ok me and my wife are now seperated but at one point in time like a week ago she wanted me to sign her payroll check after checking the mail and put my signature on it as well and put it into one of my personal checking account so i did. its fraud but she gave me permission. once the check cleared i took out the money and handed it to her. she called me one day about child support i told her i didnt have it yet. she got all pissed off and her new lover is yelling in the background and all that other crap and he told her as i heard in the background get his *** for signing your check. so they went down to the police and reported i signed the check without her permission which is a lie and now im being investigated. what in the hell can i do in this kinda situation to protect myself and stay outta jail?
2006-11-16 13:51:18 · 8 answers · asked by jerry1282004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
***breaking the law w/ someone else's permission does NOT make it right. you should've known it was a set up if indeed it did happen the way u say. it's your word against hers and it doesn't sound like she's exactly on your side right now.
2006-11-16 13:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the police to give you a lie detector test to you and the wife about the check, this is the only way to get the truth out.
As for child support, I think that your ex should've understood that you didn't have the money right then and there and that she should really grow up and be a woman.
What ever you do, don't say anything at all to your ex or your ex's boyfriend, invest in a handheld pocket voice recorder and keep it on you, every single time you have a run in with these people, this is also another way you can keep your innocence. Tell the police the truth and stick to it. That's all you can do. Good luck.
2006-11-16 22:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guest she set you up now you have to go threw all of this h@ll for her and her boy friend was she worth it.This is going to cost you how much for a lawyer then back child support.A MAN PAYS THE CHILD'S SUPPORT but you are paying the boyfriends support.You signed the check,don't have any proof you gave her money to her as you say ed after it cleared the bank.They probably will lock you up in prison for what you did.Pay the child support be a man.The best thing to do is move out of State before the police brings charges.
2006-11-16 22:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still married and deposited her check by her instruction in the family account. There is no fraud there. Unless she is disputing that you gave her her money you did nothing wrong. When the police come to investigte explain your issue with her and the new live in. They are aware enough to write this off. How you deal with this in future is to return the check unopened to her employer who may not be aware of her change of address. That could get her terminated. Oh My. Next move is to get a lawyer, file for divorce, get a restraining order against the new butt hole and sue for custody and child support. It should not be to difficult with her living in sin and all. Manditory child support is part of the divorce decree.
2006-11-16 23:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill your wife, no don't do that! First of all you should not have signed her check for her, dumb move! Second, you should have recorded the conversation or had it written down, so that way when she tried something like this you would have proof.
2006-11-16 21:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by toya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This site http://getyourexback.toptips.org teaches how to use tiny little text messages to create a whole new relationship with your ex (no matter how bad things were before)
2014-09-24 14:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing much you can do about it now, could ou really go to jail for something like that, I don't think so, just try and get the money to her A.S.A.P.
2006-11-16 22:01:08 · answer #7 · answered by glasgow girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋