12 answers · asked by Kate B 1 in Singles & Dating

A brand-new female friend met me yesterday and called, and invited me out to lunch today. I took out time from work to meet her at the restaurant she picked, and waited there an hour. It changed my entire day and was kind of a waste. This evening I got home from work and didn't see her number on my Caller ID. I phoned her and asked what happened. She sounded stoned and said she was sorry, "this isn't the real me", and that she not only did stand me up, she didn't even call before the appt to tell me she wouldn't be there.

She then went into this sob story about her dog and how some medical problem of the dog was what threw her day off. The problem with the dog was not serious, and the dog's fine.

Well, this woman still wants to be friends with me and apologized profusely. But she struck me as kind of weird from the onset, and I think her not even calling to warn me she wouldn't be at the place was an *insult*. I want her un-friended. Should I dump her as a friend?

2006-11-16 13:37:02 · 8 answers · asked by Heather M 2 in Friends

I know it's long but please answer!
Would you datea 5'1 90lb gymnast with brown hair/eyes, and a sweet/kind/caring disposition and a vegetarian? I do eat but train like 5hrs a day and it burns off.I am a sophmore but am the only 1 on varsity.(I was j.v. last year, cuz i suck.even ho most frosh are on frosh.)
Why is it after our practice all the guys happen to "finish" practice even tho it ended and hr ago?? I don't drive, I run over a mile home to help condition.I have a bmw and lexus.
Guys be honest. I wanna know what you think. Would you also come to our meets to be encouraging and have a real relationship with us?I don't want a guy to call me fat or n e thing. I get enough of that from the people who aren't me friends.
Would you be ok with ur gf falling asleep in ur arms?Would you date a gymnast?
Why do you watch and hang out but are too shy to ask a girl out? Many guys are like this to me.Y?

2006-11-16 13:36:59 · 12 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 13:36:49 · 2 answers · asked by bayoubanditman 1 in Singles & Dating

Just thought id get peoples feedback or experience. Well I was dating this guy like a year ago, and I was with him for a year, at first i thought I was in love with him and I wasnt. Then I just stayed with him out of convinience and also because I didnt know how to break up with him. I treated not so good sometimes. Finally I ended it. Months went by and then I met this guy and went on a couple dates with him, I really liked him and thought it would work out and I wanted to be with him, but he was attracted to me and at first seemed like he was interested, then some how he ended it and gave me his reasons. Is this like bad karma? I think so because well he didnt treat me bad he was a nice person as well, but i dont know. sometimes i guess i got back for what i did to the guy previously.

2006-11-16 13:36:21 · 6 answers · asked by Patricia 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm rephrasing and reposting because my last question asking this got me a violation and was deleted.

Okay, so I don't look at porn, but I do get aroused looking at other stuff (ie youtube clips, music videos, advertisements, tv etc etc). So does that mean I really am looking at it without knowing it?

And how bad is it for me to be doing that?

2006-11-16 13:36:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an idea what it means but what does it?

2006-11-16 13:35:41 · 8 answers · asked by Andrew26 2 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone else noticed the ratio of guys asking questions to girls who have no clue about guys? Aren't girls supposed to be much better at this sort of thing than guys? All of the girls who post questions here are so utterly clueless, and yet girls tend to make fun of guys in that they supposedly know nothing about women.

I hope this question made as much sense as it did in my head....

2006-11-16 13:35:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why? Is it because they are harder to get?

2006-11-16 13:34:47 · 23 answers · asked by Weeber 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 13:34:45 · 44 answers · asked by Yours Truly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i play drums in my music class . it is pretty fun but i get tired of standing , and also i do not like playing drums anymore. there are other instruments such as clarinet . flute , french horn , tuba, trombone, trumpet and alto saxaphone. should i change my instrument . please . help me here will u?

2006-11-16 13:34:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like my boyfriend to be more adventurous. He's great at what he does, don't get me wrong, but I would still like there to be some variety on the way we make love. (no etxra people or anything) He's a little old fashion. I just want to be the best girlfriend ever for him, so what will drive him crazy?

2006-11-16 13:34:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 13:33:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 13:33:06 · 9 answers · asked by babby court 1 in Singles & Dating

Scene, a nice pub. Trivia night. You're not even trying but things go well and you even get her number.

You wait the prerequisite two days and get her voice on v-mail. So you leave a voice message.

How long should you wait before calling back and how many times should you call back before saying "Forget this?"

2006-11-16 13:31:50 · 9 answers · asked by Geo-Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

physically fit gymnast/dancer with a sweet disposition and is 5'1 and 95lbs?? She has brown hair/eyes. She's varsity and smart.
-OR-
heavier girl who is all about school and is 5'1 and 135lbs?? With a kind disposition and brown hair/eyes??

Please Answer.

2006-11-16 13:31:01 · 10 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Singles & Dating

ok,
i like this guy but he doen't know i exsist!i like him a LOT but i'm to shy of a person to tell him how i feel!i want to ask him out but i'm worried my one of my bff's Garrett likes me and cares about me just a little t much more than a friend,he's a friend to me and i don't want to hurt his feelings.He's popular sort off and i'm kind off shy...i don't know how he feels about me either

2006-11-16 13:31:00 · 9 answers · asked by Brandy A 1 in Friends