me and my boy friend had sex about 3 months ago and now im pregnant. i dont know if i should get an abortion or just go through with it. im 13 and so is he i love him and he loves me but i dont know if were ready. my parents arent good and neither are his they are dead beats. thats why im asking you.
2006-11-16 13:40:48 · 12 answers · asked by samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow - tough one. Have you thought about adoption? Do your parents know? Talk to them or your boyfriends parents or you doctor. Somebody will help you because they care about you. Your not alone. Good luck
2006-11-16 13:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down with your boyfriend and talk to him about what you guys really want. have both your parents and his sit with you guys and talk about what you guys can do. since you say that both yours and his parents are dead beats then try to bring someone else that can help you talk to your parents about it. a counselor, doctor, family friend.
you can decide to have the baby and put it up for adoption if you and your boyfriend cant care for it. if you really don't want to go through the pregnancy then yeah think about having an abortion but first please talk to people, there is help out there.
2006-11-16 13:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by sassyone7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is way to young to have sex in the first place...and if you think you can cope with a baby then have it. go some where for help and advice, its not as easy as you think looking after a baby. you really should get help from some where..
2006-11-16 13:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by as 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to your parents, a trusted family member, or the guidance counselor at school. You both are way to young to handle this one on your own. Good Luck!
2006-11-16 13:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Shawn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear at this age it is dangerous to have baby. first make sure ur prego. then get urself aborted at the earliest. thats the best for u the baby and the father of the baby..
anyway move fast!!!!
2006-11-16 13:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by adventurous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap! I think I should do sex before this year finishes and I turn 14. ****! Your lucky you beat me! I think you should go with abortion. And doesn't your boyfriend uses a condom!? Jesus!
OMG!!! I need to do sex! :O
2006-11-16 13:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by max p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you can't go to your parents, I would suggest going to a Planned Parenthood clinic. They can offer the best solution:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
2006-11-16 13:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by aznbrik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, Ur life is over. Baby taking care of baby!!!
2006-11-16 13:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
babygirl your just a baby your self talk to your parents if you can or ateacher at school talk to someone good luck
2006-11-16 13:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by SOCK MONKEY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f*ck girl your way to young to be pregnant..and way to young to be a parent you are going to regret it. your in a **** load of trouble
2006-11-16 13:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋