Why do girls have so many troubles with guys?

Question

Has anyone else noticed the ratio of guys asking questions to girls who have no clue about guys? Aren't girls supposed to be much better at this sort of thing than guys? All of the girls who post questions here are so utterly clueless, and yet girls tend to make fun of guys in that they supposedly know nothing about women.

I hope this question made as much sense as it did in my head....

Answer 1

Guys have changed. They no longer act like men in the relationships anymore and want women to bend over backwards and do everything, all the courting, etc.; meanwhile, women have wised up and are being fed a lot of self-help books and TV shows like Oprah telling us not to put up with ANYTHING from the guy, to second-guess him, check him out, go behind his back and verify what he says, assume he's a cheater, etc.

In short it looks like the guys are acting like "women" and the women are acting like "the guys". There is an enormous level of mutual paranoia shared between the two. We blow up minor things to the size of the universe, judge each other and dump each other too fast maybe. Maybe. Men seem to be out to get the most they can sexually from women then dump them (women don't have a phrase like "hit it and quit it" or "fall on the grenade" - men do). Women on the other hand distrust men and are beginning to hate and fear them.

All the rules have changed, but feminism is not the only thing to blame. It's also that a lot of guys now grew up with no dads and approach relationships kind of like sneaky women, because all they saw was their mother, and other sneaky guys. Pair the two together and you get sneaky effeminate behavior. (Disclaimer - that's my humble, solo opinion.) A lot of girls today also grew up with abusive dads who did sexual stuff to them, too. That makes women doubly frightened of men and ready to pounce on them for any mistake.

The real problem is our media and internet atmosphere which is full of eagerly offered reasons for men to hate women and women to hate men. Sells more self-help books, you know... gets more hits on that date help website.

That's my humble opinion.

The real reason though is that men changed the rules and blamed women for changing them. Men could have ignored feminism and just stayed strong, good men. Women would have corrected themselves. Instead, men started competing with women and have become WAY too obsessed with thinking every woman ought to look like page 92 in Vogue magazine.

That's the real culprit right there. Women feel compared, thought "ugly", and judged on things that cannot be changed without an expensive bout of surgery. Even if we do change, we are still sexually disposable. Get her booty and move on to the next booty. Men meanwhile continue to look the same as they did before, and give even less than their fathers did.

This has become a pirate's world. Everyone for themselves. Booty, booty, theft and booty. That's my rant and answer.

Answer 2

Not ALL of the girls here are totally clueless. I'm smart enough to stay off the dating scene and focus on what's really important. But to be fair, a lot of the guys here really don't know their s-hit about women. Those are usually the guys who believe that a woman's place is in the home.

Answer 3

hi Matthew! I understand your problem (in effortless terms from a females viewpoint). ok. initially, she has instructed you she likes you and you needless to say like her. So I which you will desire to take of venture and be straightforward along with her and tell her the variety you experience! You never comprehend what's going to take place in case you do no longer pass out on a limb and profess your thoughts! The worst difficulty in the international is having something no longer artwork out because of the fact you're aggravating you have been going to screw issues up! additionally if she is a woman well worth being with looks should not be her first precedence! character is top. in case you have relaxing along with her and you get alongside great then choose for! :)) wish this enables advance your self belief!

Answer 4

I don't think they are utterly clueless! A women's brain remembers every little thing that she feels is emotional. That is one of the differences between you guys and us girls! It is not something that we choose it's just the way it is! It doesn't make us stupid or anything! You should look at it this way you guys do not remember emotional things like we do, for us that is a plus!

Answer 5

Females tend to have so many troubles with men because we expect men to read our emotions off the bat, or give a response right away when we suggest or request something of them. Females do not necessarily believe in the idea that men do need time to think of how they really feel. We judge and jump to conclusions too often.

Answer 6

As you said, it's typically "girls" (children) that post questions here about guys...

..while plenty of adult women do also, a large part of that is because women like to talk out their problems/worries/issues and typically men deal with them a different way...

That's part of the differences between the sexes...how we deal with stress, anger, relationships, and how we communicate...

Guys are less likely to come to a place like this looking for relationship advice or asking curious questions, than a woman is...

Answer 7

well im not really sure why us girls have trouble with guys... guys are as diffucult or even more confusing then girls... some guys dont know what they want... or know what they have even if its right in front of them..

Answer 8

We don't it just that we get nerves sometimes and can't handle it unlike some people i know like me for instance.

Answer 9

because girls think about it more....antagonize about it more...whine about it more.....everything is a problem

Answer 10

its a whole new world out there...